u/autologous_d

45 [M4F] Sadistic & loving in need of the perfect toy for regular ongoing consensual destruction [M4NB] [M4T]

Located in Richmond Virginia. Looking for someone for in person play. I love using my hands and I can't do that online.

nsfw pics & more info including limits in profile

Short version is I am looking for someone for regular ongoing fun. Looking more for a monogomish friends with benefits type situation. Open to it becoming more but I have no interest in forcing something to be more than it is.

I love impact play, especially with my hands. Slapping, beating, twisting, pulling, pinching, forcing open holes, covering holes, what can't these hands do? And major bonus points if you cum from being punched while we're making out.

I am also looking for someone who is a champion ass eater & deep throater. I expect you to worship my entire body as you say thank you for covering me in bruises.

I bite too. And I love being covered in your cum.

I am very open to all kinds of kinks. Please tell me what you like and what your limits are.

I am queer and pretty open to many forms of gender and its expression. I tend to lean more fem, nb, fluid, or androgynous.

Very open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and many body types. Personality is most important but obviously physical attraction is a thing for everyone.

And despite the desire to abuse you, I am a huge fan of enthusiastic consent from both of us. I can be extreme & brutal but it only works for me when I know the other person is enjoying it even more than me. Trust is everything.

18+ obviously but really looking for mid/late 20+ at a minimum.

Capture my attention and you'll spend the rest of your life dreaming about me.

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u/autologous_d — 5 hours ago

Sadistic & loving 45M in need of a perfect toy for regular consensual abuse in RVA

Located in Richmond Virginia. Looking for someone for in person play. I love using my hands and I can't do that online.

nsfw pics & more info including limits in profile

Short version is I am looking for someone for regular ongoing fun. Looking more for a monogomish friends with benefits type situation. Open to it becoming more but I have no interest in forcing something to be more than it is.

I love impact play, especially with my hands. Slapping, beating, twisting, pulling, pinching, forcing open holes, covering holes, what can't these hands do? And major bonus points if you cum from being punched while we're making out.

I am also looking for someone who is a champion ass eater & deep throater. I expect you to worship my entire body as you say thank you for covering me in bruises.

I bite too. And I love being covered in your cum.

I am very open to all kinds of kinks. Please tell me what you like and what your limits are.

I am queer and pretty open to many forms of gender and its expression. I tend to lean more fem, nb, fluid, or androgynous.

Very open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and many body types. Personality is most important but obviously physical attraction is a thing for everyone.

And despite the desire to abuse you, I am a huge fan of enthusiastic consent from both of us. I can be extreme & brutal but it only works for me when I know the other person is enjoying it even more than me. Trust is everything.

18+ obviously but really looking for mid/late 20+ at a minimum.

Capture my attention and you'll spend the rest of your life dreaming about me.

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u/autologous_d — 5 hours ago

45 [M4F] #RVA Looking for a hot fwb for ongoing kinky fun. [M4NB] [M4T]

nsfw pics in profile + a long bdsm personals post that explains more about me & my limits.

Short version: I'm creative, kinky, fun, sadistic, and I'm looking for a regular fwb for consensual destruction & endless orgasms.

I'm queer and very open to many forms of gender. I am way more interested in who you are as a person than what is between your legs. I do tend to lean more towards fem, androgynous, or fluid folks but some forms of masculinity are excellent. Tomboys/bois are always delicious.

Very open to all ethnicities. A good skin contrast is always welcome.

Open to most body types. Personality is more important but physical attraction is obviously a thing too.

18+ obviously, by probably not looking for anyone under late 20s.

Open to more than fwb with the right person but also not trying to force something to be more than it is.

You must love impact play (I love using my hands) and you must love to eat ass. Very open to whatever other kinks we might share as well.

Looking for in person fun in Richmond Virginia.

I'm a great lover and you'll spend the rest of your life getting off to your memories of me.

