19M Discussion on Rules and Discipline in Strict Dynamics

I'm looking to discuss personal topics centered around strict dynamics, like domestic discipline, authority figures, rules and structure, uniforms, medical procedures, dietary restrictions and many more. My goal is to learn about these interests through conversation with you.

I'm a 19 year old student from Germany. I'm a skinny twink type, intelligent and ambitious with strong goals. I value thoughtful conversation and genuine connection that can only build by time.

I love disciplinary vibes, corner times, writing lines, scolding, kneeling, and a focus on forced workouts, etc. You can choose my sports, dictating when and how often I train. You'd also influence my outfits, grooming, hygiene, diet, and track my progress. I want us to build real structure.

I respond best to a direct, uncompromising, and commanding tone that reflects clear authority. I’m fascinated by the precision of language and manners towards dominants.

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u/elilly_2104 — 2 hours ago

19 [M4M] #Online #Europe Looking for a Disciplinarian Dom

I am looking for a dominant partner for a non-sexual disciplinary scenario. Take your time and read the entire post before messaging. Otherwise we won't get along and there's no rush for anything quick.

I'm a 19 year old student from Germany. I'm a skinny twink type, intelligent and ambitious with strong goals. I value thoughtful conversation and genuine connection that can only build by time.

I love disciplinary vibes, corner times, writing lines, scolding, kneeling, and a focus on forced workouts, etc. You can choose my sports, dictating when and how often I train. You'd also influence my outfits, grooming, hygiene, diet, and track my progress. I want us to build real structure.

I'm looking for someone who can be naturally very strict and firm, someone who enjoys teaching discipline and maintaining consistent standards. Your age or looks aren't important to me. What matters is that you write thoughtfully and with attention detail. Well-articulated messages are really hot.

You can read more about my likes in this post about spanking I made:
https://www.reddit.com/r/maleonmalespanking/s/UQavLZN0bQ

I offer you reliability, honesty, and open communication. I'm a serious and have realistic expectations. I'll share pictures and private information once we've established trust after talking for a while.

Kinks I want to try out (sound interesting but aren't mandatory):
body worship, detailed inspection/evaluation, humiliation/degradation, forced exercise, sweat, control, task assignment, protocol/rules, punishments, outfit control, grooming, hygiene
Limits: public play, pee, blood

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u/elilly_2104 — 1 day ago

[F4M] Discussion on Rules and Discipline in Strict Dynamics

I'm looking to discuss personal topics centered around strict dynamics, like domestic discipline, authority figures, rules and structure, uniforms, medical procedures, dietary restrictions and many more. My goal is to learn about these interests through conversation with you.

I respond best to a direct, uncompromising, and commanding tone that reflects clear authority. I’m fascinated by the precision of language and manners towards dominants.

I’m looking for discussions with strict feedback on my writing, choice of words, and phrasing. Creating household rules, athletic challenges, discussing medical procedures and health monitoring, uniforms and dress codes and discipline and correction. If you're interested in exploring speech restrictions with me, please send me a message with your thoughts on the topic. I also love being talked down to and regressed.

u/elilly_2104 — 2 days ago

[F4A] Discussion on Rules and Discipline in Strict Dynamics

I'm looking to discuss personal topics centered around strict dynamics, like domestic discipline, authority figures, rules and structure, uniforms, medical procedures, dietary restrictions and many more. My goal is to learn about these interests through dialogue with you.

I respond best to a direct, uncompromising, and commanding tone that reflects clear authority. I’m fascinated by the precision of language and manners towards dominants.

I’m looking for discussions with strict feedback on my writing, choice of words, and phrasing. Creating household rules, athletic challenges, discussing medical procedures and health monitoring, uniforms and dress codes and discipline and correction. If you're interested in exploring speech restrictions with me, please send me a message with your thoughts on the topic. I also love being talked down to and regressed.

