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Predicament, selfbondage ideas, please 🙏

Please help me with session ideas. I(F) am home alone for the first time in… literally forever this weekend and need some good ideas. I’m open to hear any idea, I do especially love long-term predicaments. Hope to try some new things out if anyone has good ideas, thank you!

what I have:
2x dildo gag (panel and ball(lockable))
ball gag
Ring gag (lockable)
Full/filling mouth gag (lockable) (looks like a red ball gag when in but is like a mouth guard and fills the mouth)
Full head hood with attachable blindfold and mouth panel
Collar ring at front (matching wrist straps)
Blind fold
Harness/panel (with ball behind panel) gag (lockable and has attached collar)
Some rope
Set of straps that go under bed for spread eagle
Spreader bar w/ multiple attachment points (ankle and wrist straps)
Large dildo (8+in very girthy)
2x Medium dildo (6ish inch)
7in knotted dildo
Plug (vaginal, soft/realistic)
Butt plugs (inflatable, small, medium, large types)
12 in thin anal toy (like a snake with flared base
Anal hook
Wand vibe (8in large and 4in small one)
2 rolls of Saran Wrap
Large zip ties
Assortment of locks and keys that I could freeze in as an ice lock(small ones and a few master lock ones) (small ones fit in any aforementioned lockable toys)

Restrictions:
I cannot be on knees long (they might lock up and dislocate if I’m bearing weight on them directly for long (like kneeling))
I don’t do any non sexual body fluids (no excrements)
Won’t do anything that will get me actually caught or seen (but toys under clothing in public or wearing a skirt and no undies is ok but not flashing in public or wearing only mesh like clothing)

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u/Zestyclose_Ad_5316 — 1 day ago

Questions about online meetups

I’ve seen some people (not just here) that talk about their online dom. Someone they met online that transitioned into in person. I’m curious on how you get to the level of trust to actually meet them in person and to get to them dominating you in person. All I think about when I see people talking about how they met their dom in person is how wrong it could go.
In your experiences, how long did you talk with your dom before meeting in person? What were some things you did to feel more comfortable with meeting them in person? Do people even do them or is one of those online fantasy/fake things? Also is it typical for the first meeting in person to be of a sexual or nonsexual nature? I love my exploration of bdsm online but I’m not sure how well it translates to in person with regards to what I said.

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u/Zestyclose_Ad_5316 — 2 months ago

Beach trip with a plug

Short story but I (20F) am traveling for a move currently. I am moving to a new place and have my last few things to bring, including my sex toy box. Around midday I realized how nice it was outside and decided to find a beach and tan. As im laying there I remember what box I have in my car so I go back and grab a large vaginal plug and put it in. So I’m currently on the beach, in a skimpy bathing suit, have a plug in on a public beach. I wonder if anyone can tell 😉 Maybe I’ll go the rest of my drive with it in

Edit:

Ended up wearing it for the two hour drive home as well. Stopped a few time to shop around while it was in.

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u/Zestyclose_Ad_5316 — 2 months ago
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Selfbondage suggestions please!

Please help me with session ideas. I am home alone for the first time in… literally forever this weekend and need some good ideas. Hope to try some new things out if anyone has good ideas, thank you!

Supplies:
2x dildo gag (panel and ball(lockable))
2x ball gag
Ring gag (lockable)
Full mouth gag (lockable)
Full head hood with attached blindfold and mouth panel
Collar ring at front (matching wrist straps)
Blind fold
Harness/panel (with ball behind panel) gag (lockable and has attached collar)
2x rope
Set of straps that go under bed for spread eagle
Spreader bar w/ multiple attachment points (ankle and wrist straps)
Large dildo (8+in very girthy)
2x Medium dildo (6ish inch)
7in knotted dildo
Plug (vaginal, soft/realistic)
Butt plugs (inflatable, small, medium, large)
12 in thin anal toy (like a snake with flared base
Anal hook
Wand vibe (8in large and 4in small one)
Assortment of locks and keys that I could freeze in as an ice lock(small ones and a few master lock ones) (small ones fit in any aforementioned lockable toys)

Only restriction is that I cannot be on knees long (they might lock up and dislocate if I’m bearing weight on them directly for long (like kneeling))

Thank you for any ideas you have 😉

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u/Zestyclose_Ad_5316 — 2 months ago