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u/autologous_d — 6 days ago

45 M4F RVA Sadistic & loving dom in need of masochist for ongoing kinky fun. M4NB M4T

nsfw pics in profile + a long bdsm personals post that explains more about me & my limits.

Short version: I'm creative, kinky, fun, sadistic, and I'm looking for a regular fwb for consensual destruction & endless orgasms.

I'm queer and very open to many forms of gender. I am way more interested in who you are as a person than what is between your legs. I do tend to lean more towards fem, androgynous, or fluid folks but some forms of masculinity are excellent. Tomboys/bois are always delicious.

Very open to all ethnicities. A good skin contrast is always welcome.

Open to most body types. Personality is more important but physical attraction is obviously a thing too.

You must love impact play (I love using my hands) and you must love to eat ass. Very open to whatever other kinks we might share as well.

Looking for in person fun in Richmond Virginia.

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u/autologous_d — 7 days ago

45 [M4F] #RVA Looking for a FWB for regular ongoing kinky fun #Richmond #VA #Virginia #DMV [M4T] [M4NB] [M4A]

Are you a toy in need of a sadistic and loving dominant to destroy you in the most intimate of ways? 

Do you want to be held close while we make out and I ruin your mind and body? 

Do you want someone who is strong enough to hold you down and has a voice that will make you stay?

Do you want someone for friendship and regular ongoing kinky sex? And maybe more if it feels right to both of us?

Are you creative, intelligent, kinky, & fun? I am and I need someone to match my energy.

Not looking for a passive partner. I wipe my feet on doormats, I don't fuck them. Not looking to be dominated but you should be able to give as well as you get.

Your pleasure and delight is at least as important as mine. I believe in equality between both of us regardless of what kind of kinks we share.

I am a big fan of enthusiastic consent. Let's talk about your limits & desires. Communication & trust are key to mind blowing orgasms for both of us. Aftercare for both of us is the best. My limits are below.

I have a very wide range of sex/kink interests and am very open to many things.

I am specifically looking for someone who loves to eat ass and craves impact play, amongst whatever other amazing things we both enjoy.

I love using my hands in all kinds of ways. I like cuddling & making out just as much as I'll enjoy consensually slapping your beautiful face or beating your sexy ass.

Real Life! No online only anything. Please be in or near Richmond VA. Maybe within a couple of hours.

I'm interested only in the possibility of an ongoing fwb type thing. Not looking for random hookups or anonymous sex. Things only get better the more we learn about each other. Open to something more with the right person(s), but not looking to force something to be more than it is.

Potentially open to a couple together depending on the situation. In some ways I could see this being ideal but also seems even more impossible to find.

I'm queer, generally attracted to femme, androgynous, or fluid folks. Some forms of masculinity can be hot. Tomboys/bois of all genders are always delicious.

Open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and most body types. I don't care if you're taller or shorter than me, everyone is the perfect height on their knees. 

Looking for someone 30-50ish. 18+ obviously, but too much under 30 is unlikely for so many reasons.

I'm 6ft, 185 lbs, very hairy body and shaved cock, bit of a dad bod which you will love when I hold you close. My nipples are pierced and I love having them played with. NSFW pics & more info in profile.

I'm picky about who I play with. But if you capture my attention I will make sure you spend the rest of your life getting off thinking about what we do together. 

Please say more than hey! when you message me or you will be ignored.

I have realistic expectations about this, but I met my best friend on here a couple of years ago and we have a great supportive loving friendship so maybe it's possible?

My limits:

- Diapers/adult babies/age regression/Disney adults. Depending on the person, DDLG without age regression can be ok.

- People who use "AI" voluntarily. If corporations do your dreaming for you, what could we possibly have to talk about? 

- No cheaters. If you're in a relationship that's maybe ok but your person must know. Cheater energy is some dark shit I don't want any part of.

- No Karens or Chads. You absolutely know if either of those terms apply to you.

