Help needed for married lady here
Hello people of reddit. I need anonymous advice, hope this community can help..
I am 34 yrs old, married for 10 years already. Me and hubs had kids young, which means that our relationship was sort of neglected, esp in the bedroom. I always thought he had a lower sex drive cos he seldom ask for it. Even when he does, deed over in 10mins usually..
So fastforward to last week, imagine my shock when I found out on his insta (then he confessed) he had been having an affair with a 24 year old associate as his firm for the past 8 months. I feel so betrayed, he kept apologizing and promised to end it. But what now? He even said if I want to take revenge he close one eye.
Sigh, I don't want to over react, any advice from ladies who have gone through similar?