u/evermoving89

**About me:** 36, black, athletic build, 5'8", tattooed, gainfully employed, lives alone, child free. I'm into the usual nerdy gamut of stuff; video games, board games, anime, etc. Heavily into music as well; I play a few instruments, record a bit of music, collect vinyl, often found at local shows. My music taste is all over the place but there's a lot of metal, Midwest emo, rap, and weird shit.

**What I'm looking for:** A romantic partner more than anything. Long term I'd like to build a fun, adventurous life together with kink intertwined. I'm open to various levels of power dynamics, but I'm more interested in ultimately building toward a tpe/high control dynamic.

That being said, I don't want to take control as much as I want to be given the right to take control. Submission is earned before it's demanded. Real life takes precedent over kink dynamics and rules and tasks have the ability to be suspended at anytime my partner feels the need to pause. With the level of intensity I play at, I need to feel confident and secure that my partner wants to participate. Reluctant consent is not consent in my book.

Local is preferred but I'm open to some degree of distance for the right dynamic. Ideally I'm looking for someone 25-40 but again, flexible for the right dynamic.

**My kinks:** cnc, impact, bruising, choking, throat fucking, watersports, rimming, slave play, pet play, anal training, mild public play, rules and tasks, degradation and humiliation, spit play, power exchange, outfit control, orgasm control (forced and denial), bondage

**Limits:** Scat, blood, permanent harm

To weed out the bots, tell me your favorite non kinky pastime.

Me: 36, black, 5'8 atheletic build, sadist dom

You: deviant, submissive, piss slut

I'm not new to this though you don't have to be experienced. I'm mainly looking for someone to drink straight from the source, though I'm open to other options there. I'm really open to all forms of play that lead to piss being on or in you. I'm not necessarily looking for anything sexual beyond that but I'm open to it if the chemistry is there.

I'm also open to online play focusing on control, humiliation, and a willingness to be covered in or drink your own piss.

If this sounds interesting to you, let's chat! Tell me what got you into this and what you want to experience

About me: 36, black, athletic build, 5'8", tattooed, gainfully employed, lives alone, child free. I'm into the usual nerdy gamut of stuff; video games, board games, anime, etc. Heavily into music as well; I play a few instruments, record a bit of music, collect vinyl, often found at local shows. My music taste is all over the place but there's a lot of metal, Midwest emo, and weird shit.

What I'm looking for: A partner more than anything. Long term I'd like to build a fun, adventurous life together with kink intertwined. I'm open to various levels of power dynamics, but I'm more interested in tpe/high control dynamics.

That being said, I don't want to take control as much as I want to be given the right to take control. Submission is earned before it's demanded. Real life takes precedent over kink dynamics and rules and tasks have the ability to be suspended at anytime my partner feels the need to pause. With the level of intensity I play at, I need to feel confident and secure that my partner wants to participate. Reluctant consent is not consent in my book.

Ideally I'm looking for someone 25-40 but I can be flexible for the right person.

Kinks: cnc, impact, bruising, choking, throat fucking, watersports, rimming, slave play, pet play, anal training, mild public play, rules and tasks, degradation and humiliation, spit play, power exchange, outfit control, orgasm control, bondage

Limits: Scat, blood, permanent harm

To weed out the bots, tell me your favorite band or your favorite concert experience.