- No trad wives. I don't believe in gender roles. I am fully capable of taking care of myself and you should be too, as much as anyone is in this nightmare world.

- Folks from the left only. Miss me if you don't believe in full equality & bodily autonomy for everyone.

- No law enforcement of any kind and no active duty military. ACAB even includes handcuffs for me now.

- Shit/scat play. I love all kinds of anal play and it's no big deal when things happen, but that doesn't mean I want you to intentionally shit on me.  

- Mommys/dommes/etc. Switches welcome but l'm not interested in being dominated and you will be very disappointed if you expect me to ever call you mommy.

- Food play/food control/feederism of any kind. 

- Furries. Some forms of pet play can be ok. Collars & leashes can definitely be hot.

- Financial play, blackmail, other illegal activities 

- Not interested in being around hard drugs. I smoke weed, barely drink, no tobacco. Poppers are ok if that's your thing. Absolutely no PNP ever. 

- Recording of any kind without everyone's full consent including what happens with those recordings after. I am open to pics and videos together but it will require trust from both of us. Possibly open to public content if that is something you are already looking for but that's a longer conversation and not something I am actively seeking.

- Probably others I am forgetting.

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u/autologous_d — 8 days ago

45M in RVA looking for a fun creative masochist for regular ongoing consensual destruction.

Still looking for a sexy friend with benefits for regular kinky fun in Richmond Virginia.

More info & very nsfw pics in profile.

Not looking for anonymous hole or one offs. I'm worth so much more than that. Open to more than fwb, but I'm not interested in forcing something to be more than it is.

I'm super kinky, fun, sadistic, and loving. I am seeking an interesting person who can match my energy. I like making out just as much as I enjoy consensually slapping a pretty face or shoving my beautiful cock into a needy hole.

I'm pretty open to many forms of gender & expression, though I tend to lean more towards fem, androgynous, or fluid folks. Sometimes masculinity is a lot of fun.

Looking for someone who loves to eat ass, lives for impact play & bruising, and loves being a chew toy (I bite).

Very very open to many other things too. There's a post with my limits, tell me about your's.

Potentially open to a couple together depending on the situation.

Your enthusiastic consent & pleasure is just as important as mine in all things. I can be intense & extreme but it only works for me if it's working for you too.

Blank profiles who just say hey will be ignored. Try flirting. Really. Or even just having a conversation. If you can't talk to me like I'm human or make me laugh you'll never make me cum. And you definitely want to make me cum. And you will want to do it often.

18+ obviously, but mid-20s+ at a minimum for so many reasons.

Open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and many body types. Personality is the most important but physical attraction is still a thing.

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u/autologous_d — 13 days ago
▲ 2 r/Virginia_R4R+1 crossposts

45 [M4F] #RVA Looking for a FWB for regular ongoing kinky fun #Richmond #VA #Virginia #DMV [M4T] [M4NB] [M4A]

Are you a toy craving a sadistic and loving dominant to destroy you in the most intimate of ways? 

Do you want to be held close while we make out and I ruin your mind and body? 

Do you want someone who is strong enough to hold you down and has a voice that will make you stay?

Do you want someone for friendship and regular ongoing kinky sex? And maybe more if it feels right to both of us?

Are you creative, intelligent, kinky, & fun? I am and I need someone to match my energy.

Not looking for a passive partner. I wipe my feet on doormats, I don't fuck them. Not looking to be dominated but you should be able to give as well as you get.

Your pleasure and delight is at least as important as mine. I believe in equality between both of us regardless of what kind of kinks we share.

I am a big fan of enthusiastic consent. Let's talk about your limits & desires. Please tell me all about what you want and what you don't. Communication & trust are key to mind blowing orgasms for both of us. Aftercare for both of us is the best. My limits are below.

I have a very wide range of sex/kink interests and am very open to many things.

