u/cakeitall

Idk if gays here or sex experts can help but im going through a bit of identity crisis. I have this friend I have been close with for years. He is also a male. Like regular guys we game together, talk about life, share secrets, and are involved with each other's lives pretty heavily given share not just chemistry and a bond but very similsr traumas and experiences. We both are introvert leaning but also quite social we both enjoy meeting and chatting with others although mostly online.

Idk how it happened but our relationship turned sexual around the point we really started getting close and we began sharing porn and sexual fantasies together which boiled over to us mastuebatint together. Our fantasies started straight, then bisexual, then pretty gay. At first gay what ifs about other dudes. Then turned gay words and actions exchanged towards each other. I felt so confused guys I honestly didnt know why I kept proceeding. All I remembered was it felt really good and that I trusted him. At that time I just figured it was strictly sexual and that its not gay. But then the more we kept doing it more words were exchanged revealing deep secrets. Now next to this very pleasurable physical feeling I feel a strong sense of been finally fucking seen and accepted for who I fucking am. No performance no need to mask anything.

However I just dont fucking know how to feel about this. When I orgasm the high lingers for awhile and the love? Is it that? Lingers for a day or two its amazing but then I get rly depressed for some reason and that I feel its taboo or against nature's wish or something like that. My family never cared about my sexuality but that didnt mean I had any help or care understanding it. So I just followed societies expectation and got girlfriend. Im still with her but im not happy. I thought women is the ultimate want many guys seek? That they make any guy happy. And believe me they do platonically. But romatonically and sexually things feel like they fell short. I enjoy straight porn and women in porn but in person not really?

Sorry so many questions ans confusion. Just wondering insight and what u make of this? I only ever feel happiest with my friend snuggling and jerking each other off sharing smooches together.

Bored lately and horny as fuck. Just looking to hangout really. Share a pen together, get high, and if the mood is there maybe makeout and oral sex. Don't really care the gender fooled around with both. If u are a guy im also into watching porn together and jerking off. Sharing toys and blowjobs are also cool with me. Hmu if u down lmk asl and what u wanna do.

Hey everyone im looking for others like myself who have very high uncontrollable libidos and wanna have frequent casual flings together. Long term and discreet preferably. Im open to jerking, frotting, oral, and sex (vers). Prefer to chat online first for a bit thank you.

As a 29.yo male in the u.s over the last 5-7 years mutual masturbation even between two guys seems be to alot more accepted and common. Over the years i spent so many hours masturbating with multiple men and had a handful of in person hookups where me and bros would frot, fuck plastic pussy together, and blow each other. Theres a lot of platforms and NSFW communities focused on mutual masturbation and hookups its hard for me not to spend the entire day on it. Althought I do take a break for a day or two during the week.

Also a second question to folloe up to the first. Im curious to know if the porn some of u guys watch reflects some of your sexual experiences in person? Like for example for me now that I had many hookups with guys where we had jerked each other off, shared toys, traded head, and even make out at times, the porn I watch thse days are guy-guy mutual masturbation videos, oral between two guys, or dudes masturbating and sharing plastic pussy. I won't lie at this point i had double or even triple the amount sexual encounters and fun with the same sex than the opposite mainly because I cant pass the opportunity up. What about you all?

Do u guys think its now more common people masturbate with each other rather than alone thanks to smartphones and social media? Theres so many communities and porn today centered on masturbation I feel like its the quickest, easiest, and most toeivaye form of no strings attached fun. You sometimes even make friends. Kinda makes me wonder do I and others crave and do this so often.

Anyone in the south end area? Im bored and horny as fuck. Really in need of some head or a jerkbuddy to share some plastic pussy with. Can be a one time thing but im also open to having a consistent fwbs thing too.