u/callyousugar

Just wondering if anyone has ever met people like this? I was thinking earlier about how you could logically assume that if there are gay men who don't enjoy penetration, it's safe to assume that there are straight men in the same boat.

I started looking this up online but only really found people asking for guidance in asexual support groups. I only found one post of someone suggesting the term "side" for straight people as well.

Random Friday thoughts while bored at work lol

Over the years I've seen so much messed up shit happen right under our noses in the NSFW online spaces we have like the aforementioned dating apps, Snapchat, Discord, Telegram, you name it.

Pedophiles and zoophiles use dog whistles to identify each other in these spaces and share material. Some of the ones I've noticed are:

\-These emojis or a combination of them 🌀🏈🍕 for CSAM

\-Buzzwords like "taboo", "no limits", "the younger the better"

\-Ages in bios like 61 🔄 (basically a 16 year old putting it out there that they're underage)

When you see things like these, PLEASE report them. It is particularly unacceptable in apps designed for us like Grindr or Sniffies that these people go unchecked and that the developers haven't caught up with what these things actually mean.

A few days ago I was going to use the word "beer" in a Right Now post in Grindr which automatically got taken down, yet these assholes post their dog whistles like it's nothing and no one does anything?

If anyone knows any others so we can learn to report these freaks both on the apps and to the authorities, please share them. I feel like this is a major issue no one talks about.