u/daddysgoodgirl1983

My daddy said I can pick out a special piece of collared jewellery to wear all the time to show I'm his (Can't even explain how excited I am!) but it needs to be subtle, and be something that isn't too tight (I get claustrophobic around my neck).

It doesn't necessarily need to be a necklace but I do a lot with my hands so that's probably most practical.

I live in Australia, but if anyone knows and good sites to start looking, I'd love any recommendations you have please?

Thankyou in advance!

Earlier this afternoon, a poor sub posted in this group, venting because she refused to see the red flags in her dom and got badly burnt by the experience.

I wanted to support her and encourage her andvto let her know that she wasn't alone. Sometimes people feel vulnerable and don't always want to write everything on a public page, so I told her I'm always available to chat if need be.

Unfortunately, somebody saw my trying to reach out as a red flag and accused me of absolutely horrible things based on the fact that I'm new to reddit and keep my profile private.

I'm not only new to reddit but I'm new to the bdsm scene. I'm a private person and like to be careful what is available on my profile.

This bully then accused my Dom and I of being sex traffickers which was really horrible. Anyone who knows me knows that my whole mission in life is to help people not harm them.

I ended up reporting this person for harassment and they quickly deleted not only their posts, but their profile.

My daddy was understandably upset at the situation and could see how much it affected me.

I wrote this post to let people know that yes I'm new but I'm only ever trying to help. Please don't judge me for trying to do the right thing.

My daddy has been in the scene for nearly 20 years and has helped so many doms and subs in their journeys. I only wanted to extend his wisdom to others. Nothing more.

Thank you for letting me vent.

I was wondering if any other subs have ever lost their voices from possibly bruising their throat from deep throating plus screaming hard in pleasure & pain?

I have no other symptoms (eg. Flu symptoms) but yesterday I deepthroated hard, several times and held it for ages.

Has this happened to you? If so, was their anything you did to help heal faster?

Hey all,

This good girl sub is curious to just experiment a little with another F sub. No doms please.

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Nothing too extreme, maybe just a little body exploration and possible pussy licking?

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Let me know if anyone is keen!

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Dm me!

My Daddy has a pants on rule when I have my periods. It's his hard no limit. I do understand that because we all like different things but I struggle with feeling less than enough. I can't offer myself fully to him, and feel less desirable for him.

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I'd love to know how other D/s dynamics deal with having their rags?

My Daddy loves me to beg, but despite reading articles of how to beg and trying to remember what I've read, when I'm put on the spot, my mind continually goes blank. It just doesn't come naturally to me without sounding extremely fake.

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Any advice, tips or great sites that can help are welcome please!

Hi there. I'm posting on behalf of a sub friend who's looking for her white whale! Ie. A legit Christian man, who is committed to his faith, but also has a view to a bdsm dynamic within his marriage.

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This lady is in need of a true Daddy Dom/Caring Dom who will share her faith and values, and then be alpha enough to support her submission style.

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She needs a man who is bold in his faith, & a practising Christian. Someone who respects a traditional family type with the husband as the head of the household, the wife submitting to his needs but only if he's worthy of that role.

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He must want to build a life that includes God in everything as the centre. He must be grounded and hard- working. Financially stable, look after himself (perfection isn't the goal but constant work on becoming a better person is a non-negotiable).

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Views to wanting children is a must.

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A man who is practical and good with his hands would be wonderful. Someone who enjoys homesteading is a bonus!

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This sub is looking for someone who can guide her with gentle discipline in her daily activities, work towards goals together, and use a light punishment/ reward system.

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This woman has had some awful online experiences with abusive doms, and needs to be with someone who can gently guide her into a trusting dynamic. She has now been taught to identify green flags in doms and will be advised in her vetting.

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If this resonates with anyone, please feel free to pm me.

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Before you judge, remember the community we're in and that it would be a safe space with zero judgment for everyone.

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No time wasters please. Any abusive comments will be reported.

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Chat hasn't been working for hours. Anyone else finding that?

Hey. I'm in a cheeky mood and until my Daddy realises what I'm doing, I want to chat with a woman dom or sub. Hmu 😜

Hey guys,

My daddy has asked me to think of some goals we can work on together that are either sexual or non-sexual. What goals are you guys working towards with your dom? I'm looking for ideas?

(I'm fairly new to the scene so I'm still learning)

Thanks!!!

Hi everyone, my Daddy encouraged me to share a bit of my journey as a sub in hopes that it may help others on theirs.

I'm in my early 40s, and my whole adult life I've struggled with my mental health. Depression & anxiety mostly.

Growing up in a Christian house * going to a Christian school, not only did we not have sex ed at school (because it was a taboo subject) but the versions of sex I did know were more vanilla than pure white. I would watch people marry at a very young age just so they could copulate. Their relationships would fail quickly as they would grow up and realise they jumped in before they even knew themselves. Then they would become a social outcast because Christians don't get divorced.