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u/elilly_2104 — 3 days ago

21 [F4A] Rules, Discipline, Writing Lines and Strict Dynamics

I'm looking to discuss personal topics centered around strict dynamics, like domestic discipline, authority figures., rules and structure, uniforms, medical procedures, dietary restrictions and many more. My aim is to vent, and examine these interests through dialogue with you.

I'm 21 years old, slim and athletic. I grew up in a strict Catholic household where discipline and structure shaped much of my upbringing, and I did various sports.

I appreciate it if you are direct, no-nonsense, firm and commanding tone and condescending towards me. I'm drawn to conversations where there's a clear sense of authority and structure. I'm fascinated by the idea of using specific language and manners to show respect towards dominants and I'd love to discuss ideas.

I’m looking for discussions with strict feedback on my writing, choice of words, and phrasing. Creating household rules, athletic challenges, discussing medical procedures and health monitoring, uniforms and dress codes and discipline and correction. If you're interested in exploring speech restrictions with me, please send me a message with your thoughts on the topic. I also love being talked down to and regressed.

Limits are blood, vomit, severe harm

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u/elilly_2104 — 27 days ago

[F4A] Rules, Discipline, Writing Lines and Strict Dynamics

I'm looking to discuss personal topics centered around strict dynamics, like domestic discipline, authority figures., rules and structure, uniforms, medical procedures, dietary restrictions and many more. My aim is to vent, and examine these interests through dialogue with you.

I'm 21 years old, slim and athletic. I grew up in a strict Catholic household where discipline and structure shaped much of my upbringing, and I did various sports.

I appreciate it if you are direct, no-nonsense, firm and commanding tone and condescending towards me. I'm drawn to conversations where there's a clear sense of authority and structure. I'm fascinated by the idea of using specific language and manners to show respect towards dominants and I'd love to discuss ideas.

I’m looking for discussions with strict feedback on my writing, choice of words, and phrasing. Creating household rules, athletic challenges, discussing medical procedures and health monitoring, uniforms and dress codes and discipline and correction. If you're interested in exploring speech restrictions with me, please send me a message with your thoughts on the topic. I also love being talked down to and regressed.

Here's a concrete scenario we could discuss:

I'm already bent over the dining room table by the time you're coming downstairs. This is not my first time being spanked, it certainly won’t be my last. I know how much smoother the process goes if I do as I’m told. You walk up behind me and place 3 implements on the table directly in front of me: a hairbrush, a paddle, and a cane. “I sure hope I won’t be forced to use all three of these on you,” I swallow hard as you warn me, still standing behind me, “but that’s going to depend entirely on how well you behave over the next 30 minutes. Do you understand me?”

“Yes, Sir. I understand.”

I swallow again and take a deep breath before I feel your hands adjusting my posture to suit your standards. Discipline in this household is often administered in the same position: bent 90 degrees over a table, back perfectly flat and parallel to the floor, feet shoulder width apart, elbows directly beneath and resting gently on the table, arms pointing forwards, head up and looking straight ahead. Despite the consistency after all these years, I still get corrected. I feel you touching my body to make little adjustments to get me positioned properly. Your fingers brush against my back, chest, knees, arms, neck, until your posture is to my liking.

Then, and only then, the discipline can begin.

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u/elilly_2104 — 27 days ago

21 [F4A] Discipline, Sports and Strict Dynamics

I'm looking to discuss personal topics centered around strict dynamics, like domestic discipline, authority figures, rules and structure, uniforms, medical procedures, dietary restrictions and many more. My aim is to vent, and examine these interests through dialogue with you.

I'm 21 years old, slim and athletic. I grew up in a strict Catholic household where discipline and structure shaped much of my upbringing, and I did various sports.

I appreciate it if you are direct, no-nonsense, firm and commanding tone and condescending towards me. I'm drawn to conversations where there's a clear sense of authority and structure. I'm fascinated by the idea of using specific language and manners to show respect towards dominants and I'd love to discuss ideas.

I’m looking for discussions with strict feedback. Creating household rules, athletic challenges, discussing medical procedures and health monitoring, uniforms and dress codes and discipline and correction.

