u/dreamingofsunsets

Married and a mother.

I miss the kind of conversation that starts with a random opinion about whether pineapple belongs on pizza and somehow ends three hours later with us not knowing where the time went.

I’m looking for a man who is intelligent enough to challenge me, confident enough not to be threatened by me, and funny enough to make me snort-laugh at inappropriate moments. Someone who can dish it out, take it back, and knows the difference between banter and being a jerk.

Please be emotionally stable, intellectually curious, and consistent. I’d love to meet someone ethnically Tamil or Mallu—not because it’s a requirement, but because sometimes it’s nice not to spend twenty minutes explaining why three aunties are suddenly involved in a life decision.

And what do I bring to the table?

Confidence. Wit. Conversation. Questionable life choices. An unhealthy relationship with books. The rest, you’ll have to discover yourself.

Married and a mother.

I miss the kind of conversation that starts with a random opinion about whether pineapple belongs on pizza and somehow ends three hours later with us not knowing where the time went.

I’m looking for a man who is intelligent enough to challenge me, confident enough not to be threatened by me, and funny enough to make me snort-laugh at inappropriate moments. Someone who can dish it out, take it back, and knows the difference between banter and being a jerk.

Please be emotionally stable, intellectually curious, and consistent. I’d love to meet someone ethnically Tamil or Mallu—not because it’s a requirement, but because sometimes it’s nice not to spend twenty minutes explaining why three aunties are suddenly involved in a life decision.

And what do I bring to the table?

Confidence. Wit. Conversation. Questionable life choices. An unhealthy relationship with books. The rest, you’ll have to discover yourself.

I miss the kind of conversation that starts with a random opinion about whether pineapple belongs on pizza and somehow ends three hours later with neither of us having a clue where the time went.

I’m looking for a man who is intelligent enough to challenge me, confident enough not to be threatened by me, and funny enough to make me snort-laugh at inappropriate moments. Someone who can dish it out, take it back, and knows the difference between banter and being a jerk.

Please be emotionally stable, intellectually curious, and CONSISTENT. I’d love to meet someone ethnically TAMIL OR MALLU—not because it’s a requirement, but because sometimes it’s nice not to spend twenty minutes explaining why three aunties are suddenly involved in a life decision or why I buy rice by the kilograms.

And what do I bring to the table?

Confidence. Wit. Conversation. Questionable life choices. An unhealthy relationship with books. The rest, you’ll have to discover yourself.

If you’re convinced you’re my dream man, send a message. If you’re wrong, at least make it entertaining.

I miss the kind of conversation that starts with a random opinion about whether pineapple belongs on pizza and somehow ends three hours later with neither of us having a clue where the time went.

I’m looking for a man who is intelligent enough to challenge me, confident enough not to be threatened by me, and funny enough to make me snort-laugh at inappropriate moments. Someone who can dish it out, take it back, and knows the difference between banter and being a jerk.

Please be emotionally stable, intellectually curious, and CONSISTENT. I’d love to meet someone ethnically TAMIL OR MALLU—not because it’s a requirement, but because sometimes it’s nice not to spend twenty minutes explaining why three aunties are suddenly involved in a life decision or why I buy rice by the kilograms.

And what do I bring to the table?

Confidence. Wit. Conversation. Questionable life choices. An unhealthy relationship with books. The rest, you’ll have to discover yourself.

If you’re convinced you’re my dream man, send a message. If you’re wrong, at least make it entertaining.

#married

#throwaway account #married

I miss the sort of conversations where we can chat for hours and realise at the end of it that we do not know each others' names yet or even what we do. I miss a man who can dish it and take it. A man who is confident, bold and calm. A man who reads voraciously, thinks that a woman who does Sudoku is the height of sexiness. A man who is good looking and knows it. A man who is not horny or desperate. A man who wants me for who I am and not because he did not find any other woman. Someone ethnically indian , because I am too and sometimes it just is easier to explain the cultural context or constraints or even share stories about our lives. Someone who is willing to invest the time, energy and effort to make this work. Someone who takes care of me.

And what I bring to the table? DM me if you think you are my dream man and i'll tell you.

#throwaway account #married

I miss the sort of conversations where we can chat for hours and realise at the end of it that we do not know each others' names yet or even what we do. I miss a man who can dish it and take it. A man who is confident, bold and calm. A man who reads voraciously, thinks that a woman who does Sudoku is the height of sexiness. A man who is good looking and knows it. A man who is not horny or desperate. A man who wants me for who I am and not because he did not find any other woman. Someone ethnically indian , because I am too and sometimes it just is easier to explain the cultural context or constraints or even share stories about our lives. Someone who is willing to invest the time, energy and effort to make this work. Someone who takes care of me.

And what I bring to the table? DM me if you think you are my dream man and i'll tell you.