u/bigandrei_tx

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I’ve been toying my ass for about 6 years. The njoy I’ve had it for about 3-4 months. It’s my gf actually.

I recently started using mindgasm with this toy and it has been my 2nd session with mindgasm and njoy. One thing keeps scaring me even when I am very very relaxed. 40 min in, it starts to feel really good. I feel like I found a very good spot, and suddenly my toy goes in a bit deeper (sucked in) and my ass hole grips it so fuckn hard that it hurts my asshole. I try to
Gently pull it out, but my ass doesn’t let it go. It won’t move until about 15-20 seconds later.

Does this happen to anyone else?
Is it possible to get injured with this toy or the toy getting stuck? The toy doesn’t go all the way in. I’m not worried about it getting lost, but that suction and grip is intense and scares me…

Also the prostate, can it be ripped out, pulled off some how? The steel pulling it out? Or is the prostate pretty grounded and smashed to my body? I know it’s a stupid question. I am told it’s the size of a walnut and a walnut is small. What if the toy goes to far in and when you pull out the toy you are pulling on the prostate outward? I know it’s dumb a question

Tonight I played for about 1 hour… first 30 min I’m relaxed, trying to figure out what is my prostate. (I have been playing for 5 years now and I still can’t pin point it)

Finally I found 2-3 spots, I can’t really tell,

One feels like a somewhat solid texture like a wall kind of… EVERYTIME I run this toy over it or tap it slowly gently, it just feels sore….

Then as I rest the toy on that spot, it’s like another part inside of me puffs up and I think that’s the prostate, so I pay attention to that and it feels good somewhat, again after a while i lose the spot or it gets sore…

I hit another spot which the toy is going in and out of me easily now, splashing into a squishy surface deeper inside my ass, this time I get a feeling like when you hold your pee for too long. (Kind of hurts from holding too long. Sharpish feeling) but not unbareable and I start tapping that, it starts to feel good again but this time it feels like I’m getting ready to pee if I keep pushing , so I slow down to avoid wetting the bed I’m on. I squirted once and it was a lot of urine.

I got tired of trying to find the good spot so I start playing with my cock at the same time and it starts to feel good. I am pushing the toy in and out on that last part I described ,,, my cock is soft so I’m trying to make him hard and he won’t get hard….

I stop jerking it because the feeling built up again and I feel it bursting out of my soft cock. I let some cum out with out me jerking it, if I would have jerked it, it would have felt even better…. I then clean up the cum with my fingers and eat my cum just to taste myself… it turns me on more and I’ve heard of guys that go round after round after round on prostate play so I keep playing with my ass , but suddenly I get a very sharp pain up my ass, it feels like the toy is being sucked in, so I held up tensely and just closed my eyes to relax. I than proceeded to pull it out slowly but it wouldn’t come out. It was stuck or sucked in very tight vacuum style. I lay there, relax more, and then push out a bit. When I pulled it out, it was messy and I usually don’t leave the toy that messy…

What the heck happened?

I have been trying to feel that good feeling everyone else is getting but all I feel is a sore asshole and sore insides.

Started with my gf toys
butt plug training kit, then moved to glass toys, then tried her dildo and aneros.. yes I would cum when I used these toys, but I had to jerk my cock every single time. If thee was no cock jerk and toy at the same time I wouldn’t cum.

Njoy wand
Was good at the beginning. I was able to cum hands free 3 different sessions 2x each time. It required Jerk stop jerk stop jerk stop all at the same time while the wand was in me…. These 3 sessions when I cummed ya it felt ok… nothing crazy like everyone says. I honestly didn’t feel like they were orgasms just draining all of my cum.

I read others success so then I started pressing when I felt the urge to pee and I kept at it, and this was 100% NO hands.. after about 30 min doing this, I pissed it all out. It kind of felt good, but again I didn’t get an orgasm feel good. I kept going for about 15 min but it stopped feeling good so I stopped. It just felt like heavy metal ball was hitting my inside. I was even able to supprisingly put the larger end in by sitting on it. It felt good for a bit but would go away….

Aneros
I heard people feel good after they leave a toy inside of them all day or for a few hours and it becomes sensitive or something. Last night I left it in me for 2 hours, it didn’t feel good or anything so I took it out after trying. Today I said fuck it im gonna put it in while im working all day (10 hour shift) and nothing about the entire 10hrs felt good. Im just here sore inside of my ass…

Is there anyone that experiences the same? How did you finally get good at it? Strokes? In and out? Hard in and out? Soft press hard press ? I’ve looked at others techniques and I’ve tried them all. They say not to chase the orgasm, I’m just trying to make it feel good. That’s all

Maybe I’m just meant to fuck bad bitches and that’s it. No ass play at all.