If you're interested in exploring speech restrictions with me, please send me a message with your thoughts on the topic.
I also love being talked down to and regressed. I love a condescending tone and firm hand when we discuss even things like humiliation, pain, shame and strict dynamics. I like to discuss authority figures, uniforms, domestic discipline, rules, sports, dietary restrictions, spanking, temperature taking, vulnerable positions, embarrassing physical exams , thorough hygiene, exercise regime for weight loss and punishment, rules and supervision, corner time, requirement to ask permission to use bathroom, age regression, mouth washing, writing lines, intimate inspections...
Limits are illegal and vomit.

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u/elilly_2104 — 1 month ago

19 [M4M] strict workout instructions, looking for long-term Dom #Online fitness-focused

I am looking for a dominant partner for long term power exchange. Take your time and read the entire post before messaging. Otherwise we won't get along and there's no rush for anything quick.

I'm a 19 year old student from Germany. I'm a skinny twink type, intelligent and ambitious with strong goals. I value thoughtful conversation and genuine connection that can only build by time.

I'm looking for a long-term, only online D/s power exchange relationship. You'd be the strict, firm dominant who guides my growth by controlling my fitness journey which I am starting with zero experience. You can choose my sports, dictating when and how often I train. You'd also influence my outfits (online shopping together), grooming, hygiene, diet, and track my progress. I want us to build real structure, not roleplay.

Your communication skills are my deciding factor. Timezone and age don't matter. What does is that you write thoughtfully and with detail. Well-articulated messages are really hot. You're naturally strict and firm, someone who enjoys teaching discipline and maintaining consistent standards.

I offer you reliability, honesty, and open communication. I'm a serious, long-term partner with realistic expectations. I'll share pictures and private information once we've established trust only after a few days of talking.

Kinks I want to try out (sound interesting but aren't mandatory):
body worship, inspection/evaluation, humiliation/degradation, forced exercise, sweat, control, task assignment, protocol/rules, punishments, outfit control, grooming, hygiene
Limits: public play, pee, blood

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u/elilly_2104 — 2 months ago

21 [M4M] #Europe Looking for a Dom for Disciplinary Spankings

I am looking for a dominant partner for a non-sexual disciplinary spanking. Take your time and read the entire post before messaging. Otherwise we won't get along and there's no rush for anything quick.

You will find more details about what kind of spanking I like in this post I made:
https://www.reddit.com/r/maleonmalespanking/s/UQavLZN0bQ

I'm a 21 year old student from Germany. I'm a skinny twink type, intelligent and ambitious with strong goals. I value thoughtful conversation and genuine connection that can only build by time.

I love disciplinary vibes, corner times, writing lines, mouth soaping, scolding, kneeling, forced workouts, etc.

I'm looking for serious connection with someone in Central Europe near Germany. I'm looking for someone who can be naturally strict and firm, someone who enjoys teaching discipline and maintaining consistent standards. Your age or looks aren't as important to me. What matters is that you write thoughtfully and with detail. Well-articulated messages are really hot.

I offer you reliability, honesty, and open communication. I'm a serious and have realistic expectations. I'll share pictures and private information once we've established trust after talking.

Other kinks I want to try out (sound interesting but aren't mandatory):
body worship, inspection/evaluation, humiliation/degradation, forced exercise, sweat, control, task assignment, protocol/rules, corporal punishments, bladder control, outfit control, grooming, hygiene
Limits: diapers, public play, pee, blood

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u/elilly_2104 — 2 months ago

[19M] strict workout instructions, looking for long-term Dom, fitness-focused

I am looking for a dominant partner for long term power exchange. Take your time and read the entire post before messaging. Otherwise we won't get along and there's no rush for anything quick.

I'm a 19 year old student from Germany. I'm a skinny twink type, intelligent and ambitious with strong goals. I value thoughtful conversation and genuine connection that can only build by time.

