u/evilSanta_69

I’m a 35-yeat-old, 6'0" (South Indian, if that is important to you) man in Calgary looking for something real. Life has been heavy lately and I’m feeling pretty drained. I’m married and my situation is static, but I’m looking for the emotional oxygen of affection and attention that’s been missing.

I’m an introvert and I know I can be quiet when we first meet. It takes me time to open up and adjust, but the fun, outgoing guy comes out once I feel safe. When I’m not working, I’m usually gaming, hiking local trails, or working on handyman projects in the garage. I’ve stayed off social media for years to keep things simple and private. Because of that, I only use Signal, Discord, or Reddit to chat.

I want a deep emotional connection and a discreet sanctuary with the right woman. If the chemistry is there, I’m very open to things becoming physical as well. I don't do things halfway. If we find that spark, I will give you everything from the bottom of my heart and be a true partner in our secret world.

This is a throwaway account, but I’m happy to move to Signal or Discord once we build some comfort. If you’re looking for a kind, open-minded man who values discretion and realness, I’d love to hear from you.

To make it easier for both of us, just some ice breaker questions for us to start a conversation :)

1. As an introvert, I value quality over quantity. What’s one topic you could talk about for hours if you were with the right person?

2. What’s your favorite 'hidden gem' spot in Calgary for when you just need to get away from the world for an hour?

3. I’ve been off social media for years. What’s one thing you wish you could delete from the internet forever?

35 M, married, can't change anything in life, but looking for a genuine long term connection.

I’m 35, and living in Calgary, AB - Canada. I’m at a point where life feels pretty draining. I’m married and my situation is what it is, but I’ve realized I can’t keep going without affection and attention. I’m more open-minded than most expect, and I’m looking for someone who sees beyond the traditional boxes.

I’m a natural introvert and it takes me a bit of time to open up and adjust to new people. But once I’m comfortable, the fun and extroverted side of me definitely comes out. My hobbies are pretty simple: gaming, hiking, and teaching myself to be a handyman around the house. I’ve stayed away from social media for years now to avoid the noise, so I mainly just use Signal, Discord, and Reddit.

I want a discreet, emotional connection first, but I’m definitely open to things becoming physical if we build that trust and chemistry. I don’t do things halfway. If we connect, I’ll give everything I can from the bottom of my heart to be true to what we have.

This is a throwaway for privacy, but we can move to another app once we both feel safe. If you’re looking for a sincere, quiet guy who will treat you with real heart, send me a message.

To make it easier for both of us, just some ice breaker questions for us to start a conversation :)

1. As an introvert, I value quality over quantity. What’s one topic you could talk about for hours if you were with the right person?

2. What’s your favorite 'hidden gem' spot in Calgary for when you just need to get away from the world for an hour?

3. I’ve been off social media for years. What’s one thing you wish you could delete from the internet forever?