How to fit femdom in life when my situation is complicated?
I am 27 and when it comes to kink and arousal, femdom has always been important. When it comes to the casual relationships I sought out, it's always been Domme/sub relationships.
But when it comes to romantic preferences, my choice of a woman is quite the opposite. I always like and prefer soft, gentle women. Shy, quiet, introverted women, and women who are kind of submissive. I have never been able to see a dominant woman in a romantic light.
Now that time is passing by, I am getting more and more confused about what kind of partner to seek. For falling in love, I can think of nothing else but a soft and gentle woman. At the same time, nowadays I don't usually feel turned on sexually without indulging in femdom.
How does someone in my shoes seek out a partner? Does the phase of wanting femdom remain only like a phase and goes away when you find a romantic partner?