u/espressitini

Hi! Lemme start by saying, I’ve had lots of conversations. Some great conversations, but they’ve ended up being dead ends. I’m truly looking for something serious and long-term. An exclusive AP relationship. That doesn’t exist solely online and doesn’t exist solely for sexual fulfillment. Please don’t waste my time, or yours, by messaging me hoping I’ll change my mind. I won’t.

Now that that’s out of the way, a little about me… I’m 29, living in Maryland, I have a job that I love, professional, fun, black, 5’6, size 18/20. Let’s exchange pics early on to establish a mutual attraction!

Let me say, I’m not unhappy in my relationship and I don’t have a dead bedroom, it’s just that something is missing. I am missing that intellectual stimulation I guess I can call it? Just good conversation, where a genuine connection exist. As I’ve said, I’m not interested in a solely sexual relationship, which in my experience, most men are, which I also get. Please respect that that’s not what I want or need. It’s important for me to be clear on what I’m looking for and please don’t attempt to change my mind, or butter me up with conversation for a week until you decide to ask me for nudes. Let’s spare each other wasted time.

You? Located IN Maryland. Baltimore county/Howard county/Anne Arundel county is ideal. I prefer older men as I feel I can relate to them more, empathetic, caring, good sense of humor, A KIND HUMAN, open-minded, tall. I have a preference for White and Latino men, but that doesn’t mean I’m not open!

Okay some things I like: I love reading (thrillers, smutty romance/dark romance, and the occasional fantasy are my go-tos), taking walks, exploring new coffee shops, working out, wineries, brunch, getting dressed up and going to dinner, concerts and movies.

I’m a soft, nurturing, strong woman and I want someone who allows me to flourish in that. I need something real and I won’t settle for less. If you decide to message me, let me know what about my post intrigued you so I know you read it :)

p.s. I won’t answer low-effort messages, sorry!

Hi! I’m in SF for work a few more days and would love some time where I’m the center of your attention. I crave touch and a level of intimacy I’m just not getting at home. Ideally? We’d meet up for late night drinks to talk a bit and get to know each other, then you’d come back to my hotel room and reward me for being the good girl I am.

About me: 5’6, black, long dark hair, brown eyes, pretty face, on the curvier side (thicc thighs save lives), DDF. Please be able to provide recent test results and I can do the same.

You: preferably you’ve done this before, tall, attractive, DDF, sense of humor, emotionally intelligent… you gotta be able to carry a conversation. I want us to actually like each other a little lol

If you think you fit the bill, send me a message, let’s exchange pics and go from there :)

P.S. please send me a message with more than a few words so I know you’re serious. Tell me about you and why my post intrigues you.

Hi! I’m headed to SF for work next week and would love some time where I’m the center of your attention. I crave touch and a level of intimacy I’m just not getting at home. Ideally? We’d meet up for dinner and/or drinks to talk a bit and get to know each other, then you’d come back to my hotel room and reward me for being the good girl I am.

About me: 5’6, black, long dark hair, brown eyes, pretty face, on the curvier side (thicc thighs save lives), DDF, and waxed. Please be able to provide recent test results. I am getting tested right before my trip so I expect results at least within the last two weeks.

You: preferably you’ve done this before, tall, attractive, DDF, sense of humor, emotionally intelligent… you gotta be able to carry a conversation. I want us to actually like each other a little lol

If you think you fit the bill, send me a message, let’s exchange pics and spend the rest of the week getting to know each other a bit more :)

P.S. please send me a message with more than a few words so I know you’re serious. Tell me about you and why my post intrigues you.

Hi! 29yo young professional in a committed relationship, looking for someone to show me a good time while I’m in SF for a work trip next week.

A little about me: I’m black, curvy/thicc thighs (and I’ve never had any complaints), 5’6, ddf, pretty face, nice lips, nice smile.

I love to have fun, go to new places, dress up for a nice restaurant. But I also love to have deep conversations and connect on an emotional level. I need both.

You? Preference for tall white men (but not ruling others out), must be ddf (yes, even weed counts sorry), be FUN, easygoing and easy to talk to and available.

I’m only around for a short time but I’d love to have some meaningful fun while I’m there. If you think you might be interested, send me a chat. Let’s establish attraction asap by sharing pictures, but also seeing if we vibe. Not looking for a hookup with someone I don’t even like as a person so hoping we can spend the rest of this week getting to know each other :)