u/Sufficient_Shame_572

My mother is cheating? 51yo

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My father left 5 yrs ago while my mother carried his work( which mainly involves male collogues)Earlier she used to be housewife only.He made friends also after working which includes 1-2 women but majorly men however,I always feel his male colleagues or friends have other intentions towards her.I sometimes feel my mother is no less.

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1. I caught him talking at night to some ( around 3 am).

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2. Someone ( Male ) wished her on bday and said "age se logi gift ya piche se" n she laughed.I was young back then so didn't understand.

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3. She also has a married' man ( lets say X) as a friend.She went with him to Rishikesh ( along with his family as claimed by her ) but in pictures I saw nobody from X family like his wife and friends.

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4. She went to celebrate his bday in the restaurant along with Mr. X and his 3 friends.But again when I saw pictures, they were cutting cake in the hotel rooms ( hotel was of one of Mr.X frnds)

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Is it normal? Am I thinking too much ?guide me pls

My mother (51 yo ) and his male friends

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My father left 5 yrs ago while my mother carried his work( which mainly involves male collogues)Earlier she used to be housewife only.He made friends also after working which includes 1-2 women but majorly men however,I always feel his male colleagues or friends have other intentions towards her.I sometimes feel my mother is no less.

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1. I caught him talking at night to some ( around 3 am).

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2. Someone ( Male ) wished her on bday and said "age se logi gift ya piche se" n she laughed.I was young back then so didn't understand.

​

3. She also has a married' man ( lets say X) as a friend.She went with him to Rishikesh ( along with his family as claimed by her ) but in pictures I saw nobody from X family like his wife and friends.

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4. She went to celebrate his bday in the restaurant along with Mr. X and his 3 friends.But again when I saw pictures, they were cutting cake in the hotel rooms ( hotel was of one of Mr.X frnds)

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Is it normal? Am I thinking too much ?Is it ok?

My mother (51 yo ) and his male frnds

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My father left 5 yrs ago while my mother carried his work( which mainly involves male collogues)Earlier she used to be housewife only.He made friends also after working which includes 1-2 women but majorly men however,I always feel his male colleagues or friends have other intentions towards her.I sometimes feel my mother is no less.

​

1. I caught him talking at night to some ( around 3 am).

​

2. Someone ( Male ) wished her on bday and said "age se logi gift ya piche se" n she laughed.I was young back then so didn't understand.

​

3. She also has a married' man ( lets say X) as a friend.She went with him to Rishikesh ( along with his family as claimed by her ) but in pictures I saw nobody from X family like his wife and friends.

​

4. She went to celebrate his bday in the restaurant along with Mr. X and his 3 friends.But again when I saw pictures, they were cutting cake in the hotel rooms ( hotel was of one of Mr.X frnds)

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Is it normal? Am I thinking too much ?Is it ok?