What are some things your regulars do that irritate you but you put up with because the money is good. Maybe even crazy stuff other companions may not tolerate. For me, one of my regs drinks heavily and there have been many 24hr bookings where he sleeps for 16 hours straight and rambles in his sleep. I may be bored but I am getting paid.
I have straight teeth, but I am considering braces to absolutely perfect my smile. I’m not a candidate for Invisalign and it seems I’m going to have to get old-school braces. Do I need to disclose this on my website or something along those lines? Do clients care about this? 😭
I have men that I meet throughout my personal life that invite me on trips. Which is bold because we have no rapport. They may be have flirted with me a few times on IG. Maybe I prioritize physical cash over an experience like a trip but the getting flown out gig is escorting for free, to me at least.
In these guys defense, I am constantly traveling. I’m next to impossible to track down and take out on a date. So maybe in their minds they think inviting me on a vacation is more appealing or a definite way to see me.
I’ve always rejected these invitations and it’s mostly because I have too much going on to squeeze in a 2-3 day trip that’s ultimately free labor. Plus I would be irritated if I was on one of these excursions and a client wanted to book me. As time passes, I am not as fearful of being seen as an escort, it is what it is. I am debating if I should tell the men that invite me on trips that I am actually a travel companion, and if they would like to connect, what my rate would be..
I already imagine someone not being interested and they go tell all their buddies where we live that I’m a professional. But I’m torn between why should I even care.
I have some regulars that do extended bookings and we see each other monthly. I have been kind of a hermit lately and in the last year, my friends are too busy with their partners and kids to do anything beyond meet for a drink. I’ve had female friendships that have fizzled out, so I’ve lost my travel partners and single friends to do fun stuff with. Which is basically what gave me interesting things to talk about and stories.
Give me a new three hour booking and I can talk your ear off, but people that I’m seeing regularly I’m running out of content. I honestly feel like I’m having some sort of identity crisis because I just work and save and for what.. like my whole life is my job currently. I like my job, but I can’t talk to my regulars about the trip I just went on with a client. Why are some things you guys do to I guess have fun or remain interesting?
I have been an escort for a long time, and I can say the majority of my clients are attractive professionals. I haven’t had an unpleasant experience in years.
I had a new client who was in great shape, a businessman with references, stopping to meet me on his way to the train. I had one booking after him at my hotel. As soon as he took his clothes off he smelled so badly of BO, I was disgusted. It seemed to get worse through the booking. I proposed he shower and he reassured me he just showered at home. the only thing that made me feel remotely better was that he was also subjecting an entire train of people to this stench, not only me.
Anyways to make matters worse I had a booking 40 mins later, and my hotel room smelled fucking rancid. I ran to Walgreens and bought candles and Lysol, ran the shower on hot and propped the hotel room door wide open in hopes it would air out. I’m irate from this clients hygiene and the fact I had to scramble to eliminate the looming smell, ugh what a fucking disaster of a day. And then this client that smelled emailed me to tell me what an amazing time he had, seriously just receiving an email alert from him made my skin crawl. I’m clearly a stellar actress but I’m wondering if I should’ve been a bitch. I think I’m too nice. I’ve been working for so long and haven’t had a bad experience like this, it’s like I forgot. ugh how do you erase this from your mind