u/TraciT1998

Just got told in a text by C. " You need a spanking very soon, don’t you think?" Not because of specific misbehavior (although there's been that), but just because it's been a while. My stomach lurched.

Hi all, since I last posted it's become more clear that C. is moving toward keeping me permanently locked full-time -- i.e., releases only for hygiene, Dr's appointments, and so on. That means no releases for sex and no more orgasms. She feels strongly that my transition to being her fulltime housewife should include effectively not having a penis.

I think I'm ready for (and resigned to) this transition, and I've had some long conversations with Claude about the psychological, emotional, and physiological implications. My question is, for those of you who practice FT chastity or close to it, how do you promote intimacy with your partner, find mutual pleasure and fulfillment without conventional sex, and so on? I love going down on her while locked, and we are looking for other ways to help me feel pleasure, enjoyment and connection without being released from my cage.

Thanks and please spare me the "You must be mad" responses. We've thought long and hard and had many conversations about this and we are both confident that it's the right thing for me and for our relationship.