u/Virtual_Meaning_3425

"Be who you are needed to be. Don't forget who you are"

I heard this line, or something similar, the other day. It felt like the last years of my life condensed, zipped, compressed. Somewhere along the line of marriage, work, fatherhood and mundane burdens got buried the man I am, because that's not the man my family needs. I did it without hesitation, and I would do it over and over again.

To say that I am faking to be someone I am not would be a hideous lie. Being nurturing, caring and protective is within my nature as much as the side of me that is deeply dormant. But as you might understand, cruelty, perversion and sadism has no place in any happy home.

But enough with the matter. I am sure I am not the first in my situation, and certainly not the last.

I am not looking for anything specific here. To put it simply, I enjoy control, obedience and sadomasochism. My kink list is vast enough to be certain that if you allign with the bottom side we will have some common ground to start off.

Gender, sex, age... It doesn't really matter. But be aware: I consider myself a good person. And I expect from you the very same. Broken? Perhaps. Complicated? Sure. Perverted? Hope so. But good. I have no business with the evil.

I hope to hear from you, if you have anything to say.

Best regards,

O.N.

"Be who you are needed to be. Don't forget who you are"

I heard this line, or something similar, the other day. It felt like the last years of my life condensed, zipped, compressed. Somewhere along the line of marriage, work, fatherhood and mundane burdens got buried the man I am, because that's not the man my family needs. I did it without hesitation, and I would do it over and over again.

To say that I am faking to be someone I am not would be a hideous lie. Being nurturing, caring and protective is within my nature as much as the side of me that is deeply dormant. But as you might understand, cruelty, perversion and sadism has no place in any happy home.

But enough with the matter. I am sure I am not the first in my situation, and certainly not the last.

I am not looking for anything specific here. To put it simply, I enjoy control, obedience and sadomasochism. My kink list is vast enough to be certain that if you allign with the bottom side we will have some common ground to start off.

Gender, sex, age... It doesn't really matter. But be aware: I consider myself a good person. And I expect from you the very same. Broken? Perhaps. Complicated? Sure. Perverted? Hope so. But good. I have no business with the evil.

I hope to hear from you, if you have anything to say.

Best regards, O.N.