u/YBKS1985

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A little about me:

-I have a successful career.

-I take care of myself, work out regularly, and enjoy staying active.

-I’m naturally curious and always up for trying new restaurants, experiences, and adventures.

What I'm looking for:

-You must live in Austin, please don’t message me if you don’t.

-Someone I genuinely connect with - both mentally and physically.

-A relationship that complements, rather than complicates, our existing lives.

-Someone who is also married and has experience navigating discreet relationships. Understanding the realities, boundaries, and communication involved is important to me.

Discretion is non-negotiable:

-Neither of us is looking to disrupt or change our current situation.

-The goal is a consistent, enjoyable connection that fits into both of our lives with mutual respect and clear expectations.

-Strong OPSEC and discretion are essential.

About you:

-You take care of yourself and value your physical and mental well-being.

-You're intelligent, emotionally mature, and can hold an engaging conversation.

-You have a great sense of humour - I appreciate someone who can make me laugh.

-You have a variety of interests, enjoy new experiences, and have an adventurous side.

-You're confident and secure, without being possessive or jealous.

Chemistry matters:

-Physical attraction is important, but so is building a genuine mental connection. I'm looking for someone who's interested in both - not just one or the other.

-Because there are so many catfish on Reddit, I expect us to exchange a recent photo after a few messages and have a brief video chat shortly afterward if there's mutual interest.

-This helps ensure we're both who we say we are and that there's mutual attraction, so we don't waste each other's time.

Logistics:

-If we hit it off, I'd prefer to move the conversation to an IM platform since it's easier to chat there.

-I’m only interested in finding one person to build a connection with, and I hope you're looking for the same.

A little about me:

-I have a successful career.

-I take care of myself, work out regularly, and enjoy staying active.

-I’m naturally curious and always up for trying new restaurants, experiences, and adventures.

What I'm looking for:

-Someone I genuinely connect with - both mentally and physically.

-A relationship that complements, rather than complicates, our existing lives.

-Someone who is also married and has experience navigating discreet relationships. Understanding the realities, boundaries, and communication involved is important to me.

Discretion is non-negotiable:

-Neither of us is looking to disrupt or change our current situation.

-The goal is a consistent, enjoyable connection that fits into both of our lives with mutual respect and clear expectations.

-Strong OPSEC and discretion are essential.

About you:

-You must live in Austin, please don’t message me if you don’.

-You take care of yourself and value your physical and mental well-being.

-You're intelligent, emotionally mature, and can hold an engaging conversation.

-You have a great sense of humour - I appreciate someone who can make me laugh.

-You have a variety of interests, enjoy new experiences, and have an adventurous side.

-You're confident and secure, without being possessive or jealous.

Chemistry matters:

-Physical attraction is important, but so is building a genuine mental connection. I'm looking for someone who's interested in both - not just one or the other.

-Because there are so many catfish on Reddit, I expect us to exchange a recent photo after a few messages and have a brief video chat shortly afterward if there's mutual interest.

-This helps ensure we're both who we say we are and that there's mutual attraction, so we don't waste each other's time.

Logistics:

-If we hit it off, I'd prefer to move the conversation to an IM platform since it's easier to chat there.

-I’m only interested in finding one person to build a connection with, and I hope you're looking for the same.

Well a little bit about me; I just moved to Austin from Chicago last year and am currently trying to figure everything out. I’m an attractive woman working in tech who takes care of herself, works out regularly and enjoys trying new things.

I’m looking for someone to connect with both physically and mentally and to complement my current situation.

I’m also looking for someone who’s also married and isn’t new to this kind of arrangement while understanding everything that goes along with that, otherwise this won’t work. 

You’re not looking to jeopardize your current situation because neither am I, but are rather looking for something regular on the side to also complement your current situation.

You’re someone who regularly takes care of yourself, and can hold a conversation. You can make me laugh and have a wide variety of interests. 

Obviously physical attraction is important here but so is a mental connection and I’m hoping you’re looking for both. You like adventure and aren’t possessive or jealous. You’re open to talking and seeing where it goes, and have your OpSec locked down.

If we end up hitting it off I’d rather us swap to IMing because it’s easier to chat there. I’m only looking to connect with one person and hope you are too. Good luck in the search!

Well a little bit about me; I just moved to Austin from Chicago last year and am currently trying to figure everything out. I’m an attractive woman working in tech who takes care of herself, works out regularly and enjoys trying new things.

I’m looking for someone to connect with both physically and mentally and to complement my current situation.

I’m also looking for someone who’s also married and isn’t new to this kind of arrangement while understanding everything that goes along with that, otherwise this won’t work. 

You’re not looking to jeopardize your current situation because neither am I, but are rather looking for something regular on the side to also complement your current situation.

You’re someone who regularly takes care of yourself, and can hold a conversation. You can make me laugh and have a wide variety of interests. 

Obviously physical attraction is important here but so is a mental connection and I’m hoping you’re looking for both. You like adventure and aren’t possessive or jealous. You’re open to talking and seeing where it goes, and have your OpSec locked down.

If we end up hitting it off I’d rather us swap to IMing because it’s easier to chat there. I’m only looking to connect with one person and hope you are too. Good luck in the search!