u/Throwawayz181

I would describe myself as very romantic, and although I am (and enjoy being) very dominant, at my core is a warmth that always prioritizes consent and makes sure my partner is satisfied and fulfilled in their own ways as well. I like to think that I shine in knowing when to be dominant and when to be sweet and how to mix them. I will just as readily pin you down as I will wrap my arms around you and cover you with kisses. If you are new to bdsm, we could have a really good time getting to know each other and exploring and learning and growing together. And if you have more experience, I will quickly take to your interests and desires and learn how best to make sure you are also satisfied. Consent and aftercare are both incredibly important to me, as are communication and trust at every step.

Physical / Appearance

I'm 6'4, 29 years old, ~220lbs, white, cis man with short brown hair and medium length full facial hair (beard & mustache & sideburns), blue eyes, and I live in Minnesota. I would describe myself as conventionally attractive. I also have a very deep voice.

Hobbies / Interests

I would definitely say I am “nerdy”. I have an advanced degree, and I like science and research and just learning in general. For fun I like to read, play board games & videogames, watch tv/movies, listen to music / go to live music, cook/bake, and enjoy the outdoors as much as possible (things like hiking, camping, kayaking, birding). I like going out just as much as staying in and am just as happy putting on my hiking boots and hitting a trail as I am staying in comfy clothes and melting into my couch.

I have a very active lifestyle and exercise nearly every day. I still occasionally enjoy unhealthy food and can easily be persuaded to get a sweet treat, but overall my health is very important to me and my diet and exercise reflect that.

Kinks

Some of my main kinks are roleplay, cosplay, lingerie, shibari, free use, size difference, light humiliation, light degradation, praise, ddlg, impact (rough and light), orgasm control, breath play, cock worship, facials/cum play, spit play, swallowing, deepthroat/throat training (the last 5 are my biggest kinks).

Limits

Cheating, diapers, blood, scat, watersports (but I am okay with squirting), anything that would cause lasting harm, anything illegal.

What I’m looking for:

I am looking for a genuine, loving, romantic, monogamous life partner sub/little. I prefer someone that enjoys being controlled in the bedroom / kink space, and in the relationship in general as well, but is capable of being independent outside of it when they need to / in the case that I am truly fully unavailable. I value my own autonomy and I value yours too, if you choose to relinquish it to me then it is that: a choice. I want to be in a relationship where we depend on each other by choice, not by necessity. I am very loyal, honest, and devoted and I want someone that is the same. I want to find someone that I can share life with and that we can be deeply in love with each other. And I do want to have children someday, when we are both ready for it.

Although we don’t have to have all of our hobbies in common, I would love to find someone that shares at least some of my hobbies. We can have things that we enjoy doing independently, and I will fully support all of your personal passions even if I don’t share them, but I also want to have things that we can enjoy doing together.

I have a definite preference for petite women. Being shorter is a bonus but being tall is good too – I care more about your build. You don’t have to be super fit/athletic, and you don’t have to join me in the gym (but it’s cool if you do), but I do want someone that takes care of themself, and I do have a strong preference for slim/skinny or fit women.

I am open to online / long distance relationships, potentially even international, as long as it is temporary and eventually in-person. I am very happy with where I am in Minnesota, so any online / long distance would be with the expectation that you are willing to relocate (I moved where I am myself by choice and it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made, I’m confident you would love it too).

 

I don't use Reddit much and don't have a "main" account anymore, so this is an old throwaway just for initial privacy, and I 100% understand if you want your privacy at first too, but we’ve talked a little and established rapport I would happily share more pictures / transition to a different communication platform. Thank you for reading, and I look forward to hearing from you and getting to know you 😄

I would describe myself as very romantic, and although I am (and enjoy being) very dominant, at my core is a warmth that always prioritizes consent and makes sure my partner is satisfied and fulfilled in their own ways as well. I like to think that I shine in knowing when to be dominant and when to be sweet and how to mix them. I will just as readily pin you down as I will wrap my arms around you and cover you with kisses. If you are new to bdsm, we could have a really good time getting to know each other and exploring and learning and growing together. And if you have more experience, I will quickly take to your interests and desires and learn how best to make sure you are also satisfied. Consent and aftercare are both incredibly important to me, as are communication and trust at every step.

Physical / Appearance

I'm 6'4, 29 years old, ~220lbs, white, cis man with short brown hair and medium length full facial hair (beard & mustache & sideburns), blue eyes, and I live in Minnesota. I would describe myself as conventionally attractive. I also have a very deep voice.

Hobbies / Interests

I would definitely say I am “nerdy”. I have an advanced degree, and I like science and research and just learning in general. For fun I like to read, play board games & videogames, watch tv/movies, listen to music / go to live music, cook/bake, and enjoy the outdoors as much as possible (things like hiking, camping, kayaking, birding). I like going out just as much as staying in and am just as happy putting on my hiking boots and hitting a trail as I am staying in comfy clothes and melting into my couch.

I have a very active lifestyle and exercise nearly every day. I still occasionally enjoy unhealthy food and can easily be persuaded to get a sweet treat, but overall my health is very important to me and my diet and exercise reflect that.

Kinks

Some of my main kinks are roleplay, cosplay, lingerie, shibari, free use, size difference, light humiliation, light degradation, praise, ddlg, impact (rough and light), orgasm control, breath play, cock worship, facials/cum play, spit play, swallowing, deepthroat/throat training (the last 5 are my biggest kinks).

Limits

Cheating, diapers, blood, scat, watersports (but I am okay with squirting), anything that would cause lasting harm, anything illegal.

What I’m looking for:

I am looking for a genuine, loving, romantic, monogamous life partner sub/little. I prefer someone that enjoys being controlled in the bedroom / kink space, and in the relationship in general as well, but is capable of being independent outside of it when they need to / in the case that I am truly fully unavailable. I value my own autonomy and I value yours too, if you choose to relinquish it to me then it is that: a choice. I want to be in a relationship where we depend on each other by choice, not by necessity. I am very loyal, honest, and devoted and I want someone that is the same. I want to find someone that I can share life with and that we can be deeply in love with each other. And I do want to have children someday, when we are both ready for it.

Although we don’t have to have all of our hobbies in common, I would love to find someone that shares at least some of my hobbies. We can have things that we enjoy doing independently, and I will fully support all of your personal passions even if I don’t share them, but I also want to have things that we can enjoy doing together.

I have a definite preference for petite women. Being shorter is a bonus but being tall is good too – I care more about your build. You don’t have to be super fit/athletic, and you don’t have to join me in the gym (but it’s cool if you do), but I do want someone that takes care of themself, and I do have a strong preference for slim/skinny or fit women.

I am open to online / long distance relationships, potentially even international, as long as it is temporary and eventually in-person. I am very happy with where I am in Minnesota, so any online / long distance would be with the expectation that you are willing to relocate (I moved where I am myself by choice and it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made, I’m confident you would love it too).

 

I don't use Reddit much and don't have a "main" account anymore, so this is an old throwaway just for initial privacy, and I 100% understand if you want your privacy at first too, but we’ve talked a little and established rapport I would happily share more pictures / transition to a different communication platform. Thank you for reading, and I look forward to hearing from you and getting to know you 😄