28 [M4F] #London - Experienced, articulate Dom looking for intensity
Life is good but could be gooder. I consider myself a well adjusted pervert, in that I'm very happy with my life and how I'm living it: family, work, friends, exercise, passion (I love to write and cook), and so on. I'm very satisfied. But I like to explore sex and power and perversion deeply and so I look here.
Out in the real world I'm an ambivert. I'm 28, 6 foot, in good shape, not too shabby to behold, and very social. I typically spend my weekends with my friends and my weekdays at home reading, watching TV, working out and eating well. I travelled the world broadly before settling into my job / flat and am an adventurer, truth seeker, and epicurean all round.
I sit closer to the EQ side of the intelligence spectrum and am a born communicator. In life this has meant working a little in clinical psychology and being 'that guy' people go to for support. In kink it gives me a pretty good set of tools to dismantle you and seduce you into submission with a silver tongue.
Behind closed doors I'm not too big on boxes or aligning with any one genre of kink. I've explored pretty broadly across: control, pain, domestic service, intense degradation and slave or slut training, deeper obedience training, free use, light-CNC, wardrobe and bathroom control, and so on. I have a psychological approach to kink and that tends to define the shape of any given dynamic.
I want to invade your brain, find your darkest fantasies, and force you to live them. I want take what pleases me from you and I want this act to make you leak. I want to understand you and take advantage of my understanding to exploit you for your own sexual delight. I want to make you my docile, eager slut. Etc...
I've been both a Daddy Dom and a Master and thoroughly enjoyed both. For me it's all about power, and in the profound sense of dominance I am obliged to suppress in society. I obviously don't go about being dominant with civilians, that would be weird 👍. I lean towards the intenser side of the kink spectrum, but I'm happy to pursue this richness in different ways depending on the dynamic - through control, or pain, or degradation. In a long term dynamic I am naturally a care giver and in more of a playing dynamic I would still always offer this. A profound sense of safety is so important to be vulnerable and establish something fun and beautiful, even if it's content might strike an outsider as dark.
I'd also be interested to try to switching with the right partner but it hasn't been my experience so far.
Looking For:
Like-minded women in their twenties. Both intellectual / emotional connection, and physical, are really important to me. I love long extended perverted play, but I'm a yapper and want to be able to chat for ages too. Particularly in a LTR. For play-partners, it can be more sex/service focused if you like.
Girls with a passion for literally anything, and who look after their bodies - move to the front.
I have a very full and rich life. Kink is only one part of it. I am also obsessed with safe, healthy sex, with safe words and excellent communication. Please be reassured that I will take your wellness as an absolute, inviolable priority. Please also feel confident that you will be treated like the object and sex toy you really want to be.
I am generally looking for play partners or for a pure BDSM dynamic, though for that person I am looking for a wife :). It's just pretty rare to have a connection like that <3
Happy to swap pics (please be the same) xx