u/SpearOfMidnight

So this was a few years ago but I thought i'd share. I was visiting London solo my first time, I was 20 at the time. It was late when I checked into my room and planned to use my vibrator to get off and go to sleep. I went through my bags several times but it was obvious I had forgot to pack it.

Horny brain hatched a plan. Go downstairs to the bar and try to seduce the barman, maybe he can take me in the office and fuck me over a desk and he was kinda cute (he wasn't i was just horny).

As I sat at the bar the bartender was not picking up on my heavy signals. Aside from throwing off my clothes and saying take me it felt like a bust and i'd have to just use my fingers. As I sulked into my drink an older man sat next to me. His hair was mostly gray but it suited him and he had a very neatly trimmed goatee. He had strong hands with manicured nails he took care of himself, I imagined his body was probably trim too and he smelled amazing.

He had an easy smile and I imagined he was probably very successful with women. "Can I sit here miss?". I stumbled over my words replying to him and I realised I was attracted to him, not horny brain attracted, genuinely attracted. I felt my cheeks redden and I just starred into my drink. I wanted to speak but couldn't.

Fortunately he led the conversation, he asked where I was from, why I was visiting, how long I was here, what I did for work, everything, it felt like we had a real connection. I made my move. I took his hand that was resting on the bar and caressed it. He wasn't as dim as the barman and I jumped at the chance when he invited me to his room.

As soon as the room door opened we threw ourselves at each other. A flurry of making out and clothes coming off. He really was in great shape, everything toned but not muscular. I took his pants off and he had an impressive cock. Thick but not overly long (about 7 inches at a guess). I dropped to my knees as I wanted to taste him. I wrapped my lips around his stiffening cock and went to work. He had his hand on the back of my head and even though i hadn't been going long he yelled and filled my mouth with his cum.

He apologised and explained he hadn't had sex in a while and retreated to the bathroom. I wasn't to bothered he came early i just chalked it up to being talented. I waited naked on the bed while he was in the bathroom. When he returned he said "lets see to you" and dived face first into my crotch. He really knew what he was doing licking and sucking my clit like a starving man finally getting a meal and it wasn't long till I was gripping the bed sheets. My orgasm hit hard and I let go and screamed a little not caring if there were guests in the next room.

As he came up he said "I think I'm ready" his cock was hard again. I got on all fours and trembled as he pushed his cock into me. It was so gloriously thick it felt like it was filling me completely. Each thrust felt incredible and I wanted to give him a memorable finish so as I was about to cum I yelled "yes! Fuck! Please! Daddy! Cum inside me please!". One last deep thrust and I felt every pulse of his cock as he came inside me. We spent the night together cuddling in a slightly sticky mess.

In the morning I had the nerve to ask how old he was. I thought he was in his 40s. He was actually 58. Older than my dad at the time! He said he had been divorced for 10 years and the last person he had sex with was his wife. We stayed in contact for a while after and he even sent me flowers on my birthday and Christmas. Eventually we stopped communicating and I assume he remarried. He deserves it.

First I'll address the elephant in the room. Yes, the clientele are on the older side. Yes, this is normal. Bath houses/saunas are part of gay culture dating back to ancient Greece. The younger generation have access to tools now that elder queers didn't have (smart phones and apps) and that's fine but bath houses are important queer spaces that should be used and protected and the younger crowd is slowly coming around to using them. I'll get of my soap box now.

Ok so my visit to W3 was unplanned but I happened to be in the area and had to change my plans last minute due to work. After hitting the buzzer I was let in in seconds rather than being left waiting on the street. I imagine this is a huge relief to any men who may be on the DL. After paying, receiving my towel and some cheeky banter with the owner (Paul?) I got changed and headed in.

Wow this place is clean. Really clean. At one point I saw the owner mopping the area outside the saunas/showers. Tile floors its to be expected that the floors get wet but it was being attended to constantly while I was there. Huge plus.

After showering i tried the dry sauna first. Temperature was a little lower than what I'm used to but not unpleasant. Gentleman next to me tried to initiate a hand job and while I was horny and he was skilled with his hands i was just looking to relax and a polite "no" was all it took. The conversation among the other men turned to the world cup which doesn't interest me so I left.

Took a dip in the hot tub next. ITS OUTDOORS! Personally LOVE this. Its a walled/fenced off area so its not like you have onlookers besides other patrons and the area has sun loungers too so you can get that all over tan (weather permitting). I soaked in the tub for a good 20 minutes. Temperature was great and jets strong enough they lifted me off my ass when I first sat down. Had the tub to myself though with no company so I continued to explore.

Steam room. The steam was THICK when I entered. Hot, steamy exactly how I like it. I could feel my muscles unwind in there. Since I was heading to the play rooms next I decided to pre-game and masturbate for a while. As the steam cleared a little I realised there was a guy sitting opposite me stroking his delicious looking cock. I smiled and headed to the play rooms hoping he would get the hint.

He did not get the hint. First play room I encountered was a porn theatre style get up. Large screen with plenty of seating space. I sat and watched the (gay) porn for a while but the boys in it weren't to my taste so I moved on. Next room was a straight porn room for you bi men (myself included). I took a seat and after a while of jerking it alone I was joined by a partner. He sat between my legs (a space i made available for him) and he started to give me one of the best blow jobs I ever received. As I was getting to the leg shaking point of no return I said I didn't want to cum just yet he gave my knee a squeeze and moved on as I wondered how he did that with his mouth.

