u/Zealousideal-Way8636

I’m a sub bottom and my bf is a top. My bf is lovely but not a dom and not much into anal. I love sucking his cock - it’s a good 7 inches - but I crave being dominated. I’ve recently met a guy on here and I performed for him as his little slut girl, sending him pics and letting him tell me what to wear and behave sexually. It’s a big turn-on… how long should I keep this up? I worry that I’m going to stop enjoying what I do have with my bf.

I’m a sub bottom and sometimes I post pics of me in a jockstrap and sometimes I feel more feminine and post pics of me in lingerie. They go to the appropriate place to post them and get the kind of appreciation I’d expect but sometimes the pics or reference to me in lingerie go to a “broader” audience, such as a confessions page or a bears page. I’ve noticed that the % of upvotes is always affected in those situations - why do people vote fem or sissy bottom stuff down? If you don’t like it, just move on - maybe I’m naive for just upvoting stuff I like and not downvoting things that don’t appeal?

I was having some fun on here the other day, got dressed up in sexy lingerie and caged my little cock, enjoyed some horny chat that led me to uncage and bring myself to climax. I caged myself again and wasn’t anticipating more action but later that day a guy popped up to chat - his cock pics were hot so I responded and soon things were getting exciting as he told me how much he wanted my pussy and I was telling him how much I liked being a slut and wanted his cock.
We quickly moved our chat to a different platform where it’s easier to send pics and videos, which happens sometimes in my chats. I asked the hot guy - Steve - if he wanted me to slip back into some lingerie, which he did, so I chose the white equivalent to the pink outfit from my photos that day. Steve soon asked if we could videocall. I’m not into showing my face, I like to keep a bit of anonymity, and told him this. He suggested covering my head and when I wasn’t sure with what he suggested a pair of panties…
I duly obliged and so made the videocall, in my white girly lingerie, my little cock-clit caged and a pair of dildos ready for use. I was nervous - I’d never done this before, not even with guys I knew, let alone strangers. Steve’s voice was strong and masculine, which gave me a girly thrill as I got into position on the sofa my ass pointing towards my phone. I lubed up my biggest dildo and slowly opened up my hole, pushing it in all the way. I had to pause to breathe and get accustomed while Steve told me I was a good girl and I needed to fuck my pussy. I did as I was told and started to moan as my strokes with the dildo became harder and faster, with Steve’s encouragement. “I need your cock” I told him, without daring to look at the camera to see what’s going on at his end.
Steve told me to suck the other dildo… I was soon stuffing myself at both ends, gagging on my smaller dildo and fucking my ass with the bigger one. I swapped round for a bit and then back again. I paused for a while and fingered my hole which felt like it was gaping although Steve was telling me that he loved my tight pussy. I changed position so I was facing the camera with my groin visible- Steve told me to slap my tight balls with the dildo and I was a good girl who behaved well. “I bet you want to play with that little cock?” He asked and I said “yes” so Steve gave me permission to remove the cage. I started to ride my big dildo again and to rub my cock but it was still small and flaccid… I thought I wouldn’t get hard after having already cum a few hours earlier and after being caged. It took a few minutes but all of a sudden my few inches was hard and responsive to my hand. Meanwhile steve was telling me what a slut I am and how my cock was pathetic. Hearing this and with my hole stretched by the dildo I felt my cum rising - usually I would make an effort to catch it and not make a mess but I was having too much fun and the ropes sprayed out of me. I hadn’t cum like this for years, it shot out of me so far! The last dribble coated my fingers and Steve instructed me to lick them like a good slut. I obeyed and enjoyed the salty taste. Stepping to one side and still panting with enjoyment Steve ended the call with a promise to send me a video of him cumming - I’m still waiting to see it but I don’t mind if I don’t, the whole experience was a first for me and very hot! I hope to cum again like that soon.

