u/UK_Shared_Hotwife

So… pretty much every interaction on here goes the same way… disappear the moment we actually ask for any kind of effort.

Firstly, I’ll start by saying this is exclusively relating to hubby and I trying to find a third to join us both. I meet guys solo via a different platform completely.

I try to be as honest as possible about my body type, size, age etc so there are no shocks… in an attempt to find people who are actually into what I have to offer.

We have a few basic requirements that are non-negotiable for us:

- must be able to exchange clear/recent face pics
- must be able to host (whether that’s at home or sharing hotel costs)
- must be able to exchange numbers and groupchat with us both to build some kind of rapport
- must be willing to meet us socially before any play happens

It just seems that we are completely inundated with DM’s from blokes that think I’m just an easy lay, or that we are just looking for any random guy to bone me in front of my husband (yawn).

In 6 years, we’ve met only one person from Reddit, for a social. They turned out to be attached and vanished afterwards (or didn’t like me in person and were just being polite).

Honestly getting to an age where we can take it or leave it. Are we wasting our time on here or do people actually successfully find guys for a threeway dynamic through this site?

Thankyou,

Rosie x