u/bael808

Aloha Everyone! We recently finished cleaning out excess members in the Telegram group and are looking to populate the community with interactive members. This will be safe space for those looking for verified and authentic connections with open-minded or like-minded individuals or couples.

Currently for this round, we are looking for verified and authentic couples and females to invite in.

How Can I Join?

Please message u/bael808 with the following information:

• Verification photo (SFW or NSFW) with yourself (if just female) or both (for couples) holding the sign together.
  • Sign must include the following information:
    • HawaiiNSFW
    • Reddit Username
    • Date (must be a recent date, you can use previous verification pictures you have submitted to other subs)
  • Telegram Username
  • We will refuse any AI generated verification pictures and immediately ban you across all of our subreddits that we moderate.
  • If you are a MALE and trying to get in, you will be banned regardless. There will be a separate invite period for all of you males. We have had too many instances of males joining and just not reading or following the rules that we have set out.

Aloha everyone! I am making this final warning, we will start to heavily review posts. Which not includes just the post title, but including the body. If you are caught trying to bypass the minimum character limit with basically nonsense (repeating words, letters, numbers or symbols). This constitutes as spam. You post will be removed and if we review your post history and we deem that you have done this previously. You will be straight banned and any messages to modmail to undo the ban will be ignored.

You cannot claim that you didn't know. The rules are posted in many places for you and you already had your chances by us being lenient.

Summer break for students is coming to an end (for college students) but never stop kinking away! What have you all been up to this entire summer? Any hot steamy and kinky hookups? Work got you all busy this summer? Anything you are trying to accomplish before the summer is officially over?

Been quite busy since the start of the summer, started dating then it all ended, getting more busy with work and got some work trips coming up for the rest of the year. I posted a hiatus status previously but now I am 100% fully back and actively looking at all new posts and cleaning bad ones up as I see them. Anyway, if you all want to chat. Like always, feel free to comment or DM.

Also stay safe on the next possible incoming storm, this last one was a disaster on all levels.

I am still on hiatus but figured that some of you would like to discuss about car play. What do you all think about car play and what are your go to spots?

While I was still just looking to hookup with lovely females here (yes on Reddit). My go to spots around the island were:

• China Walls (I know it's rocky but the thrills in the middle of the night is fun)
• Hawaii Kai Lookout
• Lanai Lookout
• Sandy's Beach
• Makapu'u Lighthouse
• The 2 lookouts outside of MCBH (one of the best ones honestly)
• Any of the bases (honestly the best spots at any parking lot and as long as you have access)
• Ala Moana (mall is quite big and you can easily find many spots around the mall)

I have done all sorts of things with car play with single females or married females ranging from short to tall, petite to thick. Windows cracked opened enough for some air to come in and let her moan her lungs out is the best car play in my honest opinion.

Shouldn't car play be discrete? Yes but nothing like allowing the female to really enjoy it to her fullest. Was I ever worried about people hearing and coming up to the car? Yes but after a bit of gained experience and knowing where to park and how to stay stealth. You don't worry about it at all. It becomes so fun that you just get so deep into it and next thing you know. You are panting and trying to cool down before you get dressed and drive off.

You must be in a very dark tinted SUV right? Nah, I am driving around in a normal sedan with legal spec tint as long as you deploy additional stealth measures. Isn't that just small for thick females? Yes and no, if you can get into the right positions, it's quite fun like really fun.

What females are you talking about on Reddit and who are they? There are legit females (single and married) that are on here looking for the same things we are all looking for. Honestly if you put in some good effort in your posts, you can sure hit the lottery or get close to hitting the lottery. It's easier for couples and females to find a hookup, it's harder for males since there are more of us than them. So really just saying I have a "BWC, BBC, 6+ incher, etc..." isn't going to cut it. Or a post of "suck me off, let's just fuck, please me, etc..." isn't stimulating the incentive for them to just message you. I honestly think most females and couples make the best posts on this subreddit and you all should take a page from them.

How do you know it's real? I don't, I just chance the meet and if they don't show up. Well it's whatever, better luck next time right? I totally ignore messages once they say to make a donation or they need some gas money, like that is a old scam that I can't be lured in and you shouldn't too.

