u/Vast_Emotion9167

I’m new to the world of kink and BDSM. I originally was focused on D/s dynamic where I was sub. As a woman who’s been called intimidating often in a multitude of contexts. I felt no attraction to engaging in being the dominant.

But I have recently embraced my power and confidence in my life outside of sex. And now want to apply it to my kink. I’m exploring being a soft mommy dom with a man I recently met.

I want to safe for both of us and follow the steps to create an amazing dynamic. For the experienced and talented women I see in the group;

What are types you wish you had known as you started in the Mommy domme world?

How do you create safe boundaries and rules in your dynamics?

When do you step away from a potential sub?

Also feel free to provide any other advice. Thank you.

So I know how this and know logically I should not be this affect. But I matched with a potential sub on Feeld about to weeks ago. We exchanged numbers and snap moves off the app. Everything was going until Monday.

We had played on snap the night before and I was checking in took him awhile but had a believable reason

Haven’t heard from him since when I go on Feeld today he’s been on for the first time in over week. So of course I panicked message him on snap and text because AA.

No response it’s only need a couple of hours. And he usually takes a while to respond. But I’m feeling ghosted.

I know he doesn’t owe me anything and I don’t owe him anything. But try telling that to my feelings.

Anyway any advice would be appreciated.