The term anchor, and advice!
So I am a 33 male, and have just recently learned the term "anchor in this community. For years I never new how to describe what I felt.
But being very demisxual and a pleasure dom. I have never been able to just receive pleasure from a first date. Or just have a random beautiful women touch me and I get hard. I need that demisxual connection or pleasure dom connection of my sub to really turn my brain off.
I've always wanted to just have sex with a random beautiful women, but the connection not being there I don't really know how.
Having a women who I have that connection with, to hold my hand and talk me through being comfortable to receiving pleasure with another women.
It's not so much a threesome kink. But the anchor being in control and helping create a safe space for me to learn something new.
I might have this term wrong, or posting in the wrong space. But just wanted to ask if this makes sense or just guidance.