u/bunnintheworld

I am new to kink and am trying to find a Dom. I had one long distance dynamic and that’s it. I’ve spoken with men on Reddit, Fetlife, and Feeld. I’m noticing a common theme. Men approach me and act very interested. They are intentional about implying we’ll meet, message me frequently, send good morning texts, call me pet names, etc. I am explicit that I am not a casual person, and the men I’ve spoken with express interest in wanting a long term dynamic. We talk for a couple weeks and then I either get ghosted or am told they want something casual and are no longer interested.

Is this common during vetting? Or should I reflect on if I’m doing something wrong? I have never been given clear feedback on if I’m doing something wrong, and it’s starting to really hurt my feelings.

Hi there! I’m a regular girl in her mid twenties searching for an older man to teach and guide me sexually. I spent most of my college years and early twenties in an unfulfilling relationship, and I haven’t had the opportunity to truly embrace my sexuality. Sex and dating honestly make me really anxious.

I’m not looking for a traditional relationship, but trust, companionship, and emotional connection are huge for me. I’m not a casual person. I want someone I can rely on and be my most vulnerable, naive self with. I have been intrigued by BDSM for a long time, and I would love to explore submission with the right man.

I’m tall, white, and curvy with long brown hair and glasses. I think most people perceive me as blunt and a bit deadpan, but I am truthfully pretty anxious and insecure. I would love to have someone to bring out more of my little girl side and help me relax.

If this interests you, please feel free to reach out! I am looking for an in person connection and have the ability to travel shorter distances.

Hi there! I’m a regular girl in her mid twenties searching for an older man to teach and guide me sexually. I spent most of my college years and early twenties in an unfulfilling relationship, and I haven’t had the opportunity to truly embrace my sexuality. Sex and dating honestly make me really anxious.

I’m not looking for a traditional relationship, but trust, companionship, and emotional connection are huge for me. I’m not a casual person. I want someone I can rely on and be my most vulnerable, naive self with. I have been intrigued by BDSM for a long time, and I would love to explore submission with the right man.

I’m tall, white, and curvy with long brown hair and glasses. I think most people perceive me as blunt and a bit deadpan, but I am truthfully pretty anxious and insecure. I would love to have someone to bring out more of my little girl side and help me relax.

If this interests you, please feel free to reach out! I am looking for an in person connection and have the ability to travel shorter distances.