How did you find your sugar daddy/mama?

As the title suggests I’d love to know. I’ve been doing in person sw for 3 years part time. I’m great at it, I love it, it works for me.

But I also feel like I really know how to connect with people via text and maintain the fire and keep people feeling really sexy and happy and smiling and for me I love gifts and feeling spoiled and taken care of in that way. So…

The question isn’t advice for sugaring but rather simply, how did you find the connection? Was it a client who turned into a sugar situation? Seeking? Another site?

Thanks so much y’all
-Z

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u/ZoeyLovesIt — 13 days ago
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[META] So many Snapchat bots lately!

The number of entirely non-lesdom posts lately that are just a disembodied naked woman with a snapchat link typed over it has been really bad lately. Anyone else noticing? Can we all agree to report these more and/or faster? They always have like 16 - 20 upvotes which I assume are generated by other bots to get them boosted.

Mods, anything that can be done on your end? I assume not but thought I'd ask.

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u/ZoeyLovesIt — 18 days ago
▲ 8 r/Cumrades+1 crossposts

Take Over! (Control of the vibrator I’m wearing while I try to do chores.

I’m unpacking from a move and want to be messed with… if we vibe (lol) I’d love to give you control of my lush while I try to clean and unpack tonight… sound fun?

My profile has more info about me and some more photos as well but things we can chat about:

My job as a SWer, we can talk about poly (I have two hot partners!), lesbianism, politics, share fantasies and kinks (ropes and latex and bdsm or degradation anyone??), flirt, hype each other up, share photos, yay!!

As a working girl there are very few kinks I won’t at least chat about. :) Lately I just really like feeling like a used little toy right now and it’s all I can think about!

I prefer Discord but Reddit is fiiiine. I don’t have snap and I won’t. No thanks.

\*\*Read This:\*\*

Cis Men: no thank you
Women: yes
Trans people: yes all
Anyone under 25: also no thank you
Be willing to verify yourself please and thank you!

Also if you don’t trust my verification I don’t blame you and I’m happy to send a different form. Skepticism makes sense here. 💜

\*\*Turn offs:\*\* Mommy play, most pet play

Like I said you can read more about me in my profile and alsoooo send your favorite fruit in your first message for bonus points so I know you read this. 🍉

u/ZoeyLovesIt — 11 days ago

37F Control my lush while I *try* to do my chores?

I’m unpacking from a move and want to be messed with… looking to chat first but if there is a vibe (lol) I’ll give you control of my lush while I try to clean and unpack today… sound fun?

My profile has more info about me and some more photos as well but things we can chat about:

My job as a SWer, we can talk about poly (I have two hot partners!), lesbianism, politics, share fantasies and kinks (ropes and latex and bdsm or degradation anyone??), flirt, hype each other up, share photos, yay!!

As a working girl there are very few kinks I won’t at least chat about. :) Lately I just really like feeling like a used little toy right now and it’s all I can think about!

I prefer Discord but Reddit is fiiiine. I don’t have snap and I won’t. No thanks.

**Rules:**

Cis Men: no thank you
Women: yes
Trans people: yes all
Anyone under 25: also no thank you
Blank profile? Be willing to verify yourself please and thank you!

Also if you don’t trust my verification I don’t blame you and I’m happy to send a different form. Skepticism makes sense here. 💜

**Turn offs:** Mommy play, most pet play

Like I said you can read more about me in my profile and alsoooo send your favorite fruit in your first message for bonus points so I know you read this. 🍉

u/ZoeyLovesIt — 20 days ago

37F Keep me horny at work?

I’ll be at work all day again today and since I put in my two weeks last week the senioritis has fully taken hold and I just don’t give a shit.

We can talk about my more interesting job as a SWer, we can talk about poly, lesbianism, politics, share fantasies and kinks (ropes and latex and bdsm or degradation anyone??), flirt, hype each other up, share photos, yay!!

I prefer Discord but Reddit is fiiiine. I don’t have snap and I won’t. No thanks.

As a working girl there are very few kinks I won’t at least chat about. :) Lately I just really like feeling like a used little toy right now and it’s all I can think about!

**Rules:**

Cis Men: no thank you
Women: yes
Trans people: yes all
Anyone under 25: also no thank you
Blank profile? Be willing to verify yourself please and thank you!

**Turn offs:** Mommy play, most pet play

You can read more about me in my profile and alsoooo send your favorite fruit in your first message for bonus points so I know you read this. 🍉

u/ZoeyLovesIt — 21 days ago

37F - A kinky poly sex worker who had has too boring of an office job. Distract me?

Who doesn’t love being on Reddit when you should be at work? Am I right?

