u/contortderange

BDSM + drugs?

How do different drugs effect your bdsm experience?

I want to try getting sexual with my partner on shrooms, however our scenes have a lot of violence involved, and I wonder if being on shrooms will alter my perception of the experience and make me not want to hurt my partner anymore?

Shrooms are my main focus/curiosity at the moment, but I'd love to hear people's experiences with any substance, as ive personally had varying outcomes depending on what I take, with some drugs making bdsm not as enjoyable, and others enhancing it.

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u/contortderange — 8 days ago

"Subspace" and.. domspace??

I hear a lot of subs talking about entering "subspace," and I'm wondering if there is a dominant version of this?

If so, what would that be called? And if there isn't a direct opposite to subspace, what would the closest term be?

As a dom who practices a lot of sadomasochism dynamics, I would say that there is definitely a certain mode/headspace that I enter, especially when getting really into a scene and being aggressive/controlling, and I've always wondered if this feeling has a label in the same way that subs have subspace?

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u/contortderange — 10 days ago