u/bbraddan

40 M4F Why I prefer lurkers

Lurkers aren’t decided yet. They quietly read, and think, and wonder.

Lurkers are very careful, they don’t want to get caught, they don’t want anything to change.

Lurkers are picky, they are skeptical, they can read between the lines.

Lurkers are more comfortable relating in person. They aren’t sure they will find what they are looking for online.

Lurkers don’t have it bad enough to risk it, but they don’t have it good enough not to imagine what could happen.

Lurker, will you take my hand?

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u/bbraddan — 9 days ago

(40) Happy Mothers Day, trying to avoid the dad bod

u/bbraddan — 13 days ago

Hi! I’m looking for a casual FWB, emphasis on the friends part. Connection is really important to me, and I’m looking for someone that I can have a good conversation and rapport with, before we move onto me asking what you’re wearing late at night.

About me: I’m an attorney, athletic and love working out/running/pickleball, I love dogs, I typically don’t get along well with Republicans, and I love curvier women. Send me a chat if you’re interested :) I played soccer in college and while looks are not the most important happy to share pics early.

I can host tonight or tomorrow.

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u/bbraddan — 17 days ago

Hi! I’m looking for a casual FWB, emphasis on the friends part. Connection is really important to me, and I’m looking for someone that I can have a good conversation and rapport with, before we move onto me asking what you’re wearing late at night.

About me: I’m an attorney, athletic and love working out/running/pickleball, I love dogs, I typically don’t get along well with Republicans, and I love curvier women. Send me a chat if you’re interested :) I played soccer in college and while looks are not the most important happy to share pics early.

I can host tonight or tomorrow.

u/bbraddan — 18 days ago

Figured I’d try this again. Here’s the obligatory married and not looking to blow up our lives. I’m pretty laid-back, easy to talk to, and I like keeping my life peaceful so discretion matters to me, but so does having something real so no games, no wasting time.

I’m looking for someone I can genuinely vibe with. Good conversation, natural chemistry, someone who can laugh, be a little flirty, but still keep it real. I’m the type to be consistent and make time when I’m interested. If you intend to waste time, you'll be left hanging.

For a quick picture of me: I’am 40, 5’10”, tan, and about 160lbs. I am in good shape. Lawyer and former college soccer player.

If you’re reasonable, know what you want, and can keep things between us, we’ll get along just fine.

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u/bbraddan — 18 days ago

Hi! I’m looking for a casual FWB, emphasis on the friends part. Connection is really important to me, and I’m looking for someone that I can have a good conversation and rapport with, before we move onto me asking what you’re wearing late at night.

About me: I’m an attorney, athletic and love working out/running/pickleball, I love dogs, I typically don’t get along well with Republicans, and I love curvier women. Send me a chat if you’re interested :) I played soccer in college and while looks are not the most important happy to share pics early.

I can host tonight or tomorrow.

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u/bbraddan — 18 days ago

Married👏🏽people👏🏽understand👏🏽married👏🏽people👏🏽!

That’s why we gravitate towards each other. It’s why we end up in deep conversations with one another. We get it! We know what you’re going through! We know that shit gets hard and you just want to vent and complain but you can’t to your partner so you find someone else who isn’t a biased party! It doesn’t make us bad spouses. It makes us human. We just need that extra connection or validation from someone that understands what we are going through at that point in time!

Also. Sourdough bread is maybe one of the best things on the planet. I just had to throw that in there.

Married lawyer dad of 4. You won’t be disappointed!

Ok. Thank you!

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u/bbraddan — 19 days ago

Lurkers aren’t decided yet. They quietly read, and think, and wonder.

Lurkers are very careful, they don’t want to get caught, they don’t want anything to change.

Lurkers are picky, they are skeptical, they can read between the lines.

Lurkers are more comfortable relating in person. They aren’t sure they will find what they are looking for online.

Lurkers don’t have it bad enough to risk it, but they don’t have it good enough not to imagine what could happen.

Lurker, will you take my hand?

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u/bbraddan — 20 days ago