u/Trytostaygood

47 East Coast dad M4F personally inviting you into my inbox. Yes I am talking to you, so take a chance give a read and we make a connection.

It be Friday and I hope your week has been awesome! I figure instead of being one of the 100+ responding to ads that elusive F4M and getting lost in the flood I'd just invite you to my dms, the odds are never in my favor sadly (insert Hunger Games meme). Hell the LAST time I posted the only responses I got were from guys who as you all know, never read. So you Mrs. Lurker who is hesitating? Drop on in.

I want is someone who gets all of this. Who understands the restlessness. The need for something more, not wanting to just accept what what life has given. Yes we *should* be happy, satisfied and yet here we are. I am not one for specific body types (though a total fan of curves mind you), heights or races but just know I AM 5'6, and have a recovering dad bod.

So just who is this guy? 47 a dad, and am not one for games (though currently hooked on Crimson Desert), but am one for communication. Yes conversation, getting to actually know someone lol. I am nerdy, huge on music, a reader, I love to cook, kink friendly and a tad flirty. I have that spicy side that will either make you blush and/or run to the hills or run and drag me to the hills with you. Mind you I don't make it my personality and I do know how to read the room. The humor is from dad to dark, be warned. Finally also big on consent and boundaries, so please say "no" with confidence that I will respect it.

I want you to know I have the time for this, the energy, the motivation. I am on-line when at work AND I work weekends, I am up most nights, so yeah you have me most hours. I am not that guy who types to sentences and then two days later replies. We are trying to build something, and start/stop does not do that. I am no stranger to the OA scene, I have ads and plenty of stuff to dive into, and they are all me. I did the discord server world, and not one for that drama. Ideally to move to discord after Reddit, but can do telegram, just not a fan of Snap, but that is me.

I don't ghost (usually ghosted lol) and tend to abuse parentheses. So drop a line, say hi, we just may become awesome friends.

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u/Trytostaygood — 17 hours ago

47 East Coast dad M4F Happy Sunday, and I am personally inviting you, yes YOU, so take a chance and give a read!

Sunday Funday, yet here we are. So first, thank you. I know you have a ton of us to sort through. Second I know this is a repost (with a few tweaks), but I just figured instead of being one of the 100+ responding to ads that elusive F4M and getting lost in the flood I'd just invite you to my dms, the odds are never in my favor sadly (insert Hunger Games meme). Hell the LAST time I posted the only responses I got were from guys who as you all know, never read. So you Mrs. Lurker who is hesitating? Drop on in.

I want is someone who gets all of this. Who understands the restlessness. The need for something more, not wanting to just accept what what life has given. Yes we *should* be happy, satisfied and yet here we are. I am not one for specific body types (though a total fan of curves mind you), heights or races but just know I AM 5'6, and have a recovering dad bod.

I am wanting to be that guy you can be you, the one you kind of hold back from the world, or that you feel got pushed to the back of the room. My one concession is that please be East Coast or Central, it will make both our lives easier I have learned. I am on when at work (9-6pm, plus drive home) and that does include weekends, I am up most nights, and looking for that someone. I will be the same.

Now me? I am 47 a dad, and am not one for games (ok I am currently hooked on Crimson Desert), but am one for communication. I am nerdy, a reader (new Dungeon Crawler Carl book just arrived), huge on music, I love to cook, I am huge on communication so your ideal answer is just "ok" we probably are going to drive each other nuts. I am kink friendly so yes I have that spicy side that will either make you blush and/or run to the hills or run and drag me to the hills with you, but no it is not my personality and I do know how to read the room. Finally the humor is from dad to dark, be warned.

Know I have the time for this, the energy, the motivation. I am on line when at work AND I work weekends plus I am up most nights, so yeah you have me most hours. I am no stranger to the OA scene, I have ads and plenty of stuff to dive into, and they are all me. I did the server world, and not one for that drama. Ideally to move to discord after Reddit, but can do telegram, just not a fan of Snap, but that is me.

I *THINK* I have covered all bases here lol

I don't ghost (usually ghosted lol) and tend to abuse parentheses. So drop a line, say hi, we just may become awesome friends.

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u/Trytostaygood — 6 days ago

47 M4F, EST, taking a break from the new Dungeon Crawler Carl book to entice you

It be Friday night and I hope the weekend has been awesome! I figure instead of being one of the 100+ responding to ads that elusive F4M and getting lost in the flood I'd just invite you to my dms, yes you Mrs. Lurker who is hesitating. What do you have to lose?

47 a dad, and am not one for games (though currently hooked on Crimson Desert), but am one for communication. Yes conversation, getting to actually know someone lol. I am nerdy, huge on music, a reader, I love to cook, kink friendly and a tad flirty. I have that spicy side that will either make you blush and/or run to the hills or run and drag me to the hills with you. Mind you I don't make it my personality and I do know how to read the room. Finally the humor is from dad to dark, be warned.

All I want is someone who gets all this. The need for something more, not wanting to just accept what what life has given. I am not one asking for body types, races (though a total fan of curves mind you), just know I AM 5'6, and have a recovering dad bod. More than anything though I want you to be yourself. Really that is it! My one concession is that please be East Coast or Central, it will make both our lives easier I have learned.

I want you to know I have the time for this, the energy, the motivation. I am on-line when at work AND I work weekends, I am up most nights, so yeah you have me most hours. I am no stranger to the OA scene, I have ads and plenty of stuff to dive into, and they are all me. I did the discord server world, and not one for that drama. Ideally to move to discord after Reddit, but can do telegram, just not a fan of Snap, but that is me.

