u/Xalhuen

23 [F4A] #Vancouver #Online to RL - Domme (switch) Looking for a long-term obsession

Read carefully before talking to me. Avoid disappointing me.

I want to shape you and turn you into the perfect toy for me.
I’ll memorize every sigh your lips let out when you say my name.
You’ll become addicted to me, if you manage to catch my attention first.

I’m a cisgender woman and I use masculine pronouns. I currently live in Canada, where I study at university.
I’m sapiosexual, and also a calm, introspective, deeply artistic person. I’m the melancholic, solitary, obsessive archetype. I am interested in other solitary people, I’ll make you feel chosen 🫵🏻🫪
No age range, but I know that I get along well with people around my age (because of sense of humor).
Let’s be silly together while we write love letters 😼👍🏻

One of my goals is to love and praise someone. My dream partner is someone who is emotionally submissive but physically dominant. I want to feel protected while being vulnerable with them. 🫂💕
I’d like to create art inspired by what you make me feel 🫀

I don’t have much experience in kinky practices, however, I’m interested in psychological and emotional domination.
I’d like to find someone willing to become part of my entertainment, and eventually take it into something more intimate and romantic.
I’m fascinated by the idea of mutual obsession, and I’m interested in a guided dynamic to achieve the kind of connection I want (almost like a TPE dynamic).
In simple words, I’ll turn you into my “perfect partner,” making you interesting enough for me to dissect your being inside my journals.

Once we see that our chemistry works, I’d like to build a dynamic where both of us get what we want.
I’m very communicative, I like structure in things, and I’m also demisexual… which is why I seek an emotional and intellectual bond before my erotic imagination fully comes out.

My kinks…
Crossdressing, dollification, Pegging, rimming (I receive), (I am curious about golden rain…), latex masks, insults (I receive), breeding, denial, pet play, ddlg, humiliation, slapping/spanking, cnc, using public spaces… and more that I don’t remember rn 😓
Extra: I find blood fascinating aesthetically. But I wouldn’t hurt your precious skin… but if you bleed sometime, I’ll keep it in my box dedicated to you.

About the dynamic:
I will give you instructions to follow.
You must be willing to:
- send photos and videos (faceless for safety, or with your face covered).
- write long texts/letters when I assign them to you.
- behave the way I ask you to (sweet/affectionate), although I’d prefer someone bratty, since I plan to condition attention.
- beg for my attention :)
- read/watch what I tell you to (sometimes during dates with me).
- do video calls/calls with me when I ask.
- be dominant if I order you to.

If you are:
- mature
- emotionally intelligent
- introspective
- intellectually curious
- artistic
- communicative
- consistent
- self-aware
- affectionate
- attentive
- mentally stimulating
- open-minded
- capable of forming deep connections over time
…we’ll probably get along.

Tell me what you understood. Tell me what drew you in. Let me see the version of me you created in your head after reading between the lines.
I appreciate people who can articulate fascination instead of reducing it to impulse.

What to include in your message (impress me):
Nickname, age, height, weight, be open to sharing face photos eventually, location (Time zone), your kinks, personal interests,why do you think we could be a good match?

And if we truly click, I’ll make you feel wanted, appreciated, and very well taken care of.

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u/Xalhuen — 4 days ago

23 [F4A] #Canada #Online to RL - Domme Looking for a long-term obsession

(open to NB folks)
#Vancouver
Read carefully before talking to me. Avoid disappointing me.

I want to shape you and turn you into the perfect toy for me.
I’ll memorize every sigh your lips let out when you say my name.
You’ll become addicted to me, if you manage to catch my attention first.

I’m a cisgender woman and I use masculine pronouns. I currently live in Canada, where I study the university.
I’m sapiosexual, and also a calm, introspective, deeply artistic person. I’m the melancholic, solitary, obsessive archetype.
I’m strictly monogamous. It must be only you and me.

I don’t have much experience in kinky practices, however, I’m interested in psychological and emotional domination.
I’d like to find someone willing to become part of my entertainment, and eventually take it into something more intimate and romantic.
I’m fascinated by the idea of mutual obsession, and I’m interested in a guided dynamic to achieve the kind of connection I want (almost like a TPE dynamic).
In simple words, I’ll turn you into my “perfect partner,” making you interesting enough for me to dissect your being inside my journals.

Once we see that our chemistry works, I’d like to build a dynamic where both of us get what we want.
I’m very communicative, I like structure in things, and I’m also demisexual… which is why I seek an emotional and intellectual bond before my erotic imagination fully comes out.

My kinks…
Crossdressing, dollification, Pegging, rimming (I receive), (I am curious about golden rain…), latex masks, breeding, denial, pet play, mdlb, humiliation, slapping/spanking, cnc, using public spaces… and more that I don’t remember rn 😓

About the dynamic:
I will give you instructions to follow.
You must be willing to:
- send photos and videos (faceless for safety, or with your face covered).
- write long texts/letters when I assign them to you.
- behave the way I ask you to (sweet/affectionate), although I’d prefer someone bratty, since I plan to condition attention.
- beg for my attention :)
- read/watch what I tell you to (sometimes during dates with me).
- do video calls/calls with me when I ask.
- be dominant if I order you to.

If you are:
- mature
- emotionally intelligent
- introspective
- intellectually curious
- artistic
- communicative
- consistent
- self-aware
- affectionate
- attentive
- mentally stimulating
- open-minded
- capable of forming deep connections over time
- VERY PATIENT… 🫪
…we’ll probably get along.

Tell me what you understood. Tell me what drew you in. Let me see the version of me you created in your head after reading between the lines.
I appreciate people who can articulate fascination instead of reducing it to impulse.