I’m now a gay sub bottom but for many years was a bicurious married guy with a yearning for a first experience with a man. This is how that happened a few years ago…
A new gay colleague and I had instantly hit it off as friends and I was pretty sure he was giving me signals that he was interested in more. He was a good looking guy, bit younger and taller than me, nice beard, bit of a bear cub. I was unsure about where it might go but when he invited me round for another dinner and film night I decided this was the time to test it and myself.
As he was cooking and we hung out in the kitchen I confessed to him that I was bicurious, which he said didn’t surprise him and in fact he had been surprised to hear that I had a wife, he’d assumed I’m gay! He asked me what my type was and I described the kinds of guys I liked watching in porn - rugby playing types, guys with beards. Not exactly him but not too far away. When I returned the question, he described someone exactly like me… I shied away from it though and the conversation moved away. After we’d eaten, we were sat on the sofa and my colleague asked “So, you’ve never kissed a guy?” I answered “no”, to which he responded “Would you like to try it?” I was so nervous but I nodded and the next thing I knew I was locked in deep, passionate kissing with this guy. It felt so good.
“How do you feel about taking our tops off?” My colleague asked and again I nervously agreed. We were quickly half naked and for the first time I was running my hands across another man’s chest, feeling the hairs and definition of his muscles, his nipples, while a man’s hands were doing the same to me. After a while he asked me if I felt okay with lying naked on his bed. I eagerly agreed and we were soon in the nude, kissing passionately on the bed. As we kissed he asked if I wanted to touch his cock, which proud and erect felt so much bigger than my own small penis (I discovered later that he was average!).
Now it was my turn to ask something: “Can I suck it?” He was more than happy to let me and soon I was experiencing the joy of taking a cock in my mouth while he lay back and moaned appreciatively. I was nervous about taking the whole thing but managed it well. To my joy, I was discovering that having another man’s cock in my mouth made my own hard and erect… When I stopped and rolled back next to him, I asked if I’d done okay “There’s no score card for this” he replied with a chuckle “but it was great”. Before I knew it, we were passionately kissing again and I found myself manoeuvred onto my back, my legs up wrapped around my colleague’s waist and his cock head pressing at my hole. He stopped. I was aching to feel what I’d never felt before… but he said “I really want to fuck you but Let’s not take this too far. I want you so badly but now isn’t the time.” We continued kissing and exploring our bodies for some time.
This was my wake up call to my reality as a gay bottom and within days I was separating from my wife. My colleague never became my boyfriend - he had a complicated love life - but for the next few weeks we would find every excuse to be at his place. The next two encounters ended with me on my knees eagerly sucking his cock until on our fourth encounter we ended up in bed together and this time his cock slowly and gently opened up my hole… it wasn’t long before he was pounding me before flipping me onto my front, spreading my legs and fucking me hard. It felt amazing… I have my colleague to thank for making me the bottom slut I am today 😁

Before meeting my bf I had had a hot fuck with Danny, a guy who lived locally. He had moved away but regularly stayed in our city for work so on one occasion my bf and I invited him to stay with us instead of his usual arrangements. My bf knew that Danny and I had fucked before, he was okay with that but not interested in any kind of three way fun, which was a shame as Danny and I were both still horny for each other and has discussed how hot it would be to have a threesome.

We enjoyed dinner together and great conversation over a bottle of wine or two. We set Danny up in the spare room, next to our main bedroom, and wished him a good night. In bed, my horniness manifested itself when I started to stroke my bf’s cock after we had got into bed. He protested a little because Danny was next door but the wine made us lose our inhibitions a bit and soon enough I was on all fours giving my bf’s big cock a sloppy blowjob. I was pretty sure Danny could hear us in the room next door, so I especially made sure that when I took the full length in my throat, the gagging noises were just loud enough… I wanked as I sucked and, given how horny I was, it didn’t take long before I shot my load over my bf’s belly and chest. It was just at that moment that we heard Danny come in the room naked with his cock proud and erect…. Although I knew he would be listening and probably wanking, I hadn’t expected him to come in so was startled, as was my bf. Danny scurried back out the room offering apologies. It was only when I then looked at my phone that I saw the messages from him asking to join in…

Breakfast the next morning was awkward but we acted as though nothing had happened. My bf headed off to work and I hung back with Danny for a bit as he wanted to leave after the rush hour to avoid the traffic. I had to broach the subject… I apologised and so did he, for misreading the situation. I confessed that I had wanted to make him horny though and clearly it had worked - when in the mood Danny is a dom top and the conversation now was clearly having an effect. He came and sat next to me on the sofa, unzipped his fly and pulled out his big cock. “I didn’t finish my wank last night as I felt bad after walking in on you” he said as he started to rub his cock and it stood more erect. I reached out: “Let me help you” I said and after spitting in my palm started to wank him off slowly. “A shame we couldn’t get a threesome going” said Danny, “I was looking forward to one. You owe me”. I had never promised any action but Danny and I had fantasised about it in some of our texts. I got on to my knees and took his cock in my mouth. It was thicker and harder than my bf’s and reminded me of the amazing fuck Danny and I had enjoyed a few months earlier. Danny stood up and with me on my knees holding my head he started to throat fuck me, something my bf doesn’t like to do but makes me so hot. I pulled out my own little cock and after a few seconds of frantic wanking came into my free hand, Danny’s cock still in my mouth. “Get undressed” he said. “Go into the hall and face the mirror” I did as I was told, my hands still coated in my cum. Danny stood right behind me and pushing my legs apart looked at me in the mirror, I could feel his cock head against my ass and then with some adjustments start to stretch my hole open. “You’re my teasing little bitch… I could fuck you here, make you cry out” he growled. I didn’t know what to do - I didn’t want to cheat on my bf but I was desperate for Danny’s beautiful cock and another chance to get fucked by him. “I’m not gonna do that though” whispered Danny, “I’m teasing you now, because I know how much you want it in your ass. Turn around and get on your knees.” I did as I was told and my lips were soon stretched around Danny’s fat cock, his load down my throat.

Within minutes of cumming he was dressed, grabbed his bags and gone….