Well anyway, what have I been up to? Honestly just living life better, going on dates with real girls for the long run and just purchased a Tesla so going to see how that goes as I am use to combustion engines and making my car play it's loud tune around the island. Feel free to message me if you want to chat about anything. Please don't message me who are these girls I have hooked up with in the past as they don't want to be bothered.

Aloha Everyone. I am taking an indefinite hiatus from Reddit and Moderating so the subs for HawaiiNSFW, r4rHawaii and HawaiiSwingers will be in due care with the rest of the mod team. My DMs have closed for any new users wanting to send me a message. Those who have interacted with me can still send me a message and I will reply when I check once in a bit.

New Top Mod for all subs will be u/Rubeelicious and followed by u/SomecallmeHawaiian. Everything will be in great care by them and the rest of the mod team. Catch you all later!

Aloha Everyone. I am taking an indefinite hiatus from Reddit and Moderating so the subs for HawaiiNSFW, r4rHawaii and HawaiiSwingers will be in due care with the rest of the mod team. My DMs have closed for any new users wanting to send me a message. Those who have interacted with me can still send me a message and I will reply when I check once in a bit.

New Top Mod for all subs will be u/Rubeelicious and followed by u/SomecallmeHawaiian. Everything will be in great care by them and the rest of the mod team. Catch you all later!

Aloha Everyone. I am taking an indefinite hiatus from Reddit and Moderating so the subs for HawaiiNSFW, r4rHawaii and HawaiiSwingers will be in due care with the rest of the mod team. My DMs have closed for any new users wanting to send me a message. Those who have interacted with me can still send me a message and I will reply when I check once in a bit.

New Top Mod for all subs will be u/Rubeelicious and followed by u/SomecallmeHawaiian. Everything will be in great care by them and the rest of the mod team. Catch you all later!

Aloha and we are starting our Mega Discussion thread for the Week of June 26 which ends on July 4th! This has to be one of the biggest and most exciting weeks of the summer season to get freaky and kinky. Not only will the temperatures will rise up (literally and metaphorically) if you know what I mean. It's the time to catch feelings or get dumped.

Feel free to ask any questions you have such as if you need examples on post titles, what do post flairs mean, or technical questions when it comes to R4R. We encourage non-toxic and welcoming behavior to keep the community healthy and fun. If you are caught breaking the vibes, you can go "bye bye bye".

Again here is our most FAQs:

1. I just posted but it keeps getting removed, what is going on?
   • First, if you are participating (posting) in our known subs that don't have active moderators and allow bots/scammers to continue to post/comment. We have a bot that is setup to monitor a long list of subs we deem as root causes to bots/scammers. We also have bots setup to ensure certain post formats and body is of certain lengths.
   • Seconds, Reddit also deploys global filters and if your account is flagged in their backend. You will always run into that issue with NSFW subs. We have no control of those so we may not help you.
   • Third, your post most likely passed basic checks but a moderator deemed that the post was low-effort or just spammy.
2. I post but I am not getting any messages, is this sub dead?
   • No this sub is not dead. You are in Hawaii, it's small and it's an island. Everyone wants to be discreet and also everyone knows everyone so most likely you may sound like someone they know or they don't want to get caught.
   • Also, have you reviewed your post and asked yourself. Would the target gender be attracted by they way you speak? If that is how your dating profile is, it's probably a good reason why you aren't getting any interest.
3. The couples here are all fake.
   • No that is not the case. They are allowed to be picky. You could be hung, fit, tall, whatever it is you think you are best fit for. Couples are allowed to pick their game.
   • But I sent a good message to them and never got a response back. Well like I said, they are allowed to respond to or ignore who they deem is good or not.
4. The girls here are all fake.
   • Like I said in #3, girls are allowed to pick and choose. There is a small group of them and a lot of guys on the list. It's basically Tinder without the pictures but just hooking up.
5. I got ghosted, can you do something about it?
   • No.
6. I was messaging this user and they stopped responding.
   • Everyone is an adult and there are many reasons why. They might have lost interest in you, lost interest in hooking up, or just forgot to log back on.
   • Alternatively, they wanted to cheat but decided to not follow through with it.
7. I'm trying to find a quick thing, can you tell me who are the girls?
   • Absolutely NO! We moderators don't keep an active list of males, females, couples, trans, CDs, and so forth. We are volunteers (unpaid) and just maintain the subs.
8. You mods suck! My posts/comments keeps getting deleted, this sub is no fun and there are more girls posting in the other ones.
   • We (mainly I) don't care because I personally rather keep a tight ship that is running at an optimal way of things being moderated and automated. I am in no way going to allow just random bot/scam/spam to run rampant on my subs. You are free to participate in the other ones with more "girls" (they aren't real 98% of the time).
   • We regulate content creators here too because anyone can sign up to be one and we would love to support local creators instead of letting just any content creator to post. This is the balance we found to work best for the sub.
9. This sub and the other subs you guys control suck!
   • That's personal opinion and we (mostly I) don't care. I ain't changing the ways of the subs to best fit you.
10. Why can't we post dick pictures? All the other subs allow it.

