u/avenging-crusader019

How to fit femdom in life when my situation is complicated?

I am 27 and when it comes to kink and arousal, femdom has always been important. When it comes to the casual relationships I sought out, it's always been Domme/sub relationships.

But when it comes to romantic preferences, my choice of a woman is quite the opposite. I always like and prefer soft, gentle women. Shy, quiet, introverted women, and women who are kind of submissive. I have never been able to see a dominant woman in a romantic light.

Now that time is passing by, I am getting more and more confused about what kind of partner to seek. For falling in love, I can think of nothing else but a soft and gentle woman. At the same time, nowadays I don't usually feel turned on sexually without indulging in femdom.

How does someone in my shoes seek out a partner? Does the phase of wanting femdom remain only like a phase and goes away when you find a romantic partner?

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26 [M4F] Masochistic sub looking for a sadistic Domme #online

Hi lovely people, thanks for clicking on my post!

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I'm a 26 year old submissive and have been a submissive for the last 7 years or so. Been with some Dommes in all these years and it has all been some really good experiences. After a small break from the lifestyle, I am finally willing to get back into it and find a suitable Domme!

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What I like the most about it is to please a woman and keep her happiness and fun as the top priority. My willingness to be a submissive mostly comes from a desire to please and keep a good woman happy.

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I am mostly into two things : humiliation and service submission. I love it when I am humiliated and love it more when it makes my Domme feel powerful. Empowering my Domme partner feels super good. And as the title says, I am a masochist in that sense and would love to please you by taking up the pain for you.

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I also like to be of service and like to worship my Domme deeply, genuinely. I love it because it boosts the confidence of my Domme and since the worship is genuine, it keeps her happy. I also want to do all kinds of work for her be it her homework, some research or any kind of labour I can take up.

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My other kinks are : pet play, wax play, impact play, feet worship, body writing etc

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Please feel free to reach out to me if you fulfill the following criteria :

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  1. You are between the ages of 22-40

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  1. You are not a pure soft Domme and you love to humiliate

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  1. You love to be worshipped

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  1. Brownie points if you are really sadistic

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  1. You shouldn't be a sub-leaning switch. I am looking for dom leaning women

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Please don't hesitate to reach out. We can talk and see where things go from here!

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u/avenging-crusader019 — 2 months ago

26 [M4F] Masochistic sub looking for a sadistic Domme #online

Hi lovely people, thanks for clicking on my post!

I'm a 26 year old submissive and have been a submissive for the last 7 years or so. Been with some Dommes in all these years and it has all been some really good experiences. After a small break from the lifestyle, I am finally willing to get back into it and find a suitable Domme!

What I like the most about it is to please a woman and keep her happiness and fun as the top priority. My willingness to be a submissive mostly comes from a desire to please and keep a good woman happy.

I am mostly into two things : humiliation and service submission. I love it when I am humiliated and love it more when it makes my Domme feel powerful. Empowering my Domme partner feels super good. And as the title says, I am a masochist in that sense and would love to please you by taking up the pain for you.

I also like to be of service and like to worship my Domme deeply, genuinely. I love it because it boosts the confidence of my Domme and since the worship is genuine, it keeps her happy. I also want to do all kinds of work for her be it her homework, some research or any kind of labour I can take up.

My other kinks are : pet play, wax play, impact play, feet worship, body writing etc

Please feel free to reach out to me if you fulfill the following criteria :

  1. You are between the ages of 22-40

  2. You are not a pure soft Domme and you love to humiliate

  3. You love to be worshipped

  4. Brownie points if you are really sadistic

  5. You shouldn't be a sub-leaning switch. I am looking for dom leaning women

Please don't hesitate to reach out. We can talk and see where things go from here!

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u/avenging-crusader019 — 3 months ago