I don't ghost (usually ghosted lol) and tend to abuse parentheses. So drop a line, say hi, we just may become awesome friends.

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u/Trytostaygood — 7 days ago
▲ 2 r/OnlineAffairs+1 crossposts

47 East Coast dad M4F personally inviting you. Yes you, so take a chance and give a read!

Ahh Tuesdays, yet here we all are. So first, thank you. I know you have a ton of us to sort through. Second I know this is a repost (with a few tweaks), but I just figured instead of being one of the 100+ responding to ads that elusive F4M and getting lost in the flood I'd just invite you to my dms, the odds are never in my favor sadly (insert Hunger Games meme). Hell the LAST time I posted the only two responses I got were from guys who as you all know, never read. So you Mrs. Lurker who is hesitating? Drop on in.

I want is someone who gets all of this. Who understands the restlessness. The need for something more, not wanting to just accept what what life has given. Yes we *should* be happy, satisfied and yet here we are. I am not one for specific body types (though a total fan of curves mind you), heights or races but just know I AM 5'6, and have a recovering dad bod.

I am wanting to be that guy you can be you, the one you kind of hold back from the world, or that you feel got pushed to the back of the room. My one concession is that please be East Coast or Central, it will make both our lives easier I have learned.

Now me? I am 47 a dad, and am not one for games (ok maybe Street Fighter), but am one for communication. I am nerdy, huge on music, I love to cook, I am huge on communication so your ideal answer is just "ok" we probably are going to drive each other nuts. I am kink friendly. I have that spicy side that will either make you blush and/or run to the hills or run and drag me to the hills with you, but no it is not my personality and I do know how to read the room. Finally the humor is from dad to dark, be warned.

Know I have the time for this, the energy, the motivation. I am on line when at work AND I work weekends plus I am up most nights, so yeah you have me most hours. I am no stranger to the OA scene, I have ads and plenty of stuff to dive into, and they are all me. I did the server world, and not one for that drama. Ideally to move to discord after Reddit, but can do telegram, just not a fan of Snap, but that is me.

I don't ghost (usually ghosted lol) and tend to abuse parentheses. So drop a line, say hi, we just may become awesome friends.

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u/Trytostaygood — 11 days ago
▲ 2 r/OnlineAffairs+1 crossposts

47 East Coast dad M4F personally inviting you to read this. Yes you, so don't be shy.

Happy Mother's Day and thank you for taking the time and check this out. I know you have a ton of us to sort through. Second I know this is a repost, but I just figured instead of being one of the 100+ responding to ads that elusive F4M and getting lost in the flood I'd just invite you to my dms, the odds are never in my favor sadly (insert Hunger Games meme). So you Mrs. Lurker who is hesitating? Drop on in.

I want is someone who gets all of this. Who understands the restlessness. The need for something more, not wanting to just accept what what life has given. Yes we *should* be happy, satisfied and yet here we are. I am not one for specific body types (though a total fan of curves mind you), heights or races but just know I AM 5'6, and have a recovering dad bod.

I am wanting to be that guy you can be you, the one you kind of hold back from the world, or that you feel got pushed to the back of the room. My one concession is that please be East Coast or Central, it will make both our lives easier I have learned.

Now me? I am 47 a dad, and am not one for games (ok maybe Street Fighter), but am one for communication. I am nerdy, huge on music, I love to cook, I am huge on communication so your ideal answer is just "ok" we probably are going to drive each other nuts. I am kink friendly. I have that spicy side that will either make you blush and/or run to the hills or run and drag me to the hills with you, but no it is not my personality and I do know how to read the room. Finally the humor is from dad to dark, be warned.

Know I have the time for this, the energy, the motivation. I am on line when at work AND I work weekends plus I am up most nights, so yeah you have me most hours. I am no stranger to the OA scene, I have ads and plenty of stuff to dive into, and they are all me. I did the server world, and not one for that drama. Ideally to move to discord after Reddit, but can do telegram, just not a fan of Snap, but that is me.

I don't ghost (usually ghosted lol) and tend to abuse parentheses. So drop a line, say hi, we just may become awesome friends.

reddit.com
u/Trytostaygood — 13 days ago

So hi there happy Saturday and I hope the weekend has been awesome. I figure instead of being one of the 100+ responding to ads that elusive F4M and getting lost in the flood I'd just invite you to my dms, yes you Mrs. Lurker who is hesitating. What do you have to lose?

All I want is someone who gets this. The need for something more, not wanting to just accept what what life has given. I am not one asking for body types, races (though a total fan of curves mind you), just know I AM 5'6, and have a recovering dad bod. More than anything though I want you to be yourself. Really that is it! My one concession is that please be East Coast or Central, it will make both our lives easier I have learned.

Now me? I am 47 a dad, and am not one for games (ok maybe Street Fighter), but am one for communication. I am nerdy, huge on music, I love to cook, I am huge on communication, and am kink friendly. I have that spicy side that will either make you blush and/or run to the hills or run and drag me to the hills with you, but no it is not my personality and I do know how to read the room. Finally the humor is from dad to dark, be warned.

Know I have the time for this, the energy, the motivation. I am on line when at work AND I work weekends, I am up most nights, so yeah you have me most hours. I am no stranger to the OA scene, I have ads and plenty of stuff to dive into, and they are all me. I did the server world, and not one for that drama. Ideally to move to discord after Reddit, but can do telegram, just not a fan of Snap, but that is me.

I don't ghost (usually ghosted lol) and tend to abuse parentheses. So drop a line, say hi, we just may become awesome friends.

reddit.com
u/Trytostaygood — 21 days ago