I am specifically looking for someone who loves to eat ass and craves impact play, amongst whatever other amazing things we both enjoy. I love using my hands in all kinds of ways. Piercings and lactation would be amazing too but are very much not a requirement. My nipples are pierced and I love having them played with.

I like cuddling & making out just as much as I'll enjoy consensually slapping your beautiful face or beating your sexy ass.

Real Life! No online only anything. Please be in or near Richmond VA. Maybe within a couple of hours.

I'm interested only in the possibility of an ongoing fwb type thing. Not looking for random hookups or anonymous sex. Things only get better the more we learn about each other. Open to something more with the right person(s), but not looking to force something to be more than it is.

Potentially open to a couple together depending on the situation. In some ways I could see this being ideal but also seems even more impossible to find.

I'm queer, generally attracted to femme or androgynous folks. Some forms of masculinity can be hot. Tomboys of all genders are always delicious treats.

Open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and most body types. I don't care if you're taller or shorter than me, everyone is the perfect height on their knees. 

Looking for someone 30-50ish. 18+ obviously, but too much under 30 is unlikely for so many reasons.

I'm 6ft, 185 lbs, very hairy body and shaved cock, bit of a dad bod which you will love to worship. NSFW pics & more info in profile.

I'm picky about who I play with. But if you capture my attention I will make sure you spend the rest of your life getting off thinking about what we do together. 

Oh, and JFC, please say more than hey! when you message me, because you already know you will, because whatever is in-between your legs has already started to throb. Please make it clear in your first message what resonated for you about my post. 

I have realistic expectations about this, but I met my best friend on here a couple of years ago and we have a great supportive loving friendship so maybe it's possible?

My limits:

- Diapers/adult babies/age regression/Disney adults. Depending on the person, DDLG without age regression can be ok.

- People who use "AI" voluntarily. If corporations do your dreaming for you, what could we possibly have to talk about? 

- No cheaters. If you're in a relationship that's maybe ok but your person must know. Cheater energy is some dark shit I don't want any part of.

- No Karens or Chads. You absolutely know if either of those terms apply to you.

- No trad wives. I don't believe in gender roles. I am fully capable of taking care of myself and you should be too, as much as anyone is in this nightmare world.

- Folks from the left only. Miss me if you don't believe in full equality & bodily autonomy for everyone.

- No law enforcement of any kind and no active duty military.

- Shit/scat play. I love all kinds of anal play and it's no big deal when things happen, but that doesn't mean I want you to intentionally shit on me. Ever. 

- Mommys/dommes/etc. Switches welcome but l'm not interested in being dominated and you will be very disappointed if you expect me to ever call you mommy.

- Food play/food control/feederism of any kind. 

- Furries. Some forms of pet play can be ok. Collars & leashes are often hot.

- Financial play, blackmail, other illegal activities 

- Not interested in being around hard drugs. I smoke weed, barely drink, no tobacco. Poppers are ok if that's your thing. Absolutely no PNP ever. 

- Recording of any kind without everyone's full consent including what happens with those recordings after. I am open to pics and videos together but it will require trust from both of us. Possibly open to public content if that is something you are already looking for but that's a much longer conversation and not something I am actively seeking.

- Probably others I am forgetting.

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u/autologous_d — 14 days ago

I'm kinky, creative, sadistic, & loving. Looking for someone interesting who can match my energy for regular ongoing domination & destruction.

Real life only. Looking in Richmond Virginia.

When you message me, tell me about yourself, what your situation is, and what you are looking for. And if it is a shared account between the couple, be very clear about who I am talking to.

Communication, consent, & trust are everything.

More info & very nsfw pics in profile.

Bonus points for my fellow queers. I would absolutely love to be best friends and a stud for a queer femme couple. Very open to many forms of gender and its expression.

All ethnicities & backgrounds welcome. Skin contrasts are beautiful.

Oh and you absolutely must love to eat ass if you want to worship my beautiful cock.

