First, let's get this out of the way, this is a strange spot to be in right? Let's not act like this is ideal, it's NOT.
Whether it's a dead bedroom, general disconnect, bordem, it's not where we want to be. What's my point? Let's not dance around that. Let's embrace it. We're trying to find another married person to flirt with, laugh with, maybe get dirty with, explore kinks, but ultimately open up to. So whatever, that's just there now.
Hi! Married dad who's bored over here. I was a really awkward out of shape youth. Now I'm a really awkward more in shape dad. 6', broad shoulders, no gut, yet no six pack. Pretty gym active but not a gym bro. Tattooed, but professional job. Think that punk/metal Hit Topic guy in high school but grown up and responsible now.
You - Married, possibly a mom. Same standards, maybe you're not absolutely toned and thin but you are active and put in some level of effort. You're bored, maybe a dead bedroom, but overall you don't feel appreciated. You miss getting those looks and compliments.
I'm in the Chicagoland area, IN and WI are possible if we connect. I would like to meet IRL eventually, that is the goal. I don't want to change my marriage or yours. If I did I'd just leave honestly. And if it was JUST sex I can pay for it so that's not the only thing.
Let's chat, see where things go? Please just be responsive. I can have a conversation but not if I'm the only one carrying it. I don't even have a conversation starter. Just throw something at me girl!