u/TheSweetestSurrender

The first time I've felt peace

My "Dom", although we don't really label it, saw that I had a need.

We'd had a tough weekend, I'd had a bad day, I felt disconnected and needed reassurance.

He realized the role he needed to play, he took control, even though over the phone, he told me to close my eyes, wrap each hand tightly around a thigh, and imagine it's him holding me tight as he told me how important I am to him, that he is mine and I am his. That when we are together again, how he is going to remind me just how true that is.

It's actually a bit of a blur, but it was a lot of instruction, a lot of "do you understand?" And I felt myself sink into his words. He asked if I needed a release, I came, I cried and he just stayed on the phone with me.

This is fairly new to both of us, and it felt so fucking right. To be able to surrender to him fully, and he said his heart felt full that he could be there for me.

It's so good, I fear nothing else will compare. And nothing else will ever be good enough in comparison.

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u/TheSweetestSurrender — 4 days ago

Doms, thoughts on commanding your sub to say 'i love you' for the first time?

It's a little fantasy... I want to tell my Dom I love him, but I want him to tell me to say it.

How would I even tell him that it's something I desire without... Saying it?

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u/TheSweetestSurrender — 6 days ago

Subs often talk about the attachment they feel to a Dom, romantically or otherwise when they have subbed. Do Doms also get attached?

I've seen quite a few posts from subs concerned, or even gushing about their attachment to a Dom. Do Doms also get a surprise attachment, or maybe intentional from Domming?

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u/TheSweetestSurrender — 14 days ago

Can you have submission without love?

Does it happen naturally? Those who can have submission without love, does it take extra effort?

Or do you enjoy the part of submission that makes you fall? Is the fall expected?

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u/TheSweetestSurrender — 22 days ago