u/SpearOfMidnight

So my husband had gone off sex recently, we still have sex but less frequently than we used to. When I confronted him about it he said my vagina "opens up" on the inside making it less enjoyable. He described it as fine for the first couple of inches but then nothing "kinda like a lightbulb" was his descriptor. He was being kind and tactful in his description which I appreciated and he said he had been with a few women like this and it kinda makes orgasm hard for him. I do strengthening exercises all the time but this doesn't sound like something kegals can fix. Are there any other women like this out there that can offer advice? I want him to enjoy sex as much as I do.

I (F44) have a semen fetish. It's not the taste or smell that does it for me but the sight and feel of it.

It started with my first boyfriend. I wasn't ready to have sex yet and he was sweet and understanding about it, didn't try to pressure me. During a heavy makeout session I gave him a hand job. When he came and I felt it on my hand it excited me. It was like a switch flipping.

As time went on and I had more sexual partners I discovered I liked the feel of it anywhere on my body. I preferred to give blow or hand jobs to guys asking them to cum on my face or breasts and guys were all too happy to oblige. Some wondered why I didn't want regular sex but I preferred to fulfill my kink and get myself off later thinking about the experience.

With longer term partners I would tell them to pull out after regular sex because I wasn't on birth control (this was a lie) and they could finish wherever they liked. One boyfriend had a thing for feet and feeling cum between my toes was a new one for me and I loved it but it wasn't my favourite (facial is my favourite).

Now I'm happily married, though in an open relationship, and my husband is aware of my fetish and indulges it. I don't know if other women share my kink and I'm not willing to ask my female friends.