u/Yanderegirlowner

If you hate men that is your right I am not gonna lecture you about that. All I am saying is please don't post about it on your sex work pages because it can make customers reluctant or shy to support and if you are comfortable to the loss fine but it's not just you I have lost a few customers over concern of this and almost lost a whale to this.

what do you think about sub girls ?

Do you think femdom is different from male dom femsub dynamics ?

how do you convince dom or vanilla men to sub ?

So I have been an online sex worker for a while with limited experience with small time IRL work but I thought about doing IRL and this might be a convincing factor.

So I have seen some people on here who leave after they finish even if they pay for the full hour because this seems like a good bet because most men can't last a full hour most are lucky to last 10 minutes.

I personally do not like it I'm gonna be honest. The benefits I see touted by creators who use it here are that it allows them to AI swap their face so they can make faced content anomalously and that it allows them to have an AI of them to handle chatting.

The problem I see is this is a tragedy of the commons issue where it benefits the people who immediately benefit from it but hurts everyone else in the long run.

I feel it hurts trust in the industry and people will be scared they are talking to a bot which they can do in other ways and then they will just not buy from small creators.

A lot of entitled men are bitter about women making money in this industry and would love nothing more then to make that money themselves or not pay women so I also fear that there will be a counter economy of AI accounts ran by men that bitter men support out of spite and by using AI's we feed it training data to make it better.

We saw something happen with vendors at conventions.

So I 22F got back with my boyfriend 22M after we had some issues one of which me being well cheating on him. I know this place won't judge but in case you do just know I am loyal now and I love him very much.

I am an Asian American who lives in Socal and so is my friend. She got me into Kpop in middle school and it helped me having other entertainment with people who look like me. The group she introduced me to (I don't want to say who to avoid fandom war ok) was on tour and coming to play near us. However tickets were expensive. We could kind of afford them but it was not financially smart my friend especially who between this and her rent would be flat broke. So I tried to think of how to make it work. Then my friend said to just ask your boyfriend he's rich right ? Well kind of his uncle died with no kids and he inherited his house and a few million which I know sounds like a lot but we live in Socal that doesn't go as far a you think my boyfriend still works for example but he can make purchases like this.

The other thing is my boyfriend didn't like this group or the way we talked about them because yeh we sexual them a lot but that is more so ironic (at least for me) a lot of kpop boyband group fans do that. I pointed out he might get jealous. My friend ask well he has other girls right ? The answer is well no I did talk about letting him sleep with other girls when we got back together but it never materialized because I admit I wasn't sure how to handle it did I want to set him up with people I initially wanted him to find partners but neither of us liked that. Then my friend said something like "I'd fuck for the tickets honestly" and I said would you fuck him for them ? She asked if I was ok and in that moment I said yes I might have said no a different day. She said ok let's talk to him about it.

So we had asked earlier more casually almost as a lark and he said no but we asked again and this time I added my friend and he said that she's not my friend to which she interjected "I could be your friend too". He didn't get the hint (men ammirite) so she just spelled it out that if he would buy her the tickets she would take care of him sexually. He was taken a back at first and then looked to me and I said I was ok with it I wouldn't be at all I promised him this.

So then we worked out specifics he kind of feared being rug pulled at first which was a bit paraoid but whatever so the deal was he would buy the tickets upon us agreeing but he wouldn't give them to us (digitally through the app) until after he got his end of the deal.

So what did he want ? So the day before the show is when the date happened the show was closer to his house in the valley then where she lived and LA traffic is a nightmare so this was convenient. He wanted a little date beforehand he would pay for this though he got to pick the place and he sad it wouldn't be expensive. Before that me and her spent the day together getting her ready. Getting our hair and nails done, getting her a new outfit for the date and concert a new lingerie set for him to find later he has a big lingerie fetish. peaking of fetishes I gave her the rundown on what he likes in bed and what he is like. He likes vocal girls and talking he likes gasm faces it's like with most men the key word is enthusiasm. He can be rough ad I like that but we agreed on passionate and loving on his end and submissive on her end and he has one kind of unfortunate problem..... and it is NOT his size you were expecting that no he takes forever to fucking finish it's his meds and he can stay hard the whole time but it gets exhausting I never really minded if he finished most of the time speaking of that he can finish inside of her she has an IUD. He wanted a handjob and blowjob pre PIV and he didn't need to eat her but he could if he wanted to. He asked me to ask her how it was and he wanted an honest answer

So we were all good and there is not much to say I admit it bothered me a bit more then thought it would but it was a bit hotter then I thought it would be when I thought they were done I went inside and asked how my little love birds were doing and put a blanket over them both were cuddling and pillow talking he insisted on this and I went to sleep and next day we went to the show had a blast I asked her how it was he said she enjoyed herself and might be open to this again. It's been a while and we haven't done this again.