u/Specific_Advantage52

I’m a lesbian. I’ve never had sexual or romantic attraction towards men. Never been in a relationship with a man. Never had a desire to ever try and have sex with one either. I am also neurodivergent, and I crave physical touch and stimulation. The sensation of physical impact or rope is something my body craves, and those endorphins really help my body regulate.

I’ve always known I was kinky and practiced it privately with women for a while. Around a year ago I joined my local scene and believed I would always play with women. The play I engage in ranges between platonic intimacy and sensual play. I’ve yet to do a truly sexual scene at events, as for me, thats usually reserved for private play.

For a few months I only played with women publicly on the scene, however I recently have started playing platonically with men I am friends with. The play is mostly spanking or mouth soaping, with maybe some hair pulling and face slapping too. These scenes were purely kinky with no sensual aspect to it, and some of these scenes were downright mean and cruel (totally consensual). We just shared a comforting hug and a cool down chat afterwards.

Theres something really intriguing about male domination that I’m starting to love. It’s just a very different form of domination to femdom, and the men I have engaged in this play with are just kindhearted gentlemen that truly respect my boundaries around sex and are happy to be friends and engage in non sexual play. A lot of them have multiple partners/ play parters ect. so they are getting those needs met elsewhere which makes me quite happy and safe as well.

Am I wrong for actually enjoying male domination as a lesbian. Like it’s totally platonic for me and has never brought up any other feelings. However it just feels weird for me as a lesbian to genuinely enjoy scenes that I am having with men, is there any other lesbians that have these arrangements in the kink world with cis men. I’m just curious

I’m a lesbian. I’ve never had sexual or romantic attraction towards men. Never been in a relationship with a man. Never had a desire to ever try and have sex with one either. I am also neurodivergent, and I crave physical touch and stimulation. The sensation of physical impact or rope is something my body craves, and those endorphins really help my body regulate.

I’ve always known I was kinky and practiced it privately with women for a while. Around a year ago I joined my local scene and believed I would always play with women. The play I engage in ranges between platonic intimacy and sensual play. I’ve yet to do a truly sexual scene at events, as for me, thats usually reserved for private play.

For a few months I only played with women publicly on the scene, however I recently have started playing platonically with men I am friends with. The play is mostly spanking or mouth soaping, with maybe some hair pulling and face slapping too. These scenes were purely kinky with no sensual aspect to it, and some of these scenes were downright mean and cruel (totally consensual). We just shared a comforting hug and a cool down chat afterwards.

Theres something really intriguing about male domination that I’m starting to love. It’s just a very different form of domination to femdom, and the men I have engaged in this play with are just kindhearted gentlemen that truly respect my boundaries around sex and are happy to be friends and engage in non sexual play. A lot of them have multiple partners/ play parters ect. so they are getting those needs met elsewhere which makes me quite happy and safe as well.

Am I wrong for actually enjoying male domination as a lesbian. Like it’s totally platonic for me and has never brought up any other feelings. However it just feels weird for me as a lesbian to genuinely enjoy scenes that I am having with men, is there any other lesbians that have these arrangements in the kink world with cis men. I’m just curious

I’m a lesbian. I’ve never had sexual or romantic attraction towards men. Never been in a relationship with a man. Never had a desire to ever try and have sex with one either. I am also neurodivergent, and I crave physical touch and stimulation. The sensation of physical impact or rope is something my body craves, and those endorphins really help my body regulate.

I’ve always known I was kinky and practiced it privately with women for a while. Around a year ago I joined my local scene and believed I would always play with women. The play I engage in ranges between platonic intimacy and sensual play. I’ve yet to do a truly sexual scene at events, as for me, thats usually reserved for private play.

For a few months I only played with women publicly on the scene, however I recently have started playing platonically with men I am friends with. The play is mostly spanking or mouth soaping, with maybe some hair pulling and face slapping too. These scenes were purely kinky with no sensual aspect to it, and some of these scenes were downright mean and cruel (totally consensual). We just shared a comforting hug and a cool down chat afterwards.

Theres something really intriguing about male domination that I’m starting to love. It’s just a very different form of domination to femdom, and the men I have engaged in this play with are just kindhearted gentlemen that truly respect my boundaries around sex and are happy to be friends and engage in non sexual play. A lot of them have multiple partners/ play parters ect. so they are getting those needs met elsewhere which makes me quite happy and safe as well.

Am I wrong for actually enjoying male domination as a lesbian. Like it’s totally platonic for me and has never brought up any other feelings. However it just feels weird for me as a lesbian to genuinely enjoy scenes that I am having with men, is there any other lesbians that have these arrangements in the kink world with cis men. I’m just curious

I’m a lesbian. I’ve never had sexual or romantic attraction towards men. Never been in a relationship with a man. Never had a desire to ever try and have sex with one either. I am also neurodivergent, and I crave physical touch and stimulation. The sensation of physical impact or rope is something my body craves, and those endorphins really help my body regulate.

I’ve always known I was kinky and practiced it privately with women for a while. Around a year ago I joined my local scene and believed I would always play with women. The play I engage in ranges between platonic intimacy and sensual play. I’ve yet to do a truly sexual scene at events, as for me, thats usually reserved for private play.

For a few months I only played with women publicly on the scene, however I recently have started playing platonically with men I am friends with. The play is mostly spanking or mouth soaping, with maybe some hair pulling and face slapping too. These scenes were purely kinky with no sensual aspect to it, and some of these scenes were downright mean and cruel (totally consensual). We just shared a comforting hug and a cool down chat afterwards.

Theres something really intriguing about male domination that I’m starting to love. It’s just a very different form of domination to femdom, and the men I have engaged in this play with are just kindhearted gentlemen that truly respect my boundaries around sex and are happy to be friends and engage in non sexual play. A lot of them have multiple partners/ play parters ect. so they are getting those needs met elsewhere which makes me quite happy and safe as well.

Am I wrong for actually enjoying male domination as a lesbian. Like it’s totally platonic for me and has never brought up any other feelings. However it just feels weird for me as a lesbian to genuinely enjoy scenes that I am having with men, is there any other lesbians that have these arrangements in the kink world with cis men. I’m just curious.