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u/autologous_d — 18 days ago
▲ 5 r/fuckbuddiesRVA+3 crossposts

I'm kinky, creative, sadistic, & loving. Looking for someone interesting who can match my energy for regular ongoing domination & destruction.

Real life only. Looking in Richmond Virginia.

When you message me, tell me about yourself, what your situation is, and what you are looking for. And if it is a shared account between the couple, be very clear about who I am talking to.

Communication, consent, & trust are everything.

More info & pics in profile.

Bonus points for my fellow queers. I would absolutely love to be best friends and a stud for a queer femme couple. Very open to many forms of gender and its expression.

All ethnicities & backgrounds welcome. Skin contrasts are beautiful.

Oh and you absolutely must love to eat ass if you want to worship my beautiful cock.

u/autologous_d — 15 days ago

very nsfw pics in profile along with more information.

Short version is I am kinky, creative, fun, sadistic, and very loving.

I am looking for a kinky friend with benefits in/near Richmond Virginia. Real life only please, not interested in online only anything.

I am open to exploring wherever this might go, but am also very much not interested in forcing something to be more than it is.

Please be interesting & capable of having a conversation and maybe even flirting a little. Major bonus points for fellow creatives/artists/maker types.

I'm queer. Very open to many forms of gender & its expression. I tend to lean more towards fem or androgynous or fluid folks.

Open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and many body types.

18+ obviously, but mid-20s+ preferred for so many reasons.

If you're amazing and interested please get in touch.

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u/autologous_d — 19 days ago

very nsfw pics in profile along with more information.

Short version is am kinky, creative, fun, sadistic, and very loving.

I am looking for a kinky daughter/friend with benefits in/near Richmond Virginia. Real life only please, not interested in online only anything.

I am open to exploring wherever this might go, but am also very much not interested in forcing something to be more than it is.

Please be interesting & capable of having a conversation and maybe even flirting a little. Major bonus points for fellow creatives/artists/maker types.

I'm queer. Very open to many forms of gender & its expression. I tend to lean more towards fem or androgynous or fluid folks.

Open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and many body types.

18+ obviously, but mid-20s+ preferred for so many reasons.

If you're amazing and interested please get in touch.

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u/autologous_d — 21 days ago

Are you a toy craving a sadistic and loving dominant to destroy you in the most intimate of ways? 

Do you want to be held close while we make out and I ruin your mind and body? 

Do you want someone for friendship and regular ongoing kinky sex?

Are you creative, intelligent, kinky, & fun? I am and I need someone to match my energy. Not looking for a passive partner. I wipe my feet on doormats, I don't fuck them. Not looking to be dominated but you should be able to give as well as you get. Your pleasure and delight is at least as important as mine. I believe in equality between both of us.

I am a big fan of enthusiastic consent. Let's talk about your limits & desires. Please tell me all about what you want and what you don't. Communication & trust are key to mind blowing orgasms for both of us. Aftercare is the best. My limits are below.

I have a very wide range of sex/kink interests and am very open to many things. I am specifically looking for someone who loves to eat ass and craves impact play, amongst whatever other amazing things we both enjoy. I love using my hands in all kinds of ways. Pierced clit or tits and lactation would be amazing bonuses too. My nipples are pierced and I love having them played with.

Real Life! No online only anything. Please be in or near Richmond VA. Maybe within a couple of hours.

I'm interested only in the possibility of an ongoing fwb type thing. Not looking for random hookups or anonymous sex. Things only get better the more we learn about each other. Open to something more with the right person(s), but not looking to force something to be more than it is. Potentially open to a couple together.

I'm queer, generally attracted to femme or androgynous folks. Some forms of masculinity can be hot. Tomboys of all genders are always delicious treats.

Open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and most body types. I don't care if you're taller or shorter than me, everyone is the perfect height on their knees. 

Looking for someone 30-50ish. 18+ obviously, but too much under 30 is unlikely for so many reasons.

