u/exilesamongyou

My first gangbang this weekend, looking for advice!

So it’ll be my first gangbang with one other woman this weekend. It’ll be 8 guys for us with some light bondage/rope, lots of impact play, and just general manhandling. The guys are all vetted, clean, and have a clear written outline of our limits.
What I need most advice about which is semi-embarrassing is the DP part. I usually only do anal with boyfriends and though I like it a lot and want to enjoy it this weekend, I need lots of warmup. Also about the other part lol…should I do an enema? Liquid diet beforehand?
I just want to be as prepared as possible and my ass ready!

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u/exilesamongyou — 3 days ago
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I need some guidance specifically with messages on Fetlife

First things first, I am not hot. I do not have delusions about what I look like or who I am.
That said, as a natural redhead on Fet, I have received a beautiful array of the most ridiculous messages over the last ten years.
Would it be in poor taste to collect some of these messages (obviously all completely anonymous) for a sort of anthology? There is no goal to shame, embarrass, or criticize with it but solely to document. There are so many facets of history that are studied & recorded; war, politics, art, music, etc., and I just feel like that some of these messages are a true representation of the humanity, sexuality, and the little secret parts that actually make us human.
I don’t know.
I don’t know what to do with all these confessions - I am too frail to keep them.
Would anyone be interested in creating a little book or something?

Edit: So number one I guess I have to write a book now (what the fuck else am I doing?)
Number two: YOU ALL ARE HOT AND BEAUTIFUL and I don’t deserve you. Thank you for the sweet compliments, you have no idea how much it means to me. I love you dirty little birds, it’s nice to know I’m not alone.

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u/exilesamongyou — 12 days ago