I'm looking for a long-term, only online D/s power exchange relationship. You'd be the strict, firm dominant who guides my growth by controlling my fitness journey which I am starting with zero experience. You can choose my sports, dictating when and how often I train. You'd also influence my outfits (online shopping together), grooming, hygiene, diet, and track my progress. I want us to build real structure, not roleplay.

Your communication skills are my deciding factor. Timezone and age don't matter. What does is that you write thoughtfully and with detail. Well-articulated messages are really hot. You're naturally strict and firm, someone who enjoys teaching discipline and maintaining consistent standards.

I offer you reliability, honesty, and open communication. I'm a serious, long-term partner with realistic expectations. I'll share pictures and private information once we've established trust only after a few days of talking.

Kinks I want to try out (sound interesting but aren't mandatory):
body worship, inspection/evaluation, humiliation/degradation, forced exercise, sweat, control, task assignment, protocol/rules, punishments, outfit control, grooming, hygiene
Limits: public play, pee, blood

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u/elilly_2104 — 2 months ago

19 [M4M] strict workout instructions, looking for long-term Dom #Online fitness-focused

I am looking for a dominant partner for long term power exchange. Take your time and read the entire post before messaging. Otherwise we won't get along and there's no rush for anything quick.

I'm a 19 year old student from Germany. I'm a skinny twink type, intelligent and ambitious with strong goals. I value thoughtful conversation and genuine connection that can only build by time.

I'm looking for a long-term, only online D/s power exchange relationship. You'd be the strict, firm dominant who guides my growth by controlling my fitness journey which I am starting with zero experience. You can choose my sports, dictating when and how often I train. You'd also influence my outfits (online shopping together), grooming, hygiene, diet, and track my progress. I want us to build real structure, not roleplay.

Your communication skills are my deciding factor. Timezone and age don't matter. What does is that you write thoughtfully and with detail. Well-articulated messages are really hot. You're naturally strict and firm, someone who enjoys teaching discipline and maintaining consistent standards.

I offer you reliability, honesty, and open communication. I'm a serious, long-term partner with realistic expectations. I'll share pictures and private information once we've established trust only after a few days of talking.

Kinks I want to try out (sound interesting but aren't mandatory):
body worship, inspection/evaluation, humiliation/degradation, forced exercise, sweat, control, task assignment, protocol/rules, punishments, outfit control, grooming, hygiene
Limits: public play, pee, blood

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u/elilly_2104 — 2 months ago

19M strict workout instructions, looking for long-term Dom #Online fitness-focused

I am looking for a dominant partner for long term power exchange. Take your time and read the entire post before messaging. Otherwise we won't get along and there's no rush for anything quick.

I'm a 19 year old student from Germany. I'm a skinny twink type, intelligent and ambitious with strong goals. I value thoughtful conversation and genuine connection that can only build by time.

I'm looking for a long-term, only online D/s power exchange relationship. You'd be the strict, firm dominant who guides my growth by controlling my fitness journey which I am starting with zero experience. You can choose my sports, dictating when and how often I train. You'd also influence my outfits (online shopping together), grooming, hygiene, diet, and track my progress. I want us to build real structure, not roleplay.

Your communication skills are my deciding factor. Timezone and age don't matter. What does is that you write thoughtfully and with detail. Well-articulated messages are really hot. You're naturally strict and firm, someone who enjoys teaching discipline and maintaining consistent standards.

I offer you reliability, honesty, and open communication. I'm a serious, long-term partner with realistic expectations. I'll share pictures and private information once we've established trust only after a few days of talking.

Kinks I want to try out (sound interesting but aren't mandatory):
body worship, inspection/evaluation, humiliation/degradation, forced exercise, sweat, control, task assignment, protocol/rules, punishments, outfit control, grooming, hygiene
Limits: public play, pee, blood

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u/elilly_2104 — 3 months ago

19 [M4M] strict workout instructions, looking for long-term Dom #Online fitness-focused

I am looking for a dominant partner for long term power exchange. Take your time and read the entire post before messaging. Otherwise we won't get along and there's no rush for anything quick.

