u/bislutj

Hi there! I'm a very kinky, experienced Dom-leaning switch in Toronto and I'm looking for a partner to explore what I like to think of as "lighter" scat play. Specifically, I'm looking to have my dirty ass worshipped and cleaned by an eager little toilet slut. There's just something so incredibly hot about reducing a sub to toilet paper.

I'm also very much into dirty anal and ass-to-mouth play, and would love to explore that as well.

While I am Dom-leaning I'm still a switch, so if anyone wants to give me the same treatment, I'd be more than happy to oblige.

Physically, I'm bearded, blonde, tattooed and built like a rugby player. Big, twisted lumberjack vibes.

If any of this sounds fun and you're local, send me a chat and let's see where this takes us.

Hi there! I'm a very kinky, experienced Dom-leaning switch in Toronto and I'm looking for a partner to explore what I like to think of as "lighter" scat play. Specifically, I'm looking to have my dirty ass worshipped and cleaned by an eager little toilet slut. There's just something so incredibly hot about reducing a sub to toilet paper.

I'm also very much into dirty anal and ass-to-mouth play, and would love to explore that as well.

While I am Dom-leaning I'm still a switch, so if anyone wants to give me the same treatment, I'd be more than happy to oblige.

Physically, I'm bearded, blonde, tattooed and built like a rugby player. Big, twisted lumberjack vibes.

If any of this sounds fun and you're local, send me a chat and let's see where this takes us.

This is going to come off as a bit of a tiny violin post to start, but I promise there's a discussion to be had here. So to start: I'm an experienced, poly dom with multiple partners. I'm also in a primary relationship with a mostly vanilla life partner who is encouraging and wonderful.

I'm also an extremely cruel sadist, sexually. The opposite of a soft dom. The "I'll waterboard you with my piss and torture you until you break" kind. CNC, fear, violence, that's the space I play in.

To that end, I've done a good job over the years finding partners who match my speed, and it's pretty great, sexually. However there's something I have a hard time reconciling and, maybe I never will: it's hard to feel "wanted" when your primary sexual dynamic is one of violence and fear.

Logically I know that my partners find me attractive, because otherwise I wouldn't have them. But, especially when CNC is involved, it takes a toll on self worth and makes me question my desirability a bit when I really stop and think about it. It starts the intrusive thoughts: "if they enjoy rape play, maybe it's even hotter if you're not attractive to them", etc.

Of course communication is important, but I also don't want to project my own insecurities onto my partners.

So I ask you all: how do you handle the self worth bits? How do you feel desired as a sadist? Any tips and tricks you recommend? Any and all anecdotes are welcome.

Hello fellow pervs! I'm a kinky, dominant guy from Toronto looking to connect with filth-minded, local people in hopes of establishing an ongoing D/s dynamic.

I have a ton of experience with BDSM and am very much a sadist. My kinks are wide and varied, but I generally love humiliation, degradation, piss play, anal everything, objectification, and scat play. I'm extremely into the mental aspects of kink and I love dragging a sub as deep as possible down the rabbit hole of filth and depravity. One of life's greatest pleasures is making a gorgeous woman do disgusting things for my entertainment.

A bit about me. I'm blonde, bearded, tattooed, burly and built like a rugby player. I like to think I'm smart and creative, and by day work in the video game industry while doing music and composition work by night. I'm also very much into metal, industrial and horror movies.

Sexual health is very important to me and I am tested regularly, and happy to share results.

I'm also extremely serious about consent, specifically risk-aware, consensual kink. Any and all play begins with a discussion of limits, boundaries, safe words and comfort levels. This should be fun, first and foremost, and a safe space to explore beautifully horrible (horribly beautiful?) things.

If any of this sounds interesting, send me a message and let's see where this takes us.