u/ashamed_training1

How or where did guys who setup a date for her find the guy?

How did this work for yall if you did it?

Is this more of a white woman thing? Is the Mexican hotwife a non-thing?

So she’s enjoyed flirting and attention/validation. After lots of fantasy and the fantasy getting more specific and what if questions maybe it’s gotten more real?

She seems to have decided that there’s no way to have sex casually for her. It’s like she’s thought about it and if she could and that’s where she is. I respect it and it’s still disappointing.

Have other woman concluded the same and later figured out how to proceed?

She’s no longer in the no never category. She’s enjoying attention and knows it’s exciting for both of us.

My question is do the women genuinely apréciate the freedoms and excitement and express it?

She’s only done the casual thing once when she was younger. And looking back she probably wanted a relationship. So the idea of casual sex without it being meaningful doesn’t compute for her.

So the question for the ladies here is if this sounds familiar did it stop you or did you figure out how to not fall in love??

Is her being listed after and wanted excite the husbands too?

It seems like some of the potential peril for a relationship is how to handle the excitement of a new lover?

I’m trying to understand from her perspective the concern about keeping it less emotional and more sexual and the risk/reality of emotional connections.

She’s not less sexual. She actually gets way wetter and orgasms harder and faster. What I’m talking about is not as quick to check in or wondering about what I’m doing. Not a huge distance but maybe more like distracted?

When asked if she would go on a date she said probably! She’s definitely been doing more eye contact and flirting and telling me I should be nervous.

She seems to be a literal more interested in the date idea. In the interim she’s more autonomous and spending more time doing things solo and not as quick to say what she’s up to or asking about my plans. Certainly not less sexual or affectionate just more autonomous maybe?

Anyone experience this is the pregame?

Is that the self talk or self proclaimed ideal?? Trying to ufdersrand some of the thinking that motivates the women attracted to the lifestyle.