I'm a 19 year old student from Germany. I'm a skinny twink type, intelligent and ambitious with strong goals. I value thoughtful conversation and genuine connection that can only build by time.

I'm looking for a long-term, only online D/s power exchange relationship. You'd be the strict, firm dominant who guides my growth by controlling my fitness journey which I am starting with zero experience. You can choose my sports, dictating when and how often I train. You'd also influence my outfits (online shopping together), grooming, hygiene, diet, and track my progress. I want us to build real structure, not roleplay.

Your communication skills are my deciding factor. Timezone and age don't matter. What does is that you write thoughtfully and with detail. Well-articulated messages are really hot. You're naturally strict and firm, someone who enjoys teaching discipline and maintaining consistent standards.

I offer you reliability, honesty, and open communication. I'm a serious, long-term partner with realistic expectations. I'll share pictures and private information once we've established trust only after a few days of talking.

Kinks I want to try out (sound interesting but aren't mandatory):
body worship, inspection/evaluation, humiliation/degradation, forced exercise, sweat, control, task assignment, protocol/rules, punishments, outfit control, grooming, hygiene
Limits: public play, pee, blood

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u/elilly_2104 — 3 months ago

24 [M4M] looking for Sub and total control #Online

Hi there!

First off: You will address me with respect and call me Sir as you introduce yourself to me.

I want you to feel horny all the time. Sharing your fantasies, your kinks, your to-do sex list. I want you to show your sexy persona at my commands, doing tasks, exploring your boundaries. And, of course, you will slowly open up to the point I take control of you completely: we set up rules for CNC / Blackmail and you will be my cute pet, whether you like it or not. I’ll control what you wear, when you exercise, when you shower, shave and how you style your hair. I'm big into degrading and wasting my toys time, your friends are all having fun but you haven't behaved well enough. Tough luck your spending the night writing lines instead. I had a bad day, unlucky your kneeling in the corner tonight.

I’m also a personal trainer, and I can help you reach your goal by creating a customized training program tailored to your current abilities and the results you’re aiming for. To keep you on track, there will be a system of rewards and punishment based on your level of commitment.

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u/elilly_2104 — 3 months ago

M21 Dom taking applicants

Hi there!

You will address me with respect and call me Sir. As you introduce yourself to me.

I want you to feel horny all the time. Sharing your fantasies, your kinks, your to-do sex list. I want you to show your sexy persona at my commands, doing tasks, exploring your boundaries. And, of course, you will slowly open up to the point I take control of you completely: we set up rules for CNC / Blackmail and you will be my cute pet, whether you like it or not. I'm big into degrading and wasting my toys time, your friends are all having fun but you haven't behaved well enough. Tough luck your spending the night writing lines instead. I had a bad day, unlucky your kneeling in the corner tonight.

I’m also a personal trainer, and I can help you reach your goal by creating a customized training program tailored to your current abilities and the results you’re aiming for. To keep you on track, there will be a system of rewards and punishment based on your level of commitment.

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u/elilly_2104 — 3 months ago

M24 Dom taking applicants

Hi there, boy!

My name is irrelevant, you will can call me Sir.

I’ve been a Master for some years now, and I have explored many sides of the practice. I’ve developed a special taste for online domination.

I want you boys to feel horny all the time. Sharing your fantasies, your kinks, your to-do sex list. I want you to show your sexy persona at my commands, doing tasks, exploring your boundaries. And, of course, you will slowly open up to the point I take control of you completely: we set up rules for CNC / Blackmail and you will be my cute pet, whether you like it or not. I'm big into degrading and wasting my toys time, your friends are all having fun but you haven't behaved well enough. Tough luck your spending the night writing lines instead. I had a bad day, unlucky your kneeling in the corner tonight.

I’m also a personal trainer, and I can help you reach your goal by creating a customized training program tailored to your current abilities and the results you’re aiming for. To keep you on track, there will be a system of rewards and punishment based on your level of commitment.