I'm 6ft, 185 lbs, hairy body and shaved cock, bit of a dad bod which you will love to worship. Strong enough to hold you down with a voice that will make you stay. NSFW pics & more info in profile.

I'm picky about who I play with. But if you capture my attention I will make sure you spend the rest of your life getting off thinking about what we do together. 

Oh, and JFC, please say more than hey! when you message me, because you already know you will, because whatever is in-between your legs has already started to throb. Please make it clear in your first message what resonated for you about my post. 

I have realistic expectations about this, but I met my best friend on here a couple of years ago so maybe it's possible?

My limits:

\- Diapers/adult babies/age regression/Disney adults. Depending on the person, DDLG without age regression can be ok.

\- People who use "AI" voluntarily. If corporations do your dreaming for you, what could we possibly have to talk about? 

\- No cheaters. If you're in a relationship that's maybe ok but your person must know. Cheater energy is some dark shit I don't want any part of.

\- No Karens or Chads. You absolutely know if either of those terms apply to you.

\- No trad wives. I don't believe in gender roles. I am fully capable of taking care of myself and you should be too, as much as anyone is in this nightmare world.

\- Folks from the left only. Miss me if you don't believe in full equality & bodily autonomy for everyone.

\- Shit/scat play. I love all kinds of anal play and it's no big deal when things happen, but that doesn't mean I want you to intentionally shit on me. Ever. 

\- Mommys/dommes/etc. Switches welcome but l'm not interested in being dominated and you will be very disappointed if you expect me to ever call you mommy.

\- Food play/food control/feederism of any kind. 

\- Furries. Some forms of pet play can be ok. 

\- Financial play, blackmail, other illegal activities 

\- Not interested in being around hard drugs. I smoke weed, barely drink, no tobacco. Poppers are ok if that's your thing. Absolutely no PNP ever. 

\- Recording of any kind without everyone's full consent including what happens with those recordings after. I am open to pics and videos together (I think it's pretty hot if I'm being honest) but it will require trust from both of us. Possibly open to public content if that is something you are already looking for but that's a much longer conversation and not something I am actively seeking.

\- Probably others I am forgetting.

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u/autologous_d — 21 days ago

very nsfw pics in profile along with more information.

Short version is am kinky, creative, fun, sadistic, and very loving.

I am looking for a regular friend with benefits in/near Richmond Virginia. Real life only please, not interested in online only anything.

I would love to find my long term person here too but lol that feels impossible. I am open to exploring wherever this might go, but am also very much not interested in forcing something to be more than it is.

Please be interesting & capable of having a conversation and maybe even flirting a little. Major bonus points for fellow creatives/artists/maker types.

I'm queer. Very open to many forms of gender & its expression. I tend to lean more towards fem or androgynous or fluid folks. Masculinity is sometimes interesting.

Open to all ethnicities (I love a good skin contrast) and many body types.

18+ obviously, but mid-20s+ preferred for so many reasons, maybe even really 30+.

If you're amazing and interested please get in touch.

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u/autologous_d — 21 days ago

More info & pics in profile. Short version: I am kinky, creative, sadistic, and loving. I am looking for someone who can match my energy for regular ongoing play.

Please be interesting. Boring people need not apply lol.

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u/autologous_d — 25 days ago
▲ 5 r/bigwhitecocklover+2 crossposts

More info & pics in profile. Short version: kinky, funny, dominant, sadistic, loving and in need of someone who can match my energy for regular ongoing fun.

In person in Richmond Virginia only.

u/autologous_d — 17 days ago
▲ 15 r/fuckbuddiesRVA+2 crossposts

If you turn me on I will destroy you and leave you drooling.

You must love to eat ass.

Only looking for regular ongoing fun (or the possibility).

Not into anonymous hookups or financial exchange in either direction.

More info and pics in profile.

u/autologous_d — 18 days ago