u/UnicornSquirter628

He gave her a massage, ate her ass, and then stroked him off! It was awesome! Zero jealousy or negative feelings about it! 100% would do it again and more.

After about 4 years, we are finally taking our first HUGE step! We are meeting for a massage in a hotel with all three of us presentl. She will allow rubbing of everything on the outside, no penetration. Also agreed to allow him to eat her ass during the massage and will stroke him off afterwards.

Does penetration have to occur to technically be a hotwife?

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We have been discussing this lifestyle for quite some time. It has always been a no, even though she understands the kink if you will. Sometime ago, she agreed to a vanilla massage with someone else(all 3 of us in the room). Met a guy on SLS last year. Talked on the phone. Met up for drinks. Then had a video call🔥. For whatever reason, life in general i guess, we never met up and didnt really communicate for about 6 months. When we talked after that six months, we set a date. When the date came, the person had to cancel. After that, we talked sparingly for the months that followed. Kind of left it alone and didnt say very much about it. Well, fast forward, to this past week, got into contact with him again, and we set a date next month. I should mention all throughout this time, even though it was a no aside from a mssage, we have role played and we watch hotwife porn(especially Screw My Wife) about 3 times a week together. This has gone on for the past year plus(first brought this idea up about 3 years ago. I talked about it alot. To the point i annoyed myself 🤣🤣. Anyway, after our last discussion about 2 months ago, i vowed in my head to not bring it up again. Which i didnt. Only thing i mentioned was, hey so and so reached out about a massage again, for next month. She basically said ok and we didnt talk all that much about. Couple days later(last night) we were out for dinner and drinks. Not sure why it came up, but we started joking about the massage. She says, he can eat my ass and I'll jerk him off! Whoa!!! I thought maybe it was the drinks. So, this morning I brought it up. She is still on board and said if I said it, I wouldn't take it back.

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Can anyone with experience give some insight? Is it because I left it alone while we continued to have "fantasy" with it in the bedroom? She has never been heavy, but she wanted to lose some weight. I loved her body the way it was, but I supported it and praise her body just as much as I always have. Is she more confident now maybe?

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Appreciate any and all feedback. Thanks

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We have been discussing this lifestyle for quite some time. It has always been a no, even though she understands the kink if you will. Sometime ago, she agreed to a vanilla massage with someone else(all 3 of us in the room). Met a guy on SLS last year. Talked on the phone. Met up for drinks. Then had a video call🔥. For whatever reason, life in general i guess, we never met up and didnt really communicate for about 6 months. When we talked after that six months, we set a date. When the date came, the person had to cancel. After that, we talked sparingly for the months that followed. Kind of left it alone and didnt say very much about it. Well, fast forward, to this past week, got into contact with him again, and we set a date next month. I should mention all throughout this time, even though it was a no aside from a mssage, we have role played and we watch hotwife porn(especially Screw My Wife) about 3 times a week together. This has gone on for the past year plus(first brought this idea up about 3 years ago. I talked about it alot. To the point i annoyed myself 🤣🤣. Anyway, after our last discussion about 2 months ago, i vowed in my head to not bring it up again. Which i didnt. Only thing i mentioned was, hey so and so reached out about a massage again, for next month. She basically said ok and we didnt talk all that much about. Couple days later(last night) we were out for dinner and drinks. Not sure why it came up, but we started joking about the massage. She says, he can eat my ass and I'll jerk him off! Whoa!!! I thought maybe it was the drinks. So, this morning I brought it up. She is still on board and said if I said it, I wouldn't take it back.

Can anyone with experience give some insight? Is it because I left it alone while we continued to have "fantasy" with it in the bedroom? She has never been heavy, but she wanted to lose some weight. I loved her body the way it was, but I supported it and praise her body just as much as I always have. Is she more confident now maybe?

Appreciate any and all feedback. Thanks

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