With that mentality in mind, my mum stayed in a very abusive relationship with my father because she thought she was doing the right thing by her kids. All that happened is that we all grew up with issues we are now trying to sort through as adults. When my mum eventually was so broken that she had to get out, she left and my dad attempted suicide which left him in a coma for weeks.

Moving forward, it meant that growing up, I never had a great role model for relationships. I felt I had to earn love through actions. And if a partner got angry, I thought it was my fault. I chose one toxic relationship after another.

Around 29-30 I had started to notice that I had a bit of a kinky side. I tried to explore it a little bit I really didn't fully understand the world of bdsm. I thought it was just getting abused. Which is a common misconception of course.

Around 32, I became pregnant to a partner who then fled. So being the most vulnerable a woman could be, i was alone. You can imagine how it was, trying to tell your Christian family that you're pregnant out of wedlock.

The next several years we're a mix of sleep deprivation, deep depression & anxiety, survival & self-hate.

Since having my daughter I tried dating two guys. It turned out the flags I thought were green, were colour changing and were actually red. But having no self-esteem, I tried anyway.

The second one love bombed me hard, and despite friends trying to warn me, I spent 2 years being bread-crumbed & used. Blaming myself if he got angry, feeling unsure of everything and then eventually being dumped. A few months after I was dumped, his ex contacted me to explain that he'd been seeing her at the same time as me. That broke me hard.

I spent the last few years trying to heal but my self- esteem went down to non-existent. I thought I was rubbish. Unlovable, worthless & too out of shape to be wanted.

That's where my Daddy comes in. I had known him as a friend for 14 years. I knew he had been a dom before and he'd try to get me into it but I just never could. Because again I just didn't understand it but I did like the control part.

One day when I was really missing intimacy, I asked this friend to meet up for a kiss. Just as friends. He was so kind and obliged. When we saw each other, he gently grabbed me, pushed me against the car and kissed me with more passion I'd known in a very long time. That was the moment I truly saw him. He knew that's all I wanted at the time so he was completely respectful. Despite feeling extremely turned on & wanted more, i was too insecure to pursue it.

I realised I wanted more. But was feeling guilty Because I'd recently become stronger in my faith and wanted to abstain. My Daddy never tried to dissuade me from my faith. I knew it was technically a sin but I started seeing him more regularly.

He explained to be in more detail what exactly happens in a dom/sub relationship but I had a lot of qualms. Slowly, I warmed up to it. Despite trying to run (many times) out of self-hate and insecurities, he didn't push me away. After the roughly 20th time of trying to push him away, something clicked inside me. This guy was being patient, kind, respectful, trusting, accepting, gentle & helping me explore myself sexually in really fun and exciting ways but never so I felt uncomfortable. He was the first true green flag I've ever been with.

Once I truly gave into being his sub, I noticed changes. I started realising that I wasn't worthless. Someone not only chose to be with me, but was patient enough to help me grow in a safe way. He helps me achieve goals, has given me so much confidence that I can look at people in the eye when we talk. I'm excited to wake up and see what tasks he has in store. I get excited that he's so proud of me that he wants to show my photos on reddit. He's a source of comfort and pleasure and he truly looks after me.

Never once have I not felt like he's ever made me do something I'm truly uncomfortable with. Respect, trust and discretion are of the utmost important.

For the first time in 20 years, I feel some hope for the future. And if it wasn't for my Daddy's training, that wouldn't have happened.

I'm forever grateful for him and this lifestyle that I now understand.

I'm more than happy to answer any questions others may have about the lifestyle. Of course everyone's journeys look different, but it helps to have like-minded, legit people for support.

Thanks for reading!!

I recently completed my training as a submissive to my amazing Daddy and I wanted to please my daddy by making him a vid of me blowing a random guy. (He has strict rules about what I'm allowed to do and it always has to be videoed) I started chatting to a local on reddit and we arranged to meet tonight for a bj (which was no easy feat as a single mum). It was a nightmare but I made it happen.

I arrived at the meeting place to find him not there. I received a message from him telling me he was there and eventually he told me he was somewhere else. I explained carefully again where I was and he said he'd join me in a minute. Ten minutes pass and I hear nothing then finally he messages to say he's near a roundabout. The meeting place was no where near one. It was then I started doubting he was legit.

A few mins later he said I'm just at the lights (he wasn't) by then my time was up and I had to leave. I realised of course he was either a coward, incredibly bad with direction or a scammer. So I left feeling annoyed and let down.

But mostly to my Daddy because I didn't have a video for him. I'm so lucky my Daddy is so understanding. Not only did he assure me it wasn't my fault but he spent the evening trying to cheer me up.

He gave me another task to do for him which made him happy and cheered me up.

The night may have gone to shit but I'm forever grateful that my Daddy is a catch. I'm forever yours Daddy & I'm so lucky you chose me to be your and please you!

Since I had my daughter, my nipples and areola became giant and it makes me insecure. I'm wondering what people think about them or if it's a non-issue?

Hi there I’m a submissive and my daddy has told me I need to kiss a girl for him. Anyone on the central coast NSW willing to help me? I'm 43f

Thank you for your consideration.