u/YsImAninja0

40 [M4F] #Des Moines - Too wild for most

Try, try, try again. Maybe third time is the charm. I know what I want, and yes I'm greedy. But why post here when I could easily pick up a loving woman at the store or somewhere exotic like the park or gym?! Joking on the exotic part. But being in a relationship where you feel neglected in almost every way you tend to be more in touch with what you don't want....and even more in touch with what you actually need.

Maybe you feel the same too. I'm not looking to be a temporary fix or to be an addition to what you already have. I don't share, so our fun secret would be temporary till we can't live without each other. If you're comfortable in an unhappy relationship, I'm not the one for you. I'm not looking to play it safe. I want to fall hard. I need a best friend, a lover, and queen all in one. I know it sounds romantic, but I love deeply and I don't want to waste it anymore. Poetically, and bluntly, I want a woman that is ready to be lost in her feminine and share sides of herself that not even your partner knows. No masks.

Looks don't matter much, but attraction is a must. You can be gorgeous and have an ugly soul. Stay away from me. I'm looking for an insanely loving woman that has kept her wild side at bay and has always been told she loves too much!! When you have a bad day, I want to be that man you run too. Cuddle. Cry. Or you just need to complain and I'll listen. And for other days, I'll be the one who bends you over the couch and pounds out that hard day till you either can't walk or you feel better...or both. I want to grow addicted to your smile and laugh. Learn all the things you love. Your taste in food. I love to cook. Let's build a life around each other. Must love animals. Be liberal....or, if anything, be a conservative ready to be submissive and loving on a deeper level. Must be emotionally intelligent. Own books. Touch is my love language, so that definitely needs to be yours cause I'm done being with someone that can't even match my love on a slow day.

Let's run away together. Have the relationship we want. If you're sick of being that strong woman, let me be your soft side. Your best friend. Come spend your life dedicated to us,

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u/YsImAninja0 — 8 days ago

40 [M4F] #Iowa Old school flirts

I'm looking for an older woman that is just simply unhappy and needs to explore options. Things aren't just missing in your life, You've found you settled. Dead bedroom. The one you lay your head next to isn't your best friend, but look at the life you've built. Walking away from that isn't so black and white. Everything in you aches. Your heart yearns. Your lips desire. Your mind craves connection and to feel alive. Your body dreams of being wild.

I'm in something similar. Quietly rebuilding myself and my life. I'm fit, passionate, and too wild for most. I've got all this love to give. I want to flirt. Be naughty. Make memories. But I want to build on it, see how deep that rabbit hole goes. I want to be stupid with someone, cave in and be overly dedicated all the possibilities. Make something beautiful together.

I'm not into younger than me. I prefer older. I don't want to be your temporary bandaid, I want to be that permanent flutter that keeps your heart alive and your body feeling ready to go. Let's start a fire we can't put out.

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u/YsImAninja0 — 11 days ago

Second try. Third try. Maybe the fourth try is the charm. Looking to flirt, spark desire and see where it takes us. Sneaking texts. Teasing with pics. Let's share parts of ourselves that our partners don't even get. Things are missing in what we have, otherwise we wouldn't be here. For whatever reasons we can't leave or don't want to. But for you and I, let's see how deep that rabbit hole goes.

As for me, I'm fit. Witty. Adventurous and romantic. But also dominant in all the right ways. I prefer a larger woman, though I'm really wanting connection with the perks of all the visual teases too. I'm genuinely too wild for most in the affection part, and get let down when they can't match energy. I don't want a slow burn. Let's burn it all and start a fire that refuses to go out.

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u/YsImAninja0 — 22 days ago

I'm over that feeling of being stuck, but one thing I've learned from this is what I want and what I don't want. I'm passionate. Wild. Probably too wild for most. Being a man that isn't ashamed of emotions and having high emotional intelligence feels like a curse, but I know the right woman will love that.

I'm looking for an escape. Actually, I'm greedy, I want more. Let's go past the momentary thrills of sneaking texts and dirty pics. Let's.ake each other ache. Show each other parts of ourselves that our partners have never seen. I want to be the reason you can't keep your fingers out of holes, and yet still set your thoughts and feelings ablaze. Aching for every new thing we can learn about each other. When your man questions why you smile so much, he doesn't need to know that you're falling in love with someone else. But your empty relationship with him has shown you what you don't want and that you deserve a partner that can match you.

I don't want a bandaid or to be a temporary fix in each other's lives. Let's see how deep this rabbit hole goes. If that means our partners end up being just seasons, and you and I are each other's true keepers, so be it. I'm all for it. Though if touch isn't your love language, I'm definitely not the one. If you've always been told you need too much, love too deeply, and even after the honeymoon phase you still need intimacy 4 or 5 times a day....let's start a fire neither of us can put out.

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u/YsImAninja0 — 24 days ago