u/VhBoPU

Hello, fellow neglect-a-rinos. Are you missing that flicker of passion that makes you excited every time you see/hear a notification? Do you feel lonely in your marriage? Do you miss feeling desired?

Same.

You probably can't imagine life without your partner, but also know that they've become content with existing. They made the decision for themselves, but it actually affects you, too. If you're like me, you've tried: asking what changed, figuring out how to better yourself, pitching couple's counseling, going on more dates, buying lingerie, and so many fruitless attempts at initiating that it makes you feel like the most unloveable person on Earth.

Trust me: it's not you.

Me:

• 40, Dad bod, facial hair, shaved head, nice hands and forearms (I'm told).
• Witty; loves to be playfully annoying (and to be playfully annoyed).
• Could listen to a person talk about their passion for hours.
• Fictional media with deep lore and history will almost always grab me.
• Sour will always beat sweet; chewy will always beat crunchy.
• Communication and clarity are as sexy as tight-fitting jeans (well—almost).
• Em-dashes and Oxford commas all-day. I'm sad that they are now a marker for AI.
• Prefers Telegram and knowledge of OPSEC (for both our safety).

Interested and need an ice-breaker? Send me your worst joke.

Hello, fellow neglect-a-rinos. Are you missing that flicker of passion that makes you excited every time you see/hear a notification? Do you feel lonely in your marriage? Do you miss feeling desired?

Same.

You probably can't imagine life without your partner, but also know that they've become content with existing. They made the decision for themselves, but it actually affects you, too. If you're like me, you've tried: asking what changed, figuring out how to better yourself, pitching couple's counseling, going on more dates, buying lingerie, and so many fruitless attempts at initiating that it makes you feel like the most unloveable person on Earth.

Trust me: it's not you.

Me:

• 40, Dad bod, facial hair, shaved head, nice hands and forearms (I'm told).
• Witty; loves to be playfully annoying (and to be playfully annoyed).
• Could listen to a person talk about their passion for hours.
• Fictional media with deep lore and history will almost always grab me.
• Sour will always beat sweet; chewy will always beat crunchy.
• Communication and clarity are as sexy as tight-fitting jeans (well—almost).
• Em-dashes and Oxford commas all-day. I'm sad that they are now a marker for AI.
• Prefers Telegram and knowledge of OPSEC (for both our safety).

Interested and need an ice-breaker? Send me your worst joke.