• This was a decision made by the mod team and a poll several years ago. We came to an agreement to not allow it except if you are a legit couple posting photos. If you want to scroll through dicks all day long, there are other subs you can do do that at. This is a multi function sub and we rather keep it quite single male dick picture free.

Aloha, we are announcing that invites into our official and exclusive TG group is open to couples, females and select males.

How To:

• On a piece of paper write down:
  • HawaiiNSFW
  • Today's Date
• Then take verification photos SFW or NSFW while holding the sign with the following:
  • Front Body (face can be blurred)
  • Side View
• Then go message me (u/bael808) your TG username and the verification photos.

This is super simple and if you can't read or follow instructions, no one can help you.

I would post the invite link here but countless times no one has read.

Aloha everyone and Happy Father's Day to all the daddies and potential daddies (I know, protection would have been useful right?!). Go out there, have fun, eat like kings and stay safe. Kink on ya'll!

Feel free to leave a comment on what you're planning to do with the wife, girlfriend, fwb or whatever it is you are into and have.

Aloha everyone! This will be our first mega discussion for the week of June 21-27. During this week, feel free to ask any question(s) you may have. There is no wrong question, just please don't ask questions that have already been answered by reading the rules and post formatting post.

FAQs:

1. I just posted but it keeps getting removed, what is going on?
   • First, if you are participating (posting) in our known subs that don't have active moderators and allow bots/scammers to continue to post/comment. We have a bot that is setup to monitor a long list of subs we deem as root causes to bots/scammers. We also have bots setup to ensure certain post formats and body is of certain lengths.
   • Seconds, Reddit also deploys global filters and if your account is flagged in their backend. You will always run into that issue with NSFW subs. We have no control of those so we may not help you.
   • Third, your post most likely passed basic checks but a moderator deemed that the post was low-effort or just spammy.
2. I post but I am not getting any messages, is this sub dead?
   • No this sub is not dead. You are in Hawaii, it's small and it's an island. Everyone wants to be discreet and also everyone knows everyone so most likely you may sound like someone they know or they don't want to get caught.
   • Also, have you reviewed your post and asked yourself. Would the target gender be attracted by they way you speak? If that is how your dating profile is, it's probably a good reason why you aren't getting any interest.
3. The couples here are all fake.
   • No that is not the case. They are allowed to be picky. You could be hung, fit, tall, whatever it is you think you are best fit for. Couples are allowed to pick their game.
   • But I sent a good message to them and never got a response back. Well like I said, they are allowed to respond to or ignore who they deem is good or not.
4. The girls here are all fake.
   • Like I said in #3, girls are allowed to pick and choose. There is a small group of them and a lot of guys on the list. It's basically Tinder without the pictures but just hooking up.
5. I got ghosted, can you do something about it?
   • No.
6. I was messaging this user and they stopped responding.
   • Everyone is an adult and there are many reasons why. They might have lost interest in you, lost interest in hooking up, or just forgot to log back on.
   • Alternatively, they wanted to cheat but decided to not follow through with it.
7. I'm trying to find a quick thing, can you tell me who are the girls?
   • Absolutely NO! We moderators don't keep an active list of males, females, couples, trans, CDs, and so forth. We are volunteers (unpaid) and just maintain the subs.
8. You mods suck! My posts/comments keeps getting deleted, this sub is no fun and there are more girls posting in the other ones.
   • We (mainly I) don't care because I personally rather keep a tight ship that is running at an optimal way of things being moderated and automated. I am in no way going to allow just random bot/scam/spam to run rampant on my subs. You are free to participate in the other ones with more "girls" (they aren't real 98% of the time).
   • We regulate content creators here too because anyone can sign up to be one and we would love to support local creators instead of letting just any content creator to post. This is the balance we found to work best for the sub.
9. This sub and the other subs you guys control suck!
   • That's personal opinion and we (mostly I) don't care. I ain't changing the ways of the subs to best fit you.
10. Why can't we post dick pictures? All the other subs allow it.

