I'm so tired of clicking on posts and seeing some girls pussy and the post has 30 upvotes in 2 minutes. even not bot-posted images are subtle advertisements 9 times outta 10.
at least make them hosted by imgur or make them be mod-approved or something to deter the bots. please 🥺🙏😭
if you work in clubs where the money doesn't go through a host or bartender before you go back and start the dance, this means it's solely on you to get your money up front before you begin. maybe it's not the norm at your club but that doesn't really matter, you should always always always get the money up front.
that way, if they break your boundaries or whip their dick out, you have nothing to lose by walking away. and they don't have the chance to walk out on you without paying because you aren't doing shit without money in your bag. and if that's happened to you, that really sucks. but you don't know what you don't know and you don't have to let that happen to you again.
here's what to say:
- we only accept cash, do you need to go to the atm before we go back?
- do you wanna do 1 for $X or 3 for $X? okay great, so $X? and then sit there with your hand out until they open their wallet.
- once you give me $X I can start the timer.
- do you want to do another song? we just need to put the money to the side before we continue.
- sorry, we can't go to the ATM after. but we can take a break and I'll walk with you over there.
- oh, I don't really know what other girls do. i just like to deal with the money first so we don't have to worry about it later.
you need to be counting the cash in their wallets every time they bring it out so you know what you're working with. as soon as you sell the dance, get the money in your hands. never walk away after they've said yes and before getting paid. and when you're done dont forget to ask for a tip!!!
you deserve every cent of every fucking bag and you're in complete control of every interaction, never forget that.
you gotta ask. you might get what you want if you don't, but the odds greatly improve if you do.
this might sound obvious to some but I see girls that have been dancing for years throw fits because customers don't walk up to them and ask them for dances. they'll chat with people if they sit next to them but they never fucking ask. and they leave so much money on the table because of that.
you can manifest all you want but unless you're directly asking the person in front of you to spend money, tip you, buy you things, they never have the opportunity to say yes to you. you have to create the opportunity.
if you want to do hour long champagne rooms, ask for hour long champagne rooms and don't ask for anything less.
if you want another song after they only bought one, say I want to do another and keep saying it until they've run out of money.
if you want a fat fucking tip after theyve annoyed the shit out of you, ask for it.
men want to give you what you want. it's sexy to want things. when you state your desire out loud, you're giving them the honor and the privilege of fulfilling them for you.
when they say yes, I affirm their choice by being happy and excited and grateful. I make them feel good when they say yes, because I reward good behavior. and then they'll want to say yes over and over again.
but if they say no? I say awww 🥺 I was really hoping you would. and if they say no again? I ask for something a little less. and if they say no to that? I say would you like to tip me for my time before I leave? but trust, I'm not leaving until I've heard no at least 3 times.
sure, being told no sucks if you take it personally. getting rejected never feels good. but it stops sucking so much after you've heard it 100 times. so go in tonight with the goal of hearing no 100 times. and if you're mad you wasted so much time only to hear no, then you waited too long to ask.
I started posting on fansly a few weeks ago and was getting good traction on my FYP posts. then I saw some advice that said to set your FYP posts to go on your private wall to prevent looky-looes. after I started doing that, I'm getting no traction on those posts.
I'm not sure if it's because the algorithm was just pushing me because I was new, or if it's because I switched them to go to my private wall.
I'm considering posting to my main wall and then switching the posts to private after a day to see if that helps. just wondering if anyone has any insight on this.
I want to pay a beautiful, smart, caring, sexy, sweet, and empathetic woman to hang out with me all night 😭
my regulars are literally so lucky. I'm so lonely. I want someone to be as good to me as I am to them.
if I could have a favorite stripper she'd be so spoiled. I'd bring her outback steakhouse and scratch-off lottery tickets every night. I'd buy her stuff from her wishlists and give her back rubs. all I want is for someone to listen to me and pretend I'm interesting that I can project a fantasy on to. I'd pay top dollar for that shit 🥲
anyone traveling to a city for the world cup? I live near two host cities and am planning my trips now.
are there any countries' matches you want to dance during or close to? I have the options of going when a popular South American team is playing, a few lesser well known countries are playing, and one country where sex work is legal is playing.
I'm wondering if it's worth it to plan around the countries playing and if their cultures will affect the crowds behavior or overall turnout 🤔