u/ZealousidealGold1891

so this question came to my mind because In today’s world, especially among our generation, very few people wait till marriage for sex , Most of us have had some kind of romantic or physical experiences before settling down. That’s just the reality of modern dating and relationships. while there is a huge group of people who just hate this idea so much.

i want to know what people really think about this, How do you feel knowing that your future wife/husband has probably been intimate with someone else in the past? or even now ?

for example i am not saying i am some kind of playboy but i had sex with two different and amazing women in my life same maybe my future wife might had sex as well. sex is just sex nothing to serious and i think there are other quality i look for which is more important.

Most of us haven’t waited either. We’ve had our own experiences, situationships, and phases. So if we’re being real with ourselves, there’s a high chance both sides are coming into marriage with some past.

I’m curious to hear how others process this mentally and emotionally.

Hello everyone, so I been conflicted with my feelings for a while. So far I have dated 4 different girls while everyone has there own speciality the last girl i dated was experienced then me while i did not had any experience apart from sexting.

Some things i noticed was very clear like

She was more confident in her desires and boundaries.

She knew what she wanted and she also knew how to give pleasure as well

And from that time , I find the idea of woman with past very attractive, I feel like a confident person who has experienced various thing and understand about it better then me.

Also I am not shaming anyone but I am not into cuckholding at all , preferring someone with past is a different thing and cuckholding is very different.

And of course that's not the only thing I look , the first thing I look is personality, our ideas and our vibe matching with each other , sexual experience and past is last of them , it's just one of my i guess idk what to say about it wish or desire

This is bit different then usual post , rather then normal sexting i want a long term connection with someone here.

This does include sexting and kinks but aprart from that a long term connection that is genuine and can be become something even better then that.

I prefer someone with a past a life before me , someone who had sex before and know what she wants , with that this may include calls and sharing socials as well

Hello everyone, so I been conflicted with my feelings for a while. So far I have dated 4 different girls while everyone has there own speciality the last girl i dated was experienced then me while i did not had any experience apart from sexting.

Some things i noticed was very clear like

She was more confident in her desires and boundaries.

She knew what she wanted and she also knew how to give pleasure as well

And from that time , I find the idea of woman with past very attractive, I feel like a confident person who has experienced various thing and understand about it better then me.

Also I am not shaming anyone but I am not into cuckholding at all , preferring someone with past is a different thing and cuckholding is very different.

And of course that's not the only thing I look , the first thing I look is personality, our ideas and our vibe matching with each other , sexual experience and past is last of them , it's just one of my i guess idk what to say about it wish or desire

Am I the only one ? Because there are many people who shame other for not being a vergin. And if I look for people who are okay with it then I found most men who are very idk weird i guess.

So this is one of my festishes that I have for so long , so far i have dated 4 different girls and while starting in 12th pretty much no one had a past until the last relationship I get into.

She had a past , not to crazy but good enough for her to actually know what she wanted and that turned out to be one of the best experience I ever had , she knew how to communicate, she knew her emotional needs and physical needs as well.

She knew if she liked blowjob, how she wanted to get eaten out and now she wanted to have sex which was very helpful and after her i am finding woman with past very attractive.

And now the part of why i enjoy other people finding my girlfriend sexy , it basically boosts my ego , rather then getting angry on her cloths I like it.

I like it when people look at her sexy I even told her , because it makes me feel like i have someone everyone wants but can't have