• This was a decision made by the mod team and a poll several years ago. We came to an agreement to not allow it except if you are a legit couple posting photos. If you want to scroll through dicks all day long, there are other subs you can do do that at. This is a multi function sub and we rather keep it quite single male dick picture free.

Thought I should let everyone know how Reddit's new chat/message feature works. When you send any new message for the first time to a user, they can either "Accept" or "Ignore" it. When they "Ignore" it, it automatically gets archived somewhere and any future messages from you doesn't show up.

So are you wondering why you send so many to respond to their post and they aren't receiving it? Well if they "ignored" it, they will never see any new ones at all. Now if they "accepted' but never responded, I have no explanation about that. Hopefully you all understand how it works.

For all the guys in here...like why do you all engage (comment, like and/or message) obvious bots, fakes, and scammers. Like yes they will comment or message you back, make you feel like a king before taking your money and taking off.

Now don't be saying you didn't know, cause there are obvious signs on most of these accounts. If they mention some type of socials to get you to message them outside of Reddit, that is the main red flag. However, if they are real and are more about privacy. They could mention sharing pics privately off Reddit but the initial messages should be in chat.

Now the next part, no sane legit girl would leave socials up like that open to Reddit.

Well the summer months will officially start soon and I am sure we are all feeling the heat of the sun since last month. What is the most incel or degenerate thing that you have done or have been doing to keep yourself entertained in the self care aspects? Like we all have dry spells right...I am sure the pent up energy has to be spent somewhere right?

💦💦💦 Well I've been on a constant self care since last month, usually once a day or every other day. Sometimes I would seek out girls to sext and talk about fantasizes to get off and keep myself from going insane. Last year wasn't a dry run but this year is proving to be a bit difficult keeping the shaft lubed and working.

What's up everyone, last discussion for a bit. But what do you all think about age gap relationships and hook ups?

If you are into it, how far of a gap do you usually go for (in +/- years)?

I personally have stuck to -10, sometimes no lower than -12 from my age, some hook ups +5 but never +10 (well yet haha). Please don't ask me where or how I pull down to -12 because there isn't really any special trick or place for this. It just happens randomly, the problem lies on you and your ways honestly.

I appreciate if you don't message me your answer, just post your response here as my DMs are always flooding with random messages.

Just wondering if a majority of you all take any male performance enhancers?

If yes, which ones do you take and why? What are the main differences for you when taking them and do you perform much better than without them?

If no, are you curious about them or just don't care for them because you already have fun without them.

Never tried any of them but I get told a lot that people take honey packs (honestly thought they were taking some food supplement for working out), bluechew, or rugiet. Curious on how is the feeling when you take them and do you actually perform that well?

So how does everyone like their meat? All day marinated, some marination, or just clean?

😂 When you go down on someone (males or females), do you prefer them being marinated all day, somewhat marinated, or just clean?

I prefer mines between somewhat marinated to clean, but likes it with red wings 🪽 served on the side too. Let's see where this goes, also please DO NOT message me asking about how to find hookups or where to look.

Aloha, please read and understand the rules so that you don't experience issues with your posts or comments. Failure to do so, will result in your posts or comments being removed. Continued repeat of this, will result in temporary bans.