Be a good boy and fill out the form thoroughly. I’m looking forward to hear from different applicants. I will require a picture in portrait format with face.

1: Personal Information

Name: ___
Age: ___
Location: ___
Height: ___
Weight: ___

2: Physical Measurements

Chest: ___
Waist (measured at narrowest point): ___
Hips (measured at widest point): ___

  1. Appearance

Hair Color: ___
Eye Color: ___
Body Type: ___
Picture (in portrait format with face): [Attached]

4: Lifestyle

Sexual Orientation: ___
Hobbies/Interests (Name 3): ___
Do you have any tattoos or piercings? If yes, describe: ___
Which sports or activities do you participate in? ___
How often do you work out per week? ___
What is your favorite type of workout or exercise? ___

6: Personal Habits

How often do you touch yourself? ___
How often do you shower? ___
What is your typical morning and nighttime skincare routine? ___
How do you style your hair? ___
How often do you trim or shave your facial hair? ___
Do you shave body hair? If yes, which areas? ___
What is your average bedtime? ___
What is your average wake-up time? ___

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u/elilly_2104 — 3 months ago

My Ideal Spanking

I've been asked to describe my ideal spanking scenario. But to be honest, it's a question that makes me a bit uneasy. I think it's because I don't like to focus too much on the intimate aspects. For me it's about so much more than that. This entirely unique dynamic. My ideal spanking is a punishment that feels authoritative and serious and teetering on cnc. Part of that is me shifting some of the burden onto the spanker so I can let go of outside pressures. I want to be spanked how you see fit, this should be a punishments and I do not want to be in charge.

My attempt to describe my ideal spanking:

I'd be told ahead of time that we're having a discussion (that i think could lead to a spanking). The anticipation in itself is one of my favorite parts. Even a threat gets me going so much.

I might try to beg and convince you why it shouldn't happen. There would be fear of the unknown. It's not a game, I don't want to win and im not a bratty boy but I do want some push. Come at me, shame me, scold me. Put me in my place. This is as intense as the physical element for me. I want my mind to be dominated and feel very uncomfortable and ashamed being in trouble.

Its quite mental but i enjoy all the physicalness, being manhandled, smacked moved to position, all the things that arent so by the book. It makes me feel alive and excited and that I belong. I want to be spanked for things that the spanker cares about because it feels more affectionate to me. I appreciate someone not being afraid to go at me, and I will do as I’m told because it makes me feel cared for.

Make me wait on the bed, bend over the desk or chair or in the corner to think about what I did and what is gonna happen, which would trigger tons of anxiety and nervousness. I would be embarrassed that I want and need to be punished like a naughty troublemaker.

Once I have accepted that it is happening i will be as compliant as i can. I will do this simply to try to get out of more severe punishment. Do you need to be very strict. I will be turned on being talked down to and regressed. Feeling this helpless during the spanking is unfamiliar and im thinking it would be over your desk or my chair spanked by hand. I want it to feel personal and domestic, not judicial, underwear taken down at some point which will make me feel defenseless, humiliated and make it even more real. Then some kind of implement if needed. I want to come away feeling I got a good hard spanking, learned my lesson and got through something.

Kinda fuzzy on the ending, i fantasize about tears but thats not really the goal. I would like to feel like i pleased you by taking my spanking obediently and to be told i was a good boy, but only if warranted. I think thanking the person doing the spanking is important, they are taking on a lot of responsibility and have complex feelings too.

A spanking relieves some of my biggest fears and insecurities. it's like someone telling you are worth redeeming and being better, even at your worst most-embarrassing, exposed vulnerable self. I am really not sure the connection of how it is erotic, but discipline spankings are what i think about.

Then there is comfort, cuddling, hugging, but still more discipline like corner time or writing an apology, and an inspection of the spanked body.

Thank you for reading. If you want to discuss these things with me further, please feel free so send me a dm.
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u/elilly_2104 — 4 months ago