Row of gloryholes each with a small screen showing porn. The cubicles evoke the public bathroom vibe complete with little latch lock inside. Attention to detail I appreciate. As I was close to orgasm I did not partake but wished I could.

Round the corner there was a hobby horse with stirrups should you wish to bottom and a large X with wrist straps. Gentlemen were chatting here so I didn't explore further into the apparatus.

Group room, wow, it was spacious. Bed large enough for around 10 guys and additional standing/seating space. I switched my locker key band from wrist to ankle to indicate I wanted to bottom and climbed on board. Didn't take long to get a partner and it wasn't long till I was receiving the administrations of 5 men. A padded cushion (helpfully provided by the sauna) beneath my ass to help with angle I had one guy plowing my ass (using the condom i insisted upon), a guy in each hand, one in my mouth and another blowing me. Heaven. After one of the guys I was jerking came on my face and I moaned to say I liked it, it didn't take long for the guy I was blowing to coat my throat and face further with the guy in my left hand following hitting my chest with a thick load. Guy in my ass continued abit longer but removed his cock took off the condom and blew on my cock and stomach. As he did I jerked till I came. A few guys watching clapped.. and I had completed a fantasy i'd had for a while.

To wrap up, W3 is spotlessly clean with the bins used for tissues even emptied regularly all while the staff remain unseen. Condoms and lube easily found in your locker at entry with more around the facility. Wasn't the busiest but still enough in for group fun. Crowd not as talkative as Acqua but I wasn't there to talk anyway. Great variety of facilities to use and I didn't even see it all! I'm sure there must be a swing and probably a dark room but I was spent in the best way!

4/5 W3 is a must visit in Blackpool.

First time visiting Acqua so I went in with no expectations. Lovely welcome by the owner at the door who showed me to the lockers and the communal area which put me at ease and feel welcome. The clientele was decidedly on the older side which isn't a factor for myself but could be on your visit.

Sauna itself was heavenly. Perfect temperature. Met a guy in there and we watched each other masturbate while chatting about various topics. Easy, laid back, no pressure. Went our separate ways when I decided to check out more of the facilities.

Steam room was excellent. No one in when I was there but this just ment I could lay down and soak it all in peacefully.

Took a walk of the various cabins, gloryholes and porn rooms (gay and straight porn available). Took a seat in one of the gloryholes and blew 1 visitor. Don't think he had sex in a while because the load he blew was massive damn near choking me but was fun.

Hung out in the porn theatre/play room for a while and had some fun with a bear (not usually the type of go for but he was sweet with a nice cock).

Tried the hot tub which by far was the best feature of the venue. Temperature, strength of the jets, even the choice of decor in there was to my tastes. I could have stayed there all night and really took the stresses of the week away.

Must have been closing time at the clubs as 4 younger guys (late 20s) joined me in the hot tub for a soak. After some discussion we all decided to get a cabin together. I'd recount my experience but it was quite cramped with the 5 of us and limbs were everywhere.

To summarise, nice little venue with friendly clientele if on the mature side. Condoms and lube could sometimes be hard to find but by asking the regulars seemed to be a ready supply. Some of the cabins could be quite small with multiple partners and there was a lack of comfortable viewing areas should you like to be watched. Upstairs area was kinda dark and had a baffling dark corner which served no purpose (some small light strips would go a long way). Not the busiest sauna by far but a comfortable one to visit and exist in a gay space within our culture.

3/5 average experience (maybe good for a first timer)

Thinking of trying W3 Blackpool next.

So my husband had gone off sex recently, we still have sex but less frequently than we used to. When I confronted him about it he said my vagina "opens up" on the inside making it less enjoyable. He described it as fine for the first couple of inches but then nothing "kinda like a lightbulb" was his descriptor. He was being kind and tactful in his description which I appreciated and he said he had been with a few women like this and it kinda makes orgasm hard for him. I do strengthening exercises all the time but this doesn't sound like something kegals can fix. Are there any other women like this out there that can offer advice? I want him to enjoy sex as much as I do.

I (F44) have a semen fetish. It's not the taste or smell that does it for me but the sight and feel of it.

It started with my first boyfriend. I wasn't ready to have sex yet and he was sweet and understanding about it, didn't try to pressure me. During a heavy makeout session I gave him a hand job. When he came and I felt it on my hand it excited me. It was like a switch flipping.

As time went on and I had more sexual partners I discovered I liked the feel of it anywhere on my body. I preferred to give blow or hand jobs to guys asking them to cum on my face or breasts and guys were all too happy to oblige. Some wondered why I didn't want regular sex but I preferred to fulfill my kink and get myself off later thinking about the experience.

With longer term partners I would tell them to pull out after regular sex because I wasn't on birth control (this was a lie) and they could finish wherever they liked. One boyfriend had a thing for feet and feeling cum between my toes was a new one for me and I loved it but it wasn't my favourite (facial is my favourite).

Now I'm happily married, though in an open relationship, and my husband is aware of my fetish and indulges it. I don't know if other women share my kink and I'm not willing to ask my female friends.