45 [M4F] #Toronto Canada - Master looking for a slave that’s wise.
I am experienced and interested in heavy power exchanges. I’m looking for a relationship that would eventually be a total power exchange.
This is the deep end, the most extreme type of bdsm relationship you can have. The most intimate. Let’s be honest here, also the most dangerous.
I’ve met/known people who seem to be nonchalant about having a heavy power exchange and then they eventually run into issues. Like being surprised when they no longer recognize themselves.
Now a wise slave knows that’s part of the deal. You shouldn’t recognize yourself, you’re being changed to suit your master’s desires. This in fact should be something they desire.
I’m not trying to scare anyone, but I do want to find someone that’s serious, that understands this, that wants this.
We don’t have to start in the deep end, but I’m here looking for someone to join me in the deep end, that’s the intended end goal. I’m looking for someone that understands this stuff. Ideally someone that’s experienced, knows how the bdsm world works. You don’t have to be experienced, but I will say it’s inappropriate for this type of relationship to be your starting point.
To add a bit more. Have you heard of a slave contract? It's more than just a document where Mr. Domly dom tells a slave what he's going to do to them. No. Think of as a document that represents what we've talked about, what we've communciated to each other. It's a living document, if it needs to be updated with limits or things that are important to you, then that's what it's for. As a slave yes it should be hot for you to read. It should also represent things we've negotiated and communicated. Surprise, facilitating your ownership requires paperwork.
I also shouldn’t have to say this, but just in case. Things you’ll need: the ability to communicate and self reflection.