35 [F4M] #Denton -Maybe you’re looking for me too
I’m looking for the person who’s sitting there reading this thinking, “Holy shit… this is exactly how I feel.”
Maybe you feel stuck in your marriage. Maybe you have a good spouse, but somewhere along the way you’ve become roommates instead of partners. Maybe you feel unseen. Maybe you’re carrying around a kind of loneliness that’s really hard to explain unless you’ve lived it yourself.
That’s where I’m at.
I have a great husband, and I’d say I have a good marriage overall. But over time we’ve become two different people, and the connection that used to be there just… isn’t. I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life, and I’m not asking you to either. I’m just looking for that spark that’s been missing.
I want someone who gets excited to hear from me, and someone I get excited to hear from. I want the random good morning texts, the “you won’t believe what happened today” stories, the flirting, the laughing, the deep conversations, and even the naughty ones too. I want someone I can tell everythingggggg to—the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing, the exciting—and I want that to go both ways.
I’m looking for my person.
I’m looking for someone who’s emotionally available. Read that again… EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE. Someone who’s consistent and actually wants to build something more than just exchanging photos or talking about your dead bedroom. Someone who’s curious, open-minded, and isn’t afraid to explore parts of themselves they’ve maybe kept hidden. Someone who understands that discretion isn’t optional.
A few things that are pretty non-negotiable for me:
• You’re 35 or older.
• You have kids.
• You’re 5’11” or taller (I’m a giant 😂).
• You’re white.
• Andddddd… we talk on Telegram. That’s my app of choice, and I really don’t want to move the conversation anywhere else.
A little about me: I’m a busy working mom, so life is chaos mosttttt days. I’m also a plus-size woman (an SSBBW), so if you don’t know what that means, Google is your friend. 😅 I’m confident in who I am, and I’m looking for someone who appreciates that.
My schedule is crazy, but one thing about me is that I make time for the people who matter. If I care about you, you’ll know it. I’ll prioritize you in all the ways you’re probably not being prioritized right now.
I’d also like to exchange photos fairly early on. Attraction matters, and I’d rather know we’re both interested before we invest a lot of time. But if I’m being honest, what I’m really looking for is that natural emotional connection. The kind where you can’t wait to tell someone about your day. The kind where seeing their name pop up makes you smile.
If any of this sounds like you, send me a message. Tell me your story. Tell me what you’re missing. Tell me what made you stop scrolling.
Maybe we’re both looking for the same thing.