u/The_Autistic_Sloth

I was talking recently to a friend of mine and realised how odd it is that I’ve never actually finished from head. Before anyone says the age old ‘All guys say that to get better head’ I am writing this online on Reddit - nothing is happening from this 😂

It’s more just a fascinating thing I’ve come (or cum - puns) to realise that I’ve never experienced. The weird thing is I love blowjobs, which years ago I thought they were hella overrated. But now I actually really love them and the sounds of someone gagging and slurping on it (yay sloppy head) make me very very feral. But it’s like an inability to finish from it, it’s always a warm up to sex for me, or me giving them head instead.

Anyone else find this is the case?

I’ve had a really, really trying past 24 hours. Things have been…a whole lot of not very good. Usually when I’m stressed or depressive I resort to distracting myself whether it’s going gym, for a walk, gaming, or something a tad more 18+. I hope this post is okay :)

In any case I figure it might be really cool to talk to others about kink! In this community which we’re all quite close in! So what’s your kinks? Share as much as you feel comfortable, if you’re comfortable. What do you love, and why?

I’ll start; I love being dominant. I love knowing I’m pleasing someone and controlling that for them, I also love when someone plays up against me - I love a brat. Also big one; breeding! For me it’s unbelievably hot the idea of filling someone again and again. I have plenty but those are just two!

Hey all 👋🏻

Given that I suffer sensory issues and texture issues, I was very surprised when I became sexually active to learn that I actually really, really fucking love pubic hair.

I’m a male and I’m straight, so when I see a hairy vagina I honestly love it. I’ve definitely got a bit of an oral fixation - I believe that’s the term? I am pretty obsessive with it, it’s my favourite thing and i especially love it when there’s some hair there too. Be it a little or a bush altogether.

Sadly it seems like a little bit of a lost art nowadays which is a shame, literally only one person I’ve been with had some and I absolutely loved it.

Does anyone else find themselves loving some hair? Or is it a total turn off? Of course everyone is different :)

Hey all 👋🏻

I am autistic as well as having ADHD for context. I have learned that there are some correlating links between those and hypersexuality, which offered me a large sense of understanding which is nice :)

I believe I often times use my sexual urges and thoughts etc as a means to cope, when I’m stressed, or have a bad day or receive bad news, I often find my mind wanders to a sexual place - and very often, to getting me somewhere where I can get off.

I also think there’s an element of routine to it - I every single morning before I go to work or gym or whatever the day is holding, feel an overwhelming urge to masturbate - and if I don’t, I will genuinely not perform at my best. It’s frustrating because sometimes I simply don’t have the time.

Does anyone else find their sexual urges are worse when stressed or depressive etc? It makes sense given the dopamine associated with the orgasms, but I’m curious.

Thanks in advance for answers and also for reading :)

Hello all! 👋🏻

I’m curious as to anyone else on the spectrum whom has felt a similar sort of way. For the longest time now, several years in honesty, I’ve really felt as if I am incredibly sexual.

I don’t want to be unnecessarily graphic but I have a ridiculously high sex drive and am basically always horny, or become it incredibly easily.

I’m firstly unsure if this is just a very, very high sex drive or is hypersexual - I do find it at times interferes with my plans and things, which is what makes me think it could be. I’ll miss going gym, or be late for events or rot in bed masturbating etc. due to it.

Secondly, I’ve always wondered if there is some sort of link between us on the spectrum and those hypersexual urges.

Curious to gather anyone else’s thoughts - hope you’re having a great if you read this far, have a cookie 🍪