Now what?
Me and my fiance are in our mid to late 20's and been together for years and very happy, probably our best year together has been this year ngl.
Anyways we've discussed mfm, mff and other couples, it began as "thats crazy" kinda for both of us, then lead into more direct questions and some more vague conversations. I've looked into reddit and some of the apps like Feeld just to test the waters to see the experience. There seems to be some options out there I could see her considering IRL
The only issue is finding someone.. she has said once or twice that she isn't into finding someone that it takes the fun out of it and that i can find someone. But I want to be open with her and dont want any part of it to be secretive but i also dont want to overshare and turn her off on the idea.
How do I get to the step with her of actually pursuing finding someone and stop dancing around it?
Without being being pushy like " I found the app and the subreddit should I post tonight ?"
(To me that just sounds like a bad approach)
Thanks to anyone for the help!
( if anyones uncomfortable to comment like I usually am, will accept message requests )