We can chat kinks, I’m open minded and at least into hearing about almost anything! Currently very into orgasm control and ropes and latex and… well the list goes on.

Ok byeee!
-Zoey

u/ZoeyLovesIt — 30 days ago

Anyone use Reddit to find clients?

I imagine it's an incredibly saturated market but I'm already somewhat flirty and slutty on here so it feels like I wouldn't be doing much more work than what I'm already doing on here. Perhaps a different profile than this one... but still?

I do SW in person part-time. I have a boring day job and I could do most of the work during work which seems to have appeal as well. I primarily use Tryst and for the small city I'm in I'm happy with that. It works well and I make enough. But curious if there was a market here and if so, what have people had success with?

I can do some specialty work like shibari and latex which seem to be popular but my current vibe at least on Tryst is girl next door. Might shift as I start getting older and less young looking...

Thoughts?

EDIT: Thanks everyone! Also... Politely, I don't need to be told to be careful. I've been doing this for years and I know what will keep me safe. Just wondering if folks have had luck and if so what worked or didn't. :)

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u/ZoeyLovesIt — 1 month ago

[f4F] Latex Lesbians, assemble!!

As the title suggests I'd love to chat about latex. What sets do you have, what do you love about it? Any suggestions for retailers? I have a few sets but I want more if I can find sets I love. I am a SWer who occasionally gets asked about it but I'm thinking I might turn toward it a little more! So let’s chat and share experiences!!

As stated, women only please! (And yes obviously trans women are women. All transfemme people are welcome!)

Also this is my first post here and I read all the rules but I am terrified of getting banned so I really hope I didn't say anything I wasn't supposed to??

-Zoey

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u/ZoeyLovesIt — 1 month ago

[f4F] Latex! Any Latex Lesbians in the house?

As the title suggests I'd love to chat about latex. What sets do you have, what do you love about it? Any suggestions for retailers? I have a few sets but I want more if I can find sets I love. I am a SWer who occasionally gets asked about it but I'm thinking I might turn toward it a little more!

As stated, women only please! (And yes obviously trans women are women. All transfemme people are welcome!)

Also this is my first post here and I read all the rules but I am terrified of getting banned so I really hope I didn't say anything I wasn't supposed to??

-Zoey

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u/ZoeyLovesIt — 1 month ago

[f4F][/f/TF] You catch your roommate moaning your name (Maybe we go dark today?)

Real quick... do we all have a roommate kink on here?? Sheesh! (Love it.)

OK so my name is Zoey. I'm an innocent little thing who has mostly played with men but has hated it more often than not. With every successive bad experience my tolerance for their bullshit lowers. I've played with girls before but not like... all the way before. Mostly making out and longing for more. My roommate (you) has always had my eye. You're actually my older sister's friend who let me move in with you when I graduated and got my first job. You're only a few years older than me but it feels like more and based on the sometimes even older women you bring home to say I am jealous of you would be an understatement. I can hear the way they scream through the walls and I am dying to get a piece of that for myself... I'd do anything for it...

One particularly lonely night when I have the apartment to myself I decide to be bold and watch porn in the living room.

*Lesbian roommates* I type into the search bar of Porn Hub. I don't really know where else to look and it seems like a popular website right? Before I know it I am soaking myself and moaning out your name. Unfortunately for me you walked in about 5 minutes ago...

Where does this go? I am down for anything from sweet and romantic to blackmailing me into being at your every whim. Maybe you brought someone home and now I have to cuck for you? If you want to get even darker don't hesitate to reach out with ideas.

Me:

I'm a cute, tattooed girl. Imagine girl next door with an edge. I'm happy wearing sundresses or fishnets and workout enough to pull off the gym lesbian look. Definitely femme but not in a stereotypical "straight girl" way. Imagine the look of a dark featured alt-ish queer girl with the sometimes nervous/awkward vibe of Ava in Hacks.

Kinks:

Yes:

Roommate scenarios
Cheating & Blackmail
Cucking
Dubcon
Power exchange
Experience differences
Details!
Degradation
Bondage/BDSM
Toys
Rimming
Fisting
Strap Ons
Stretching
Squirting
Cum
Realism
I am a trans-positive lesbian!

No:

Men
Mommy
Incest
Underage
Blood, gore etc...
Aliens & Monsters
TERFS
SWERFS
Surrealism is mostly a no unless it is just in moments and really well written.

Happy to use Reddit but prefer Discord. I generally write between 6 and 10 lines and today is a very slow work day so like... let's get it on?? 😄 I have like 4 hours to dedicate to this!

Cheers!

-Zoey

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u/ZoeyLovesIt — 1 month ago