u/Substantial_Bad8119

Boyfriend is more interested in disc, gaming ,Ai and shady behaviour. We have been together a few months., he takes ❄️ stays up playing games all night and I’ve found him msging girls around me, generally being beggy and pathetic to other women. He has msgd me thinking he has msgd someone else. He has girl mates but preaches how a gf should use friends or belong to the streets blah blah

I’m a hyper sexual BBW woman, I try to initiate. I suggest games and stuff. I dress up but it goes unnoticed when
I’ve woken up to him msging girls in his PC , he leaves and goes to the bathroom for ages at a time and leaves me alone. I’ve brought this up with this so many times and he doesn’t admit it just keeps apologising. He would rather stay glued to the screen

I’m very chill. I don’t ask for much. He can game and do what he wants I’m not bothered but being so good to him ,it’s such a slap in the face. Like if he has an issue it would be something I’d talk about like I have been open/fine with so many things. It’s hurts so much and the disrespect I feel when he msgs ppl and cause he is high makes me feel so ill I can’t stay with him anymore it’s forcing me to hate him

I totally get all guys watch porn , have weird chats and have little secrets fo sure. I defo let more go than most of its fun and focussed. The problem is the LIES. But he acts shady. Sneaky. Like more than anyone else I’ve known. It’s either purposely done or he is just that dumb buts the sloppy lazy. Lustful way he acts is embarassing.

Basically. What do you think I should do , would you stay and keep working with someone that disrespects you and makes you feel like a spare part and nothing majority of the time you are with them. Or would you leave someone who needs some patience and guidance/ how long would you give them ?