u/_SweetNessandLight_

Hello! I'm still a virgin pegger. Lol.

Since I haven't done it yet, I don't know if my preference will be focusing on my partner only or wanting stimulation myself at the same time. Probably both, depending on the vibe.

I know there are grinding pads like Bumpher and dual ended dildos, but has any vagina owners ever used a vaginal plug while pegging?

I was looking at SquarePeg's G-Squeeze and wondered about using it for pegging.

Any thoughts or experiences?

For the first time, is it better to be someone new as well or someone with experience being pegged?

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I know about the process leading up to actually pegging (fingers, plugs, toys) so I wouldn't be jumping straight to the pegging part.

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I have lots of experience being on the receiving end with dildos and penises but none on the giving side.

Edit: For those watching my account or sending me DMs for updates on my pegging experiences... you'll be disappointed. I'm not here to be your personal porn dispenser.

I came to bdsm later in life and have spent the past 5 years reading, learning, and exploring, both online and irl.

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I'vm naturally submissive, especially in the bedroom. I've discovered the type of sub I am and the type of Dom I need.

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I've had ONS and relationships with a dynamic and everything in between. I finally found my person a year ago. Due to life circumstances, our relationship never really got off the ground. We've been trying (mostly online), but I feel us drifting apart. It's no one's fault.

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But I've also felt myself detaching from my submissive needs. Not just with that person, but within myself. I still like bottom activities, but I've been reconsidering what I want in a relationship. And I don't think I need or want to be a sub anyone.

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This person has been extremely supportive and an active participant in my mental health journey. We bring out the Dom and sub sides from each other like no one else has, for either of us. I've never been much into "ownership," but it came up naturally, and I think they now own my submissiveness in a way. Not that they took it or I can't be submissive with someone else, but like I had a finite amount of submissive energy and because our connection has felt so intense in that department, I have none left.

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During this introspection, I've also been thinking about exploring my dominant side. I've always had a dominant streak that I've labeled as my brat side, but maybe it's more than that.

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Anyhow, that was longer than I intended, but has anyone ever gone through a metamorphosis like this?

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I even abandoned my sub coded account and made this new one.