What to include in your message (impress me):
Nickname, age, height, weight, be open to sharing face photos eventually, location (Time zone), your kinks, personal interests,why do you think we could be a good match?

And if we truly click, I’ll make you feel wanted, appreciated, and very well taken care of.

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u/Xalhuen — 5 days ago

23 [F4M] Looking for the perfect bf in #Vancouver or #Online to irl

(open to NB folks)
Read carefully before talking to me. Avoid disappointing me.

I want to shape you and turn you into the perfect toy for me.
I’ll memorize every sigh your lips let out when you say my name.
You’ll become addicted to me, if you manage to catch my attention first.

I’m a cisgender woman and I use masculine pronouns. I currently live in Canada, where I study the university.
I’m sapiosexual, and also a calm, introspective, deeply artistic person. I’m the melancholic, solitary, obsessive archetype.
I’m strictly monogamous. It must be only you and me.

I don’t have much experience in kinky practices, however, I’m interested in psychological and emotional domination.
I’d like to find someone willing to become part of my entertainment, and eventually take it into something more intimate and romantic.
I’m fascinated by the idea of mutual obsession, and I’m interested in a guided dynamic to achieve the kind of connection I want (almost like a TPE dynamic).
In simple words, I’ll turn you into my “perfect partner,” making you interesting enough for me to dissect your being inside my journals.

Once we see that our chemistry works, I’d like to build a dynamic where both of us get what we want.
I’m very communicative, I like structure in things, and I’m also demisexual… which is why I seek an emotional and intellectual bond before my erotic imagination fully comes out.

My kinks…
Crossdressing, dollification, Pegging, rimming (I receive), (I am curious about golden rain…), latex masks, breeding, denial, pet play, mdlb, humiliation, slapping/spanking, cnc, using public spaces… and more that I don’t remember rn 😓
Extra: I find blood fascinating aesthetically. But I wouldn’t hurt your precious skin… but if you bleed sometime, I’ll keep it in my box dedicated to you.

About the dynamic:
I will give you instructions to follow.
You must be willing to:
- send photos and videos (faceless for safety, or with your face covered).
- write long texts/letters when I assign them to you.
- behave the way I ask you to (sweet/affectionate), although I’d prefer someone bratty, since I plan to condition attention.
- beg for my attention :)
- read/watch what I tell you to (sometimes during dates with me).
- do video calls/calls with me when I ask.
- be dominant if I order you to.

If you are:
- mature
- emotionally intelligent
- introspective
- intellectually curious
- artistic
- communicative
- consistent
- self-aware
- affectionate
- attentive
- mentally stimulating
- open-minded
- capable of forming deep connections over time
…we’ll probably get along.

Tell me what you understood. Tell me what drew you in. Let me see the version of me you created in your head after reading between the lines.
I appreciate people who can articulate fascination instead of reducing it to impulse.

What to include in your message (impress me):
Nickname, age, height, weight, location (Time zone), your kinks, personal interests,why do you think we could be a good match?

And if we truly click, I’ll make you feel wanted, appreciated, and very well taken care of.

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u/Xalhuen — 16 days ago

Read carefully before talking to me. Avoid disappointing me.

I want to shape you and turn you into the perfect toy for me.
I’ll memorize every sigh your lips let out when you say my name.
You’ll become addicted to me, if you manage to catch my attention first.

I’m a cisgender woman and I use masculine pronouns. I currently live in Canada, where I study the university.
I’m sapiosexual, and also a calm, introspective, deeply artistic person. I’m the melancholic, solitary, obsessive archetype.

I don’t have much experience in kinky practices, however, I’m interested in psychological and emotional domination.
I’d like to find someone willing to become part of my entertainment, and eventually take it into something more intimate and romantic.
I’m fascinated by the idea of mutual obsession, and I’m interested in a guided dynamic to achieve the kind of connection I want (almost like a TPE dynamic).
In simple words, I’ll turn you into my “perfect partner,” making you interesting enough for me to dissect your being inside my journals.

Once we see that our chemistry works, I’d like to build a dynamic where both of us get what we want.
I’m very communicative, I like structure in things, and I’m also demisexual… which is why I seek an emotional and intellectual bond before my erotic imagination fully comes out.

My kinks…
Crossdressing, dollification, Pegging, rimming (I receive), (I am curious about golden rain…), latex masks, breeding, denial, pet play, mdlb, humiliation, slapping/spanking, cnc, using public spaces… and more that I don’t remember rn 😓
Extra: I find blood fascinating aesthetically. But I wouldn’t hurt your precious skin… but if you bleed sometime, I’ll keep it in my box dedicated to you.

About the dynamic:
I will give you instructions to follow.
You must be willing to:
- send photos and videos (faceless for safety, or with your face covered).
- write long texts/letters when I assign them to you.
- behave the way I ask you to (sweet/affectionate), although I’d prefer someone bratty, since I plan to condition attention.
- beg for my attention :)
- read/watch what I tell you to (sometimes during dates with me).
- do video calls/calls with me when I ask.
- be dominant if I order you to.

If you are:
- mature
- emotionally intelligent
- introspective
- intellectually curious
- artistic
- communicative
- consistent
- self-aware
- affectionate
- attentive
- mentally stimulating
- open-minded
- capable of forming deep connections over time
…we’ll probably get along.

Tell me what you understood. Tell me what drew you in. Let me see the version of me you created in your head after reading between the lines.
I appreciate people who can articulate fascination instead of reducing it to impulse.

What to include in your message (impress me):
Nickname, age, height, weight, location (Time zone), your kinks, personal interests,why do you think we could be a good match?

And if we truly click, I’ll make you feel wanted, appreciated, and very well taken care of.

reddit.com
u/Xalhuen — 16 days ago