General Rules:

1. 18+ Users Only - Any users found to be underage will be banned and all posts or comments removed.
2. Follow Posting Guidelines - Please, please read the posting guidelines. We spent a lot of time putting this information out clearly and people still can't follow them.
3. Low-effort or Incorrect Post Settings - The mod team will be monitoring daily posts and actively removing them if they are considered low-effort or you have incorrect post flairs assigned. No calls to action and no questions to titles unless they are a discussion based post and not a R4R post. Also repeated words or just spam to bypass the minimum post requirement will result in your post remove, after repeated violations. You will just be banned and ignored.
4. No Dick Pictures - Absolutely no dick pictures if you are a single male. If you are a couple that posts some NSFW pictures, dick pictures are okay as long as there is an accompanied female partner.
5. Use Correct Post Flairs - Please ensure that you use the correct post flair for your submission. Posts with incorrect flairs will be removed by moderators, and we will not assist in correcting them.
   1. Example: a M4F post should use the "Male" post flair as you are a single male. You should not use the "Female" post flair, doing so will have your post removed.
6. No Exchange or Solicitation for Goods and Services - There should be no exchange or solicitation of goods or services of any kind (this includes escorting, prostitution, drugs, trading, other groups, etc) to be permitted within this subreddit. Violators will be banned, including all of their posts and comments removed. This includes any users in for-profit activities anywhere on Reddit (bio, posts, comments, PMs, etc.), as well as posts inquiring specific services.
   1. Promoters are an exception and you must inquire with the moderators for this exception.
7. No Trading - We do not allow any type of trading (this includes pictures, leaks, groups, links, etc.), especially content involving minors under the age of 18. If you don't have consent to share media, that is considered revenge porn and you will be immediately banned and put onto shame.
8. No Toxicity or Spam - Please respect the subreddit and the users! We aim to create a fun and safe space for all NSFW content related to Hawaii, whether for locals or visitors. We reserve the right to remove toxic or spam posts and comments. Insulting or behaving rude towards moderators will result in an immediate ban.
9. No AI, Impersonation and No Revenge Porn - Do not impersonate or post explicit content without the consent of the individual(s). Sharing or publicizing intimate images or videos without consent is both against civil and criminal law. Violating this guideline will result in an immediate ban.
10. Promoters Post Once Per Day - As part of allowing content promoters to promote content, you are only allowed to post ONCE per day.

User Awareness:

The mods of HawaiiNSFW, r4rHawaii and HawaiiSwingers would like to bring awareness that not all users are legitimate as some are bots, fakes, impersonations, and scammers. We all understand that as for a R4R sub, you cannot combat 100% of these types of posts and users but we have the necessary prevention measures to put a sprawl on this. We regularly update our prevention measures to ensure that we are up-to-date and you do not see this in other Hawaii related subs that tries to mimic us. Sure you can blame us for not having so many couples or females posting and looking for a NSFW meetup, if you don't like how we do things. You can go participate somewhere else.

Just going to be straight to the point, any of you horny bastards have any reading comprehension? Yes to all the single males commenting and lurking. Can any of you guys read at all? Like I'm looking at the comments on all the posts and damn, the literal fact that a post title that contains any of the following: MF4MF or MF4F or F4MF or F4F. All you bastards comment something stupid like: pick me, DM me, single male here. Like WTF can you like not even take the time to read?

I get that we are all here for one reason, we just want to hookup. Cool but these couples and females won't be posting after that stupid mistake. More like they will either go somewhere else to find someone or just start lurking.

Also if they ignore you and you keep messaging them, you really don't get the cue that they aren't interested in you at all.

P.S. If you send dick pictures without asking to send one or they never even asked you yet. Have you considered getting a male stroker for a low cost of $25 off Amazon.

Another P.S. Also you guys got to stop interacting with bots, fakes, and scammers. It's so easy to spot but I keep seeing you thirsty bastards comment and message the same fake account posting in so many subs. Then complain there is too many fakes or scammers after falling for it. Natural selection is sure a great thing....

So this talk is about protection, so guys. What is your Every Day Condom (EDC)?

What are your favorite brands, materials, and why do you like them? What makes them special enough to give it a worth to mention?

I personally like Skyn, started with the Elite Line and then started using the Extra Lube Line. I personally think the Elite Line is a good all rounder and feels as close to skin as possible, most likely not the thinnest but it feels pretty good. The Extra Lube Line is a tad bit thinner but I feel that it doesn't stay put that well but